im having a horrible time right now should i cut my hair really short or is that a precursor to being a dead tranny. my stupid emo hair that ive had since i was 15 is really pissing me off right now and ive been having thoughts about cutting it all off for months
>>42626458>should i cut my hair really shortNo, don't do this. That's just self harm, and you'll regret it. I'm not doing well either, and that's okay. It's okay to not be okay sometimes. Be gentle with yourself, be kind to yourself, you'll get through this, it's just going to take some time.
>>42626596is it self harm to want control over something in my life for once
>>42626741Not at all. But you're not in control. You're not safe right now. You need to find ways to make yourself safe, THAT'S control. When you feel these thoughts affecting you, recognize them and develop tools and techniques that help you avoid self-harm. These skills come with age and wisdom, but you should reach out to someone. This can be a friend, a family member, a professional, a doctor, a helpline. OR it could be anonymous retards on 4chan, which is what you've done. So now I'm here and I'm telling you that I love you and I care for you, and not to cut your hair because you don't want to do that. You're just not okay at the moment, and that's okay. It's okay to not be okay sometimes. This will pass.
>>42626813dude im not gonna kill myself i just hate my life
>>42626458I've done this and it's a bad idea, don't cut it really short just get a trim
>>42626458>emo bunny.jpgi seen that image on myspace
