my chaser bf not getting a job to help pay the rent.... he needs to hurry up and start contributing.... his tranner cant do it all forever
>>42564938A chaser who doesn't pay their share is less than worthless
>>42564966Well he does pay by being a sweet bf...
>>42564979he needs a fucking job chaser bfs are supposed to be the more stable ones
>>42564938tell him his options are to get a job or be forcefemmed
>>42564986Ok he'll get one soon but I don't wanna be too forceful and mean to him about it>>42565009wtf no
>>42565043What do you do for work nona?
>>42565093Im a data analyst...
>>42564938my man is working a 21 hour shift rn while i sit at home raise ur standards girlie
>>42565101what kind of data
>>42565109corporate analyticsinternal metrics stuff
>>42565101Cute! I'm a software dev without a chaser bf...I have a guy friend who's interested but idk I feel too insecure and dysphoric for a healthy relationship, especially with a guy half my size.
>>42565124my bf is looking for tech/software jobs too since we graduated he did in December but it's hard to get them now I just got lucky I guess haha
>>42565152Where's the area? I got mine a few months after graduation but my field is actually game dev and I had a prior stem degree... Worried about what happens when my contract is up especially since we're hemorrhaging workers...
>>42565124>with a guy half my sizedo you top him?
>>42565171SF Bay...
>>42564938chasers are supposed to take care of their tranner this is unacceptable
>>42565270Well I don't mind taking care of my bf a bit he needs to be taken care of too
>>42565204No. Ew. >>42565260RIP sorry nonaThere's lots of jobs but CoL is hell At least all the best surgeons are near you tho
>>42565287>No. Ew.why? you could probably pick him up and force yourself down his bussy even if he resists.
>>42565295implying I can even get hardI have very rare occasions where I am interested in topping and he is not interested in bottoming. also he lives several states away
My trans gf is supposed to stay in the house and remain untarnished by the labour market as she gets nice and soft for me.
>>42564938Does he take care of the house and stuff? He should probably find something, but be nice to him op if his only problem is being unemployed.Job market is terrible right now everywhere.
>>42565124nona can you get me a job and then date me?
>>42564986he's busy entering his BPDemon "omigod I migh need to transition" era
>>42564938Why are trans women losers who date other losers? Aim higher
>>42566649People aren't judged based on just monetary worth
>>42566277Ahahahahahahahahhaahahahahahahahaa I am undatable
>>42564938I would have never dated a man without a job in the first place
>>42564938i have the same problem with my bf..he lost his job and now he just relies on his tranny mommy (me)
>>42564938Chad does what Chad wants \m/
>>42565270based
>>42567223so am i we'd get along really well.
>>42569045No like I get really really bad anxiety that flares up with nerve pain and makes it so I can't engage in physical affection a lot of the times. It sucks and I hate it.
>>42569069we take stuff at your pace dw, i am pretty patient.
>>42569410Also I am gross and ugly and old and moided with big shoulders and a lot of loose skin from weight loss
>>42569448dw nona it's okayy. i'm not gonna force you into anything but trust me you're gonna find a loving partner. you are loveable <3
>>42569709I do have a friend who's interested in me but the main thing is I'm worried about not being able to reciprocate and he lives a thousand miles away.
>>42569987fair fair ⊂((・▽・))⊃
>>42570345also if I'm gonna be real I'm worried about it because I'm five inches taller than him
Same girl, I'm entering the stage where I'm starting to get annoyed at him. Always has an excuse to avoid responsibilities.
>>42570386trust me it doesn't fucking matter.
>>42570601okay but I'm really sensitive about my size because I'm a shoulderhon and he's also kind of pathetic but not in a hot way.
>>42570614well maybe not him then but dw you're gonna find someone nons
>>4257063018.5" bideltoid forced to play football in highschool, overate to cope with dysphoria and became a formerly obese lateshit hon at 25...