Is it possible ftm dysphoria is real but mtfs are more the result of a fetish? Wanting to be male seems practical but wanting female traits less so.
Both make sense. Theres advantages to both sexes and it’s cope to say otherwise, but transgenders don’t happen because they want advantages, it’s a mind-body mismatch thing. Or so I hear…
>>42572557One can penetrate and be penetrated, the other can only penetrate.
>>42572595One can penetrate and be penetrated, the other can only BE penetrateD.Sorry I just woke up, haha fuck me right?
>>42572602bed?
>>42572606uh... table?
>>42572557I think both experience true dysphoria, excluding trenders of course. problem?
>>42572614i thought it was a hidden message like sbeve
>>42572624no, just me correcting my message.
>>42572557wouldn't the opposite be true, we all start as women in the womb and due to some fucked up development your body goes male, but mind stays female, and you want to be a woman? While FtMs are more a fetish of wanting to be the societal dominant sex.
>>42572636ftms get too much testosterone on their brain from chad moms during pregnancy
>>42572650that would make them highly likely to be retarded, as high t pregnancies are not healthy lol
>>42572595oh hello are you going to call me a smooth crotched squat pisser again tonight?
>>42572661My mom told be to never be mean to disabled people, I wouldn't dare :)
>>42572660supposedly its only for a short period of time
>>42572557I either have to believe that ftm dysphoria is real or become a misogynist given how legitimately mentally unstable I am when I have higher estrogen (pre-t, missed shot, at the end of the injection cycle before I switched to 1/week)
>>42572680we can't all have powerful sword crotches
ftm dysphoria makes more sense desu. society objectifies women and doesnt take them seriously so it makes sense to not want to have those traits and be seen on equal ground to men without them coddling you for being a woman/being nice to you with the expectation of getting sex in return.
>>42572787Honestly I wonder how many ftms are just women that are naturally dominant and don’t want to be penetrated/want to be the ones that penetrate, which is impossible as a female. Like not the desire to be male but instead they feel they have to be or they won’t be taken seriously in their sexuality? Maybe that also comes with a desire to look masculine tho, cuz dom lesbians tend to like being butch. Maybe sexuality is just really tied to sex and most doms are meant to be of the male sex. Idk!!!
>>42572557Both sexes can experience dysphoria, there are plenty of genuine trans people. The difference between them is the specific nature of fake trans stuff between the two sexes. Many mtfs that aren’t really trans are doing it because of a metastasised sexual fetish that they have too heavily internalised. Many ftms are instead responding to social pressure and the trendiness of being queer or trans, see also cishet afabs who describe as pansexual as an excuse to ignore trans women’s identities and date them while still treating them as men. These also overlap with the real cause for mistakenly believing yourself to be trans:broader identity issues stemming from the mess of modern social society.
>>42572873I mean, imagine how terrible it would be to not only get raped, but to also have your rapist mock you for not being able to rape him back because of your body's inferior genitalia?He'd press his butt on your crotch and you'll do what? Rub? Bump on it?
>>42572933bruhyou have to cure your fetish
>>42572933Rape aside, I imagine it sucks as a woman or a female to want to have one type of sex you can’t have no matter what, and doing it irl would be the same as your fantasies because you can’t feel it. Even the areas of life that are supposed to be good e.g. consensual sex are bad and suck. I have empathy for ftms and just females in general if they’re not into penetration
>>42572958To be clear I also have empathy for bottom mtfs and/or males who aren’t into analt. Sexually satisfied gay top
>>42572954What are you going to do? Rape me with your smooth-crotch?(It's not my fault there's nothing on ao3 or google about my kink)>>42572958Their only salvation is to use a strapon. Which we could totally call a prosthetic honestly.
>>42572933i would put my strap inside him
>>42573035We already talked about that non, you know your plastic toy is not the same as having the possibility to use your body for penetration.
>>42572933I mean I guess if they’re sedated someone anyone could fist rape them, since rape is about violence and not sex.
>>42572557>mutated males who bleed, birth, and squirtWhat if this is my fetish
>>42573063Yeah but it would be using a standard body part, the rapist could also fist the smooth-crotch.Here it's about biological capability.
>>42573056it would be enough to rape you>>42573063i hate when people say that it's definitely about sex i have been raped
>>42572958As a top ftm, I don't particularly appreciate pity, my sex life is plenty satisfying (or well, was, given my recent breakup).
>>42573063Won't be able to impregnate him tho
>>42573135Regardless, I feel for the ones who don’t have the same luck. How does it work for you? I’m pretty ignorant on trans stuff even though I’ve been on here for a while.It’s not pity to put you down, just respect and understanding that at base things are harder whereas I often take for granted that everything fell into place for me.
>>425731602 men can rape eachother but can’t impregnate eachother yeah 2 women can fist rape eachother and not impregnate eachother yeah
>>42573231yet the man impregnate the woman, and not the other way ;-)
>>42572557I'm an MTF and what can I say, I'm just mentally ill, being tall, being big, but most importantly being the MAN is upsetting, disturbingI won't try to justify this somehow, I probably just have some kind of brain defect
>>42573223It was t4t with another ftm, but basically all of this would also apply with other options. Physically speaking, lots of oral and manual, and I drilled a hole in the base of the strap so it felt good (usually couldn't come from just fucking unless he was riding me, but I could jack off with it). Another big part is that I largely get off on power and (mild irl, extreme in fantasy) sadism, and he was extremely submissive and a masochist, which greatly helped
>>42572557Both can def just be fetishes, maybe even in most cases. More ftm trenders tho