I wish I could transfer a fraction of my self-hatred to each of the theyfabs on twt and make them kill themselves
If that's your photo, you're hot. I personally really hate the whole enby/afab bullying here though :S
>>42562251Yep it's my photo, and thanks for the compliment but the world tells me otherwise everyday.The thing about theyfabs/theymabs is that it bothers me that they pretend to understand the trans dysphoric experience. I'm not saying they don't exist, but rather that it should be known that we are very different from one another, and that we, the trans dysphoric people, are the ones who suffer the most and are most in danger. The world uses the theyfabs/theymabs to tell us "see? It's not that serious" and they prove them 'right' with all this "you don't need hormones! You don't need to transition! You don't need anything at all! Just be hecking valid!! :3"
>>42562509what about nbs that transition
i find the whole hatting theyfabs dumb, i dont think they dont feel dydsphoria. but i do think that theres a difference between someone who has to do a medical transition and someone who only changes their pronouns or doesnt transition at all. theres a shit ton of people who actually feel dysphoria but dont transition because of cowardice
You look like me but better. it's hard to put into words. like if you grabbed me and spiked the "beauty" slider without changing anything else.
>>42562516By theyfabs I refer to people who don't change or transition at all, so nbs who are on HRT or get surgeries don't fit in that term. The people that piss me off is the people that are PERFECTLY COMFORTABLE being perceived as their birth sex because they don't represent the trans community at all and at the same time, they're the part of the community that get more visibility because transphobes are benefited by perpetuating that image of a "trans person"
>>42562233I second that you're hot. I think thinning and rounding your brows would go a long way for youAnd yeah, theyfabs are annoying and set us back, but what can we do? They exist and gonna exist,just like all the other slop in this world
>>42562639Thank you, I'll try that <3Yeah usually I never get into this kind of discussions but I was especially resentful and annoying today. I wish I could live the life of a theyfab
Im amab NB and im about to go on hormones and im terrified. It feels like this identity is at the center of crazy discourse and the local queers won't accept me.
>>42562233gorgeous ftm girl
if i could transfer a fraction of my self hatred towards anyone they'd kill themselves
>>42564448I think this kind of discourse isn't so common outside the internet. The people I complained about are those who, by choice, don't change anything and have no desire to be perceived differently And yet, they feel entitled to comment on the experiences and discrimination of people with dysphoria (whether binary or NB). I wish you lots of luck on your journey!
>>42564508I'm MtF
>>42564578thank u nona
>>42562233That would unironically make the world a better place. It offends my spirit when they try to claim my pain and my struggle as their own.
>>42564589same thing
>>42562233i dont understand why so many mtfs that are years into it dont laser their beardslike do you have fucking mental problems
shave and learn how to do makeup
>>42565898I'm not really years into it I'm not even fully out of the closet. I don't have the confidence to girlmode yet, I'm a depressed stupid hon
>>42562233You look like an indian incel in a wig, is that why you hate females and want to murder them? Are you here from indianmemer sub?
>>42566047I don't hate women at all, I hate people who give a false image of what it means to be trans
>>42566079>I hate people who give a false image of what it means to be transYeah. That. That's what I feel.
>>42562233Chud-cel moder bottom
>>42562233You look like a monkey
>>42564508Seething
>>42562233try not to let people online elevate your cortisol. also whats your ethnicity, r u Latinx ?
>>42569212Honestly I feel like this is the only place where people tell the truth and this is the only place where people don't lie so as not to hurt my feelings. And yes I'm South American
>>42569295i general people on here are way more honest, still there are just as many who use this websites unique attributes to clown on others, and mess around, etc. rather than to voice their true feelings. also I understand your frustration with those people but I don’t see how harboring and cultivating the resentment you’ve expressed is gonna help improve anything, much less your mood or circumstances. (Ps I asked about ethnicity cause Im a Latino + u remind me of a girl I know.)
>>42570244I know it won't, that's why I avoid talking about these stuff in other spaces. I'm aware that a big part of my problem with these people is my own self-hatred and resentment. I know expressing these thoughts won't help me, The real root of my problems is the fact that I'm an ugly hon
Ian miles chong
>>42562509>hairline cropped out AGAINYeah you don’t passMostly because of the dumbass serial killer glasses
>>42570530Yeah it’s the ridiculous oversized man glassesI mean if you wear glasses that large it only serves to make your face look enormouser and scarier
>>42562233You pass as a cis woman
>>42570522im glad you recognize those things. if you’re truly self conscious about your appearance there are many things you can do to address and relieve yourself of those insecurities Looksmaxx, mog, watch BP edits. i don’t think you’re bad now but there is always room for improvement