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Why should I troon out just to "improve my life" or make myself happier? What does it matter how good or bad my life is, whether I was happy or miserable? You die at the end anyway. Life is miserable and shit either fucking way.
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>>42357623
you only get one life, stupid. if you're going to be miserable either way why not just do what you want anyway
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>>42357623
Stop fucking worrying abt it. Personally half took the trans pill, then realized gender is fake and i don't *need* to be hyper fem trans fem to be valid.
Live and express yourself how you wanna, you don't have to troon out if it seems like a burden, just live how u want and except what it comes with, could suck ass you just gotta find what makes you happy.
But for fucks sake stop being a hopeless faggot and complaining abt ts.
Take more agency in you or own life.
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>>42357653
because you cant do whatever you want, that logic is how you end up with balding hons wasting their life pretending to be women because they think that "you only have one life" bullshit. passoids troon out because they know they can make it. you have severe limitations and if you dont learn that you will learn it the hard way over and over again until you meet your final limitation and die.
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>>42357666
666 proves it
why make your life worse for nothing
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>>42357666
truthnuke supernova
pinkpillers believe that all dysphoria is created equal and needs to be treated with transition or else it'll metastasize like a cancer
the truth is that lower-dysphorics who have made it long enough without transitioning and have a really poor starting point are better off not transitioning, because the pain of realizing the truth of what they missed out on will only become worse if they do
"I saw the TV Glow" and the culture around it is a genuine cancer. never forget that they want to make more hons
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>>42357666
>balding hons wasting their life pretending to be women
dawg obviously they do this because the alternative is much worse. being a repper is senseless torture, and it is entirely self inflicted unless you live in syria or something. you really think a life spent looking ugly but living genuinely is more of a waste than one where you get to look normal but are living a lie and preventing yourself from doing anything you want? get a grip dude. my condolences if you actually do live in syria though
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>>42357704
Life is a waste no matter what. Die with at least a shred of dignity
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>>42357711
remaining miserable to avoid rocking the boat is by no means dignified
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>>42357711
You have other issues to worry abt before trooning, your just depressed in the first place. Go to a therapist or figure out why life is worth living. Unless it's actually related to the fact you think you can never pass in which case your just a pussy.
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>>42357719
easy for some to say but fact is that it is when the cost of rocking the boat when you gambled wrong is the boat sinking and you drowning with it
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>>42357704
its odd that you assume that taking hrt is the way to not be miserable when plenty of no hopers troon out and are just as miserable if not worse off because it isnt enough and makes you a visible sexual minority
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>>42357730
nice metaphor but what are we actually talking about here? people looking at you funny in public? maybe your family disapproves? don't say getting hatecrime murdered because you've said it yourself that life doesn't matter. you are letting yourself be dominated by these fears and trying to spin it as though lying down and taking it demonstrates dignity when in fact the opposite is true. dignity would be doing what is right for you regardless of how others react. there is absolutely no glory in conforming
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>>42357762
yeah theres tons of glory in being disliked by most people, embarassing your family, becoming homeless and eventually being forced to take drugs or kill yourself because of stress
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>>42357767
whatever man i'm sure everyone likes you now, and 'embarassing your family' actually means something important, and you are completely stress free as a repper. i don't really care what you end up doing with yourself but i do hope you can at least take some control and make a choice for yourself instead of sticking with whatever was prefigured for you. best of luck
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>>42357724
A therapist couldn't tell me anything I haven't already worked out on my own. I'm an avoidant narcissist with unprocessed grief from my father dying. What exactly am I supposed to do to fix that? Drink less pepsi?
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>>42357824
to me its like telling someone in a slum to just go get a slave job 16 hours a day for a dollar so they can afford to eat and thats a better life than doing nothing. Better by what metric? Autonomy isnt the only factor here.

>i dont really care what you end up doing with yourself

At least you can be honest about your telescopic altruism
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>>42357830
Your supposed to figure your shit out like everyone else in life. We all manage to get through. You either fix yourself, with whatever means works for you, but you gotta figure it out on your own. Or you can just wallow in your sorrow and self pitty end be miserable until you give in. Like which sounds more appealing. Everyone sometimes feels like some emotion in their life is insurmountable, but they find a way eventually. You just have to get over it, as simple as it sounds. You just have to find a way to keep going.
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>>42357873
>You have to get over it

yes thats what we're saying, you have to get over the tranny thing and give up when it isnt meant for you.
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>>42357879
Nah, they got other problems b4 they even approach the tranny shit. Get your life together first. Sounds more like a midlife crisis.
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>>42357867
>telescopic altruism
i'll be really honest with you, there's nothing altruistic about it. i hate arguing with reppers and i'm not sure why you guys always make these threads when you don't want to hear anything. only reason i came in here is that repper moping is effective at baiting out a response from me because it sounds like things i used to write and that i cringe when i look back on.

and in fairness to myself what i meant by the line you quoted was that i don't care whether you troon or not, not that i don't care if you kys or however you interpreted it
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>>42357920
My point is that in order to help someone you have to know something about them and actually want to try and help them and that takes a kind of patience and humility that you dont have and obviously dont care to have. Which is fine its just like, why do you expect your advice to help anyone if you dont actually care about what they do? Its purely dismissive. Reppers suffering is unique to the individual in any case so I think we're talking past that.
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>>42357967
yeah you're right anon. i come to this site to vent feelings because i can be freely mean and adversarial here, sorry to take it out on you when you're hurting. for what it's worth, isn't what you're looking for exactly a therapist? (referencing >>42357830) i do recognize that a lot of therapists aren't good at their jobs but surely you can find one that's better than 4chan
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>>42358054
thats ok, this whole website is a dump. years ive been on here and never made a single lasting friendship, never got anything out of it but regurgitating my own vomit with a bunch of other doomers.

im too poor to go to therapy and i doubt the free ones would be any good for how bad i am. besides i dont really believe it helps much. what helps is actually living life. i just have to do things that arent on here.



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