How can I tell if a tranny on a dating site (who discloses her trannyness after some back and forth) would keep quiet about being a tranny or if they would be loud about it? How do I ask this question without offending her? I have aspergers and I don't know how to do this.
>>42392111i guess in the interest of answering your question... you could ask her who she's out to in her life. but op, this seems pretty rude. would it be bad if a tranny was "loud about it"? why? are you ashamed to be dating a tranny? thats not very nice.
>>42392111Ask her to take the quiz that compares your assimilation vs liberation values or whatever, if she's high assimilation then she will keep it a secret
>>42392143I have gone through the various paths here and essentially she can't be out (except for one path that I don't know how to deal with).In short, everyone I know of would heavily disapprove and I don't know her or love her enough to sacrifice everyone I already know for her. So logically she can't be out if we want this to work out.And thank you, your suggestion is really good. It seems to obvious now. Wow, you're good
