So, I must be a goddamn space alien or something. Every gay guy I've ever been with, long term, short term, fetish buddy, serious housemates, turned out to want literally one thing and one thing alone: daily ultra-late-night penetrative sex, every night, no matter the circumstance, and I'm the bad guy for just wanting to cuddle, or not initiating enough, or taking a disgusting shit and deciding I might not put out with an ass full of shit.Like. Example. Current boyfriend. He'll come home from work, barely acknowledge me. I'll get up from study or gaming or doing housework, he'll just shrug me off to go to bed at 5PM after his office job. Okay that's fine. Then he'll get up and grab dinner and I'll try to make small talk, see how his day was, offer to watch videos or cuddle, and he'll usually say no. If I'm the one coming home from work, aching and sore from my labor and stinking of sweat, he'll act about the same, at first. But then, suddenly, at midnight, not seven hours before he has to get up for work, he'll want me in bed. He hates my snoring so I wind up on the couch and that's fine, but suddenly he'll go from "look at this cringe shit that makes me cringe, isn't it so cringe *points videos of your favorite things at you*" to "I wanna fuck."1AM, six hours from worktime for him or often four hours from work for ME, and NOW he wants to sex. My eyes hurt from being up 16 hours, having to push my car after the battery died, doing all the housework, and now I get shamed for not initiating sex at fucking 1.Why are faggots like this god DAMNIT. What do I even say to this kind of thing? Is this proof I'm just the acefag in the room?
If Tylenol causes autism does that make it gender affirming care?
>>42556535https://youtu.be/C8vKORzfshM
I think after I'm out of here I'm just gonna stay celibate.
>>42556367Many such cases...I don't know why modern gay culture is just so sex-obsessedIt's like folks forget there's more to life than just sex
>>42556367>daily ultra-late-night penetrative sex, every night, no matter the circumstancechrist is this how it is?? i want to find a nice guy but i've only ever heard that the gay dating pool is absolute hell. best of luck anon holy shit
>>42556367i wouldn't blame it on their gayness per se. my gay bf makes all the money to provide for us and still helps me with housework (or even does more than i do sometimes). i would blame it on them being tops. find a gay guy who has only ever bottomed, to be your bf, and top you. or at least someone verse. they don't have this cishet male mentality that so many gay tops have
>>42560291dated a side (as one) and it was the best thing ever
being a faggot is hell...
>>42560291Maybe some of his bad behavior was his spinal surgery last year making him feel lesser about his sex life/dominant status. But his libido is so uncontrollable, random and particular I don't even feel comfortable talking about it to him anymore because he'll just get on my case for not being a top. Like I ever portrayed myself as a top to begin with. But it really feels like all he ever does is neg and bother and fuss with me over my lack of sex obsession. It sucks.
>>42560620have you talked to him about it?
>>42560818He is one of the most unwilling people I've ever met, to talk about anything seriously. Anything I like is cringe, any serious emotions are dumb, he's like Dr. House. And he accuses me of not being serious.
>>42556367>go to bed at 5pmit sounds like his life schedule is completely out of whack and that probably has a lot to do with it
>>42561498oh god. drop him, rose. he's driftwood
>>42561545He certainly feels like it sometimes...[spoiler]Heh, Rose...always felt like I'd make a decent Rose of Sharon Cassidy.[/spoiler]
>>42561649waitshityousawnothing
>>42561649lol cass from fnv? that's gigajeepbrained my spoilfailing gingoid. but yeah, you should cut him loose. also, watch golden girls. it's south park for women. matt and trey completely ripped off several of the episodes, as well
