Anyone ever had a stalker? Tell me your experience
>>42574551he kept calling my phone, signed me up to a bunch of newsletters, sent private photos of me to people we knewthe first 4 months were scary and it lasted 2 years but then he went awayhoping he's dead
>>42574551I haven't, but I hope your furby feels better soon.
>>42574551>be me, transbian>in my hoe era>ridculously horny one night and hook up with a butch cis lesbian Im not particularly interested in.>girl decides we are now a couple > i try to explain that im not looking for anything serious>she just nods and continues to act like my girlfriend.>Eventually it becomes obvious she has some serious mental health problems>friend of mine reveals that she had a bit of a breakdown when I wasnt around this one time>i dont even like her that much>I have to put in some very rigid boundaries>try to be friendly still, chat online sometimes>occassionally tries to hit on me awkwardly>move to a different city>she drives over twice in the first week with handmade sandwiches> i tell her to stop doing that, another breakdown happens>years go by> i have a relationship with another woman>sandwich maker hangs around in the background>waits until I break up and asks me out again>I decide I need a fresh start, block her>she starts mailing hand written letters to my office>they are several pages long, include gems like "my therapist told me not to send this"> bump into her in the street, request that she stop trying to contact me>for the next few months constantly get pinged by message requests from Facebook, instagram, Steam chat of all places, she keeps setting up new accounts to try and get me to respond>another year or two goes by> walking through a food court>shes there, working at a local resturant > i give an awkward nod, encourage the person Im with to walk faster>eating in a completely different part of the mall, the sandwich maker girl LEAVES HER RESTURANT and comes over to ask me to go drinking with her> i raise my hand to her face and shout "NO" since ive exhausted all other optionshavent seen her since, and I've moved countries, but I wouldnt be suprised if she now appears over my bed tonight since I have mentioned herhave some musichttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6JpaIQcASvc
>>42574551had a grindr stalker for a few years
>>42574923Super hot i wish women stalked me
>>42574935yeah I've found a lot of lesbians do this "instant girlfriend" thing, where they come on super strong and fast, like you go on one date with them and then they just act like you are in a relationship. Theres a lot of memes and shit treating this as "cute" but its actually kinda toxic and is usually less about you and more about the lesbian distracting herself from her own problemsthe example I gave is the only time It was very stereotypical stalker behaviour tho
Yeah, a couple at varying amounts of stalker-ness>be me transbien>walking home with a ton of groceries>bag rips>friendly man helps me pick some up and take it home>once he's in my house he takes his dick out and I have to threaten him with a knife to get him to leave>fast forward 1 year>friend has a psychotic break and checks herself into a hospital under a fake name>her mom tells me to pick her up>can't bc fake name>see the guy again at the hospital>He's wearing a volunteer fire department shirt >"I know who you are">Leave ASAP>Tell her she can't come back anymore>Weeks later>Get a text "I'm on your stoop">Fortunately not home that day>She texts me every time she's in the city and would come to my neighborhood specificallyNot even the most egregious. I had a former landlord who was sexually weird towards me and was trying to befriend all of my friends years later. I'm really not sure why I keep getting entangled with these weirdos but I think moving away helped as it's way less bad here.>>42574985>I've found a lot of lesbians do this "instant girlfriend" thing, where they come on super strong and fast, like you go on one date with them and then they just act like you are in a relationship.This, I hate this.
