i had a work social thing and my coworkers were joking about certain high-profile cis women being "men" and making up pre-transition names for them and it was super fucking uncomfortable. i'm mtf but pretty much never out myself, it's not the first time unaware cis normies have said transphobic stuff in front of me but it hit harder for some reason. seeing everyone laugh at the idea of a woman having been born male as if it's hilarious was genuinely kind of stomach-turning. idk what to do because i need this job to save for SRS and stuff but i feel like i can barely look any of them in the eye now, plus i'm beginning to find the work culture kind of sexist and conservative in general (stuff like guys being able to wear hoodies and jeans without anyone caring, but women getting called into a meeting with HR if our skirts are too short because it's not "business casual") and it's hard.
>>42364343That really sucks. I’m not even a tranny, but every place I’ve worked has had a weird sexist, toxic work culture that makes even me a bit uncomfortable. I wonder where you even find a job that isn’t fucked like that, if they even exist.
>>42364343if men came in with short it'd be inappropriate too. showing skin in the workspace.
