i am a 1y hrt boymoder. my guy friend who has a girlfriend has been acting weird. we used to be absurdly close even after i came out, but then when he started talking to her he basically stopped talking to me entirely and it made me really sad. i thought i'd done something wrong for a while, but then the difference in his behavior made me rethink things. he was so nice to me when we'd hang out individually, but then when his girlfriend was there he'd act like i didn't exist. it's so weird. my other guy friends have no issue introducing me to their girlfriends and sometimes the 3 of us hang out. it's not like i'd ever date them we're just friends and besides he has a gf too. but then a couple weeks ago we hung out and he said stuff like "i cant control myself around you" completely out of nowhere during a heated conversation. i dont know if he remembers saying it but it makes me angry. that's basically cheating and he specifically keeps me and his gf apart even though nothing ever happened between him and i romantically or sexually. he's treating me like an option and it's so weird. i just want to be friends with him, and he's said the same thing to me, but his behavior is so contradictory to it.
>>42405835nigga he has a crush on you
then why didn’t he just say anything way before he got a gf. it’s so annoying dealing with this now. does he not understand he’s basically cheating by saying this stuff now? it just feels so disrespectful. he doesn’t see me as enough of a woman to actually date me. but he’s sexually attracted to me which to him means when he’s in a relationship we can barely be friends aka im not even his friend really but some weird middle thing in his head and it annoys me. he wants both worlds
