I get socially rejected by other trans women pretty much. It makes me very sad but lately the resentment has started to turn into incel tier thoughts. It's all platonic resentment though. Tips on being cool or charismatic? I basically have 0 social anxiety I just don't really know what to do.
>>42347973Fuck other people nobody cares about them. Just find people you actually vibe with and vice versa. Most people aren't actually that interesting, even if they think they are
>>42347973There are some good books that go over this“The like switch”“Never split the difference”Read about using empathy, body language, and think about how people successfully frame things. The most charismatic person I know taught me a lot of it is just finding ways to get people to talk about themselves.The whole thing is sort of like exercise where the advice is simple, but consistent practice is hard. Actively listen to others, mirror what they say subtly. Think of questions to ask them and drive the conversation forward. Look for small tells in their face if they are interested with how things or going and dont be scared when theyre disinterested especially when you begin. I am an actual autism diagnosis who has had to learn socializing like studying a course material. It feels unnatural to me, after practicing though I have gotten better at keeping people’s attention for longer spans of time. Not perfect, but better than a wall flower. It helps that estrogen made me look prettier
>>42348018Hey I actually appreciate this. I'll pirate those books. >Actively listen to others, mirror what they say subtly. I remember hearing this from a video back during covid.
>>42347973its a huge blackpill when you realise trans women will reject you if you dont have any kind of feminine appeal, they just see you as a fake tranny based on your appearance.
>>42348237OP here. I could explain some of my internal feelings and display my ugly internal world about this point you made. But then in doing so people would go "no wonder other trannies reject you, your heart is poison".
>>42348237For me it's the zero effort shitters. Idgaf if you're the biggest ogrehon on the planet but if you don't even bother to shave I won't have anything to do with you.
