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Is it wrong to date a trans girl if I used to be a terf
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>>42556866
no thats kind of hot actually
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>>42556866
Yeah
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>tfw no terfy gf to brainwormremove
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>>42556877
Why do mtfs hate themselves so much
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>>42556866
cis lesbians like you keep taking angelic tgirls from us cucked pooners
i fucking hate my stupid poonchud life
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>>42556866
no, most of us probably hated trannies at some point
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>>42556866
i mean a lot of trans women used to be chuds
it would be kind of hypocritical if it wasn't acceptable
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>>42556866
No that character growth
>>42556895
Grow up
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>>42556996
Because I was born as a boy
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>>42557005
I slayed my inner pooner demon, im stronger than you
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piv = straight which is not /tttt/ related
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>"Is it wrong to [...] be a terf"
yes
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>>42557030
Why don’t you grow and realize the second you do something she doesn’t like she’ll go all terf on you and start treating you like a ma
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>>42557037
>piv
Never gonna happen
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>>42557058
>time for boyremoval luna
yeah fucking right bro lmao. your strap is really intimidating
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>>42557069
Shutup loser, where's your trans gf
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>>42557032
Thats no reason to hate yourself. Sounds faketrans to me
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>>42556866
Yes
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>>42557092
youre still a terf tho, aren't you? if you werent still a terf you would stop femrepping
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>>42557256
I'm only a little bit of a terf now and I'm not repping
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>>42556866
is it wrong to larp on the internet?
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>>42557263
youre gonna have to explain to me why you would ever want to fuck a tranny as an afab ftm terf
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>>42557284
I'm a cis fem, not a terf not a repper and its because she's cool and I like her
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>>42557302
isn't >>42557033 you, OP? if you genuinely believe you "slayed your inner poon demon," that's what freud called "repression ab ovo"
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>>42557353
I dont want to be a man, I just want male privilege. That made me think I could have been ftm but I realized I'm not. Thats not repping
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>>42557374
what does "male privilege" look like, to you? do you want to be treated like a man in social settings?
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>>42557408
I want to be respected as a threat. You can't just talk shit to a male in real life because you don't know if he'll just assault rape or kill you in retaliation.
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>>42557446
Ironically you can do this to a male as a female

We can't do anything but suffer it
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>>42556866
you must date a tgirl as reparations for past injustices
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>>42557475
You can, you're just a little bitch
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>>42557446
that's borderline dysphoria. bc being "respected as a threat" entails a lot of specific physical attributes
>>42557475
and this is male privilege talking
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>>42557493
Sure but I'd be happy being a 6'5 woman with huge muscles, being a man isn't what matters
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>>42557545
taking t would help you be a 6'5 woman with muscles, tho. just take the "love lies bleeding" pill and cope like katy o'brian
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>>42557577
No taking t would make me a greasy balding manlet that is just as weak as ever other female, just much uglier which means I lose the social advantage which is my only real innate strength and threat
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it weirds and rubs off the wrong way but i guess it doesn’t really matter since theres so many pathetic trannies
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>>42557595
it sounds more like you want the social advantage of being hot and tall rather than anything related directly to sex dimorphism. t would make you physically stronger, tho. thats just a fact. t is the reason men have more and denser muscles. take it from me, a tranny. when i was living as a cis male i could just drop and give you 25 push ups, even tho all i did was smoke weed and play vidya all day. now i can't even do a single pushup. so, no, if you took t, you would become significantly stronger than the average cis woman
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>>42556866
it isn't wrong but if you don't disclose then it's rape
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>>42556866
yes it's wrong because you likely have some of those terf beliefs left over and likely would be dating her for the wrong reasons (sexualizing her vs actually loving her). if you work through that and actually care about her it's probably fine.
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>>42557302
what if she wasn't cool and you didn't like her? what then?
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>>42556866
Being honest If I was dating you and found out about your past I would be very hurt.
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>>42557595
There's plenty of things you can do to avoid hairloss on t. Ftm twinks have perfected it.
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>>42556866
meh, who cares?
I'm a former chud incel. Now a chudette and no longer an incel. Okay, I never hated trannies per se, but never liked hons and still don't.
Love is complicated. It happens. You enjoy it or not.
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>>42556866
Individualy, no it's good to date her actually, because retribution, in the sense of returning to the right path because you were lost before, that's always good as sometimes necessary.

But it should be exceptional, if you normalize it, like a bully for whom coming to terms with what he did as a part of his healthy development and growth into a "good" person (disregarding that the victim is still functioning as a tool for them, still broken), is pure and absolute evil. If you permit others that come after you a TERF stage, it means you're evil, what you are now would still be part of a systematic process of victimisation.

Ask yourself, if you regret it because you know it was wrong, you're good. If it's because that makes you a bad person, especially in the eyes of others, you still have work to do.



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