>>42385212
don't. you're no better than those ugly porn addicts. and I don't mean that in a rude way, just that a lot of those people who you describe feel the same way you do. its easy to think you're different because you're not unattractive, but you're all doing basically the same thing, and doing what makes you happy.

>>42385212
who are u trying to impress op
u can just be a femboy and not be a gooner weirdo u know

Nonbinary and enbie are the only gay terms that matter for gender nonconforming faggots.

It's a litmus test on whether you're worth giving a fuck about. "Femboy" troons refuse this label because it implies transness, and it's frankly quite annoying. You're not special lol. People smarter than you figured this shit out decades ago, but you reject it because "nooooo I'm not a tranny"

How about you kys femboy

>>42385212
>>42385559
>wants to make friends with lgbt people
>is a fucking medically transitioning tranny since 16
>refuses the correct label of nonbinary transfem, coming across as a deranged closetcase or potential repressor, both massive red flags for all trannies to run away
>wonders why nobody talks to him

I at least hope you don't use he him pronouns

>>42385559
how about not wanting to be called non-binary because it's a fucking stupid way to pretend to be different wrong your real sex without actually being trans.

>>42385597
>anti nonbinary rhetoric
>outs himself as transphobic
Hence why you have no friends in the LGBT community. Problem identified, "femboy" :)

You're literally the problem, and you're welcome lol

>>42385612
I'm not OP

>>42385635
I don't care

>>42385212
The solution is to touch grass. No, I'm serious!
Forget about online "friendships". None of those are real. Get out in the real world.
You will soon find out that the separation is between online and offline.
Online there's shitposters, scammers, porn addicts and mentally ill people.
Offline there's fewer scammers, a lot fewer mentally ill people and the shitposters are funnier, because shitposting IRL requires skill.

Also forget about the labels. Pick what you like if you must and that's it. You don't owe anyone explanations.

>I was out as trans since I was like 16
gwitwm
Would've been nice to have access to hrt so early.

I'm a guy. Been on hrt for ~13 yrs by now on and off to prevent boobs. I like that I look much younger than other 35+yo guys. I like that I can "girlmode" from time to time for aesthetics and fun. But I also like having a functional dick and a sexdrive (even if lower than the median man). So... hrtfemboy.

Who gives a shit if a bunch of terminally online weirdos don't like it or disagree? Will they pay my bills? Will they love me? Or comfort me when I'm down? No? Then who tf cares?
The only people that will be there for you when you need them are the people for whom you've been there for them and have met and spent a lot of time with each other IRL. That's it.

>>42385643
OP specifically stated transitioning felt wrong, and wants to identify as male. you're the one trying to tell him his feelings are wrong.
wanting to identify as male or female is the case for everyone who isn't lying to themselves to be different, nobody else wants to identify that way

>>42385559
desu I totally blanked on nonbinary as a label lmao. ig I could try it
>but you reject it because "nooooo I'm not a tranny"
I'm not a coper like that lol ik I'm basically trans
>>42385578
>I at least hope you don't use he him pronouns
I do........

>>42385699
Using he/him pronouns as an obvious tranny just gives people the ick tbhon. It means you're a repressor or just something is going on that needs to be unraveled, and most people just want to avoid helping an early self discovery person find themselves if it does turn out to be that they were a trans women all along. I myself struggled to make friends until I actually started socially transitioning.

I was trolling your thread earlier for fun. Sorry. I genuinely recommend identifying as a they/them nonbinary though if you want to make queer friends. It might make a difference. At the very least, you're more likely to be chased by queer people, cis and trans, who appreciate nonbinary trans fem folk.

>>42385212
Femboy was already a word invented for people to distance themselves from the word tranny. Any new word you come up with will eventually become cringe too.

>>42385699
>>42385746
And also like you genuinely don't have to be a trans woman too if you don't want! In the gender studies sense of the literal word though, you are a "trans" person.

I'm a nonbinary trans person. But like you have to admit there's some level of cognitive dissonance going on that you're taking femininizing hormones, walking up to other people who do the same and go by she her and prefer avoiding to think about being male, and going "hi my name is x I'm he/him".

You're not wrong for identifying as a femboy. But I think there's an obvious reason why trans people avoid them. It's like the elephant in the room of someone literally being "trans" but refusing the label.


I personally found identifying as nonbinary very helpful in that regard. I also don't feel like a woman. I am a trans person though and I am trans fem.

>>42385762
This anon gets it
>>42385784
Cont
It's like, the term literally was invented by early transition trans women to avoid being called a tranny on the internet, because somehow for weirdos online it was less gay to call trannies boys than just call them women.

Almost all trans fem people who identified with this term aged out of it. Its ridiculous to be 5, 10 years into femininizing hormone therapy and call yourself a "boy" lol. It feels like a fake online construed identity, and not a real person or culture that exists irl. It's a mask people wear when they don't know what to call themselves, and specifically think to themselves "I can't be a tranny", often with some internalized transphobia.

Trans women might often see their early transition selves in "femboys": they scream repressors. Even worse, the culture displaces trans aesthetic and achievements onto a group that is then coopted by cis people, and also jarringly a lot of right wing people. Idk. I hear femboy I think covid Era cringe tranny politics chuds and see someone trying to avoid saying to other trans people "I'm trans", and that puts me off.

Not all trans people are trans women. Like it's okay to be nonbinary. "Femboy" doesn't feel like an identity and almost all self described femboy troons mald out if you suggest to them that they're men. Take that what you will.

>>42385746
>>42385784
>>42385832
how many kids have you groomed, sir? must be an impressive number with that amount of absolute bullshit

>>42385876
I'm talking to someone who's already taking hrt. I couldn't give less of a fuck about malding repressors whose hair follicles are falling out by the hundreds every night. It isn't worth my time convincing retards to take their antidepressants. It is, however, worth my time convincing a literal trans fem to not be retarded and correctly describe himself as a trans fem and probably a nonbinary they/them.

The poster I'm replying to is literally trans, you know that right? They're not questioning medical transition. They're questioning social transition.

If you don't want to take estrogen then don't take estrogen. I don't give a fuck. I do give a fuck when members of my community use a self harm term "femboy" that was invented by pedophile alt right gay men who are too fucking pussy to call a tranny a tranny because it might crack their psyche while they're gooning.

>>42385922
>members of my community
you can drop the larp now, seriously.

>>42385212
Say you're a tomboy and a cis woman

>>42385784
lol I see your point abt the pronouns. thx for writing so much I'll rly consider it <3

Honestly OP I want to give you some brutal advice as a queer person: you should want to distance yourself from femboys because they're associated with repression, the alt right, misgendering trans women, an aesthetic based around being a "boy" whatever the fuck that means (weird pedophilia associations), and a plethora of other awful dogshit, anti queer, anti LGBT rhetoric.

Considering you're describing other trannies and queer people as "gross fetishists", it seems like some of the actual 4chan brainrot has infested your head. You're boxing shadows, and using gender terminology that nobody uses irl. It's off-putting, and especially if you make transphobic comments like you did in your OP post.

Do you seriously think you are better than someone who fucking masturbates? Really? Do you know how much of an alt right prude you sound like? And then dropping he/him pronouns on top of that would just be the nuke for me, personally, irl.

Genuinely, not surprised you're struggling, and I hope you touch grass, log off 4chan, and stop internalizing all the rot. You're a good person, but don't let the internet ruin your mind or your chance to be queer. Nothing kills your chances faster in the queer community than being a self loathing gay who projects it onto others. You fear fetishists because they're a mirror.

>>42386005
>Do you seriously think you are better than someone who fucking masturbates?
Not OP but that's a wild accusation even by the neurotic standards that you show in the rest of your comment.
Aren't we all masturbating at least from time to time?

>>42385965
You think I'm larping but I'm sincere and that's what makes my posts so sad and pathetic

>>42385980
Alternatively if you say you're a pooner you'll also get a different type of pervert you will like more. Not because pooner chasers are better but because they're more focused on your feminine than male traits

>>42386030
Not that anon but op literally only said femboys are porn addicts who wear skirts.

Do you know how fast my gock would deflate if another trans person said that to me irl? Holy shit.

>>42386064
nta but that’s what people think I am it’s not too bad. Honestly at the end of the day all that matters is if you’re attractive trans or not to everyone

>>42385212
>another post calling me an ugly agp porn addict
haha thank you!!! thanks!!!!! thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>42385212
what is the source of picrel thats really good

>>42386005
>>42386144
>>42386259
I don't mean all femboys are porn addicts, just that there's a vocal minority with no self awareness who give the term a bad reputation. like this >>42385407

>>42386284
They're just ugly. If they were hot this video wouldn't even exist.

>>42385212
a theyfab, nonbinary, or a trans woman. but sadly, as long as you are visibly femboy-like there might not be a way out of the ugly porn addict gaze. you could probably try making yourself look like a dyke if youre fem enough and see if it works

>me cause calling myself a femboy gives them the ick T^T
ok you definitely have to start calling yourself a woman

>stopped after a few years cause it just didn't feel right :/
Retarded

>>42385212
Do you look like a cute ftfemboy like the tiktok ones if not ngmi