>>42363827
I’d kill anybody you want anon

>>42363827
I like being loving and caring but also whispering "faggot" in a transgirl's ear with a teasing and loving inflection hits a part of my soul that nothing else can.

>>42363838
No! Bad girl! You're supposed to say "I'll find something worth living for with you by my side" or something like that.

They know they're males, dude
They have male brains
Male paraphilia
and a lifetime of conditioning to hate themselves


these are not "girls" or "women", who have also become monstrous things since 4th wave feminism

Can relate, you need to find an ex-gayboy not a jeep

I want you to rescue me from this tall place

>>42363867
girls and women dont act the way op wants either though. if anything men would be more likely to provide that.

>>42363827
>I want you to hold me and let me cry a lifetime of tears into your chest!
Me.

>>42363860
I don’t need a reason to live with you by my side and i will kill anybody you want gone

>>42363907
VGH!

BE NORMAL!

>>42363879
Exactly
Romance is dead

It's psycho tranny BPDemons or googoo gaga baby-acting trannies, not like, nuanced feminity from the 1890s where romance was a real thing.
Your average AFaB / woman partner will demand money, chores, getting the ice cream for her, and many other dumb things but never with emotional requests to simply be there
That is dead

Trannies and women are mercenaries

>>42363925
owned epic style

>>42363827
sometimes when a girl says "i want to be hurt" what she really means is "i dont feel like i deserve to be protected or cared for". transgender people are literally an oppressed minority so theyve literally been taught their entire life by all of society that they are lesser than, and deserve less than other people. like, since they were children. its hard not to internalize that. it doesnt mean theyre bad girls, it just means theyve been hurt a lot.
i mean there are also just straight up freak masochists out there too but like, thats not ALWAYS what drives that behavior lmao
>nuanced feminity from the 1890s where romance was a real thing.
were you there?

>>42364008
>sometimes when a girl says "i want to be hurt" what she really means is "i dont feel like i deserve to be protected or cared for".
>it just means theyve been hurt a lot.
Ok, but what am I supposed to do about that? These people push you away when you try to help, and only want you when you mistreat them. How are you supposed to live with someone like that in your life?

>>42363917
I got you

>>42364038
with acts of great bravery and honour duh

>>42364038
My strategy is to love her fiercely until she either leaves or breaks and is domesticated into wifehood.

>>42364206
How many have left and how many have been domesticated?

>>42363827
i want someone to bathe me and dress me and feed me and overall take care of me like a child or a pet but i feel like that's asking too much and it's easier to imagine finding someone willing to hit me.

>>42363827
i want to be hurt because i want to be cared for. i want to be degraded because i want to feel protected. i want to feel used because it means i belong. they're the same thing to me.
i really liked being negged by him desu. it made me feel like he loved me.
also i will cry into their chests but i don't care about masculine feats. in response to that kind of stuff you'd just get a condescending smirk because i find it cute the way men like to show off.
>>42364008
this isn't me. i don't want some random guy to use me up and throw me away. i'll never do that. i am a freak masochist who enjoys pain in itself though.
>>42363925
>we must retvrn
those women would get the ick if you showed any emotional vulnerability in front of them. and they were such emotional children themselves you had to hit them to keep their hysteria in line. they also only married for wealth, so they never truly loved you.

>>42364245
0 and 0 I can only ever get cis girls

>>42364038
>Ok, but what am I supposed to do about that?
it really depends on what kind of encounter this is desu. if the girl is just seeking casual sex/hookups, there's really not much you can do, and you shouldn't force it bc i think that kinda crosses a boundary. but if this is someone whos actually interested in entering a RELATIONSHIP with you...

this might sound fucked up but to an abuse victim, willingly allowing someone to hurt you is a sign of love and trust. it is a way of offering a connection. this might sound kind of generic but you could try roleplaying it. having a safe word gives her a sense of control and helps build trust. if you dont want to do that then you could try doing something more mild that might scratch the same itch. like, playful teasing or even slight bullying, so long as you're both "in on it" (ie its consensual) pretty much anything is fair game so long as it doesnt cause lasting harm.

>These people push you away when you try to help
this is also fucked up but lmao, sometimes kindness feels more dangerous than cruelty, hell, sometimes it actually straight up IS more dangerous. "kindness" can have all kinds of strings attached, can be revoked at any time, can have unseen conditions, and can be used to make someone let their guard down. these girls dont just feel unsafe to receive your assistance, they feel unsafe to even WANT your assistance, as it ironically places them in an even more vulnerable position where you can later deem them unworthy once theyve started depending on you, in which case she will be made to feel extremely foolish for trusting you. it's a really dangerous gamble from her perspective to allow you to break down her walls. honestly my advice would be to respect a girl's boundaries and try not to "help" her more than she wants you to. allow her to set the pace when it comes to opening up and trusting you. patience is key. when she needs your help, and trusts you enough, she'll let you know.