Where do you find a monogamous healthy t4t relationship? Are we doomed to Discord LDRs until we eventually u-haul together? Do we have to start out with one of poly or unhealthy until things improve and we mature? Any feedback appreciated.
>>42396157here's how i did it>get engaged>troon>get married>partner poonsin that order
>>42396170Interesting. So the transbian equivalent is to somehow tolerate dating a repper for a couple years?
>>42396237sure why notthis is why bi4bi is maximally based btw
>>42396272Unfortunately not bisexual despite my best efforts, so I'll have to hear other options before deciding.
>>42396237>>42396272i mean. okay in seriousness i was pretty insufferable while repping. but i think this worked because we could already more than tolerate each other at our worst so it only got better afterward
>>42396285to be clear this is a funny statistical anomaly, not serious advice. my real answer is go to bars or ganing groups or wherever else troons go irl
>>42396297*gaming, obv
>>42396297Don't worry, I'm not that desperate.Yet.I do intend on trying to meet people IRL more, but finding someone monogamous, age appropriate, somewhat well-adjusted, and compatible with me feels like a borderline impossible task.
>>42396157I've been asking myself this same question recently. I think step 1 is probably finding irl trans friends who aren't polyamorous or basement dwellers desu, it's easier to make connections from there and it means you won't end up on some codependent bullshit. Beyond that idk. Luck? Going to local queer events or bars? Uni if you're able? I've had two gfs before, met the first one on a /tttt/ adjacent server and she was over a border from me but we made it work for a while (ended horribly) and the other I met on grindr, we eventually moved in together, then broke up a while later. I think both of those methods kinda suck and are awful but idk what else there is. Odds are looking bleak, I think for me personally the best bet is long distance best friend liminal situationship unfortunately
>>42396157idk ive been hoping for a relationship for a while. i thought it might be cute to do t4t but idk anymore. Everytime I try dating I get insulted in some way. I think the only way you can find a healthy relationship is to just be really cautious and get lucky. i havent been so lucky so im at the point of considering myself unlovable. I feel like I shouldve stayed in my abusive relationship because it at least meant I was loved.
