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I genuinely believe that I am not experiencing any innate gender dysphoria, but rather exclusively pseudo gender dysphoria. There has to be a way how one can get rid of it.
There is this video that perfectly explains pseudo gender dysphoria uploaded by Noah (formerly Sydney)
https://www.tiktok com/@sydney_speaks/video/7530429881344216350
tl;dw: Pseudo dysphoria is dysphoria which is not innate, but is rather caused by the belief that one is trans despite that not being the case.
In my case I am basically constantly trying to imagine how dysphoria is supposed to feel like for a trans woman, only to then incessantly gaslight myself into believing that I feel more or less the same.
Is there any way how I can stop myself from doing this?
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>>42398467
transition
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buy an ad
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>>42398511
How would transition help with pseudo dysphoria?
I won't be able to keep being pseudo dysphoric for the rest of my life, and when this phase ends for me, I'll realize that I've transitioned for the wrong reasons, and that I'll suddenly want to detransition. I'd like to avoid that if possible, which is why I'm trying to find a way to get rid of my pseudo gender dysphoria asap, since despite being fake, still is making me dysfunctional
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>>42398528
I'm not Noah(Sydney), nor do I care about promoting his(her) videos. That video just perfectly describes what I am experiencing
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>>42398590
what if its like this forever? are you excited to be a bald old man
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>>42398752
>what if its like this forever?
I kinda doubt that. If it were real dysphoria, then it wouldn't have only started after learning about hrt and trans people

>are you excited to be a bald old man
No, but nobody is excited to be a bald old man. I also wouldn't be excited to be saggy old lady.
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I think agp is rooted in some developmental trauma around femininity within oneself. So maybe looking at that would be helpful?
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>>42398467
>detransitioned male
>looks like a lesbian
>talks like a genderless alien

yeah ok bro
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>>42398467
>psuedo dysphoria
>look inside
>its dysphoria

i think a lot of harm has been done by convincing people that being trans is something you are born as and that its innate and unchangeable. Thats why this person thinks their dysphoria being subjective doesnt count.
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>>42398898
I'm not even agp though. Never found the thought of being a woman sexually arousing.
I just can't stop feeling like I'm supposed to be dysphoric for whatever reason
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>>42398993
But if dysphoria is not innate and unchangeable, then couldn't it just be willed away?
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>>42399032
It can be willed away, but only if you're a trender in the first place
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>>42399731
I definitely am a trender. Guess I just have to find how to will it away. I probably just lack grit
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>>42398467
i always thought im not trans once i realized im actually trans i was still kinda in denial

i talked to friends about it and came out to my closest friends

but i was still wondering if i’m really trans. i kinda „transrepped“ for years , only after six years after realizing i was trans i decided to get on hrt and even then i was like „what if i’m not trans though“ now it’s been almost three years and i have thought many times that i should just drop the hormones and live as a man. but that thought always gave me heavy distress once the estrogen levels dropped slightly

guess i just want to be cis. being a straight cis man is way way better than being a tranny in my eyes. but well, here we are
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>>42400226
How did you know that transition was right for you, except for feeling worse when your E levels dropped?
I've been on and off hrt multiple times, and I've never felt any different regardless of my hormone levels
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>>42398859
im genuinely excited to be a saggy old woman. witch at halloween and fucking the other old ladies? lmao
>>42398993
cosigned
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I'm like 5 months hrt and wonder what if im not trans. Like what if I get reverse dysphoria like some of the posters here.
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>>42398966
How are detransitioners more fem than transbians?
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>>42400568
>fucking the other old ladies? lmao
im sorry but do you hear yourself
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>>42400538
i didnt it was more or less a gamble where i realized yep im fully trans and all those things i felt was in fact dysphoria


i always wanted to be a girl but well who didnt right? that was my thought

until i realized that feeling crippled me a lot as a kid and teen and it will only get worse

and well me approaching twink death was a moment where i knew, diy or die basically
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>>42398467
Why do you faggots always break up links with spaces like any mods actually care jfc
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>>42400802
are you kirkenuenly retarded
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>>42398467
It sounds like it's an extension of your personality disorder that is based on trying to mimic and copy what other people experience or feel. Agp is essentially male mimicry of women, which might include mimicking dysphoria.
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>>42399010
What are you? Hsts?
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>>42400838
https://www.tiktok.com/@sydney_speaks/video/7530429881344216350
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>>42398590
>when this phase ends
I thought my pseudodysphoria "phase" would end at some point after it developed at some point in my late teens/early twenties. But near enough ten years later it only got worse so I took the calculated risk of getting on hrt. idk if I'll be able to transition further than that, but don't bank on any dysphoric feelings going away after some time.



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