I'm an adult male into other adult males but I hate gay men and gay male culture and find the idea of using grindr and snuffies or whatever deeply repulsive bcz i'm lowkey demisexual in regards to men or whatever and only ever develop crushes on (intellectual, thin, white, straight) men I've met platonically.. how do I end up dating a man in like a slowburn romantic bl friends-to-lovers way where we spend months not realizing our mutual attraction instead of getting molested by an internet hookup
>>42352440You can find men to date on grinder, or tinder. Just be clear what you want and be patient.
>>42352440just log off atp
>>42352440fembrained yngmi
>>42352440you cant, you can take estrogen and become a woman or accept your fate as a disgusting faggot man. personally im turning asexual
>>42352440the only way into that is to meet people organically however you see fit. in person events like anime cons, playing social vidya like MMOs, you gotta meet them in person and click and keep hanging out until the romance happens. I love that route I been down it and its how I got my BF, the strangers to friends to inside joking yappers to wait you feel.... to lovers
>>42354337This kinda>>42352440There are a few cities across the world where you can probably have that type of relationship but for most gays, itll never happen. People online will still act like homophobia doesnt exist
>>42352440Good luck you'll have some rapehomo bullying you and calling you a bottom, just because you are a romantic that likes pretty men. Or they will imply you are a tranny. Homos are actually pretty mean.
Thankfully I have found out it's twink4twink or prettyboy4prettyboy.
>>42354869>Homos are actually pretty meanWhat?!?!?!!!! No???!
