I wish a girl would dilate with my phallo

>>42681609
what about it? it's been years since i bothered

>>42681620
This would create at least 10 never seen before infections

>>42681631
Then we leave behind a legacy

I have regular sex. Dilation is something that I did in the immediate recovery period.
It's not something that is done forever. The "axewound" /pol/ memes are, well, disinformation.

>>42681609
Use the dilators your doctor gives you, make sure you have a partner willing & able to regularly penetrate so you can move off them (around 6-12mos postop).

If you have an average/high sex drive, coming off SRS without an invested partner will be incredibly unsatisfying, and you'll make stupid clitbrained decisions on Grindr.

>>42682142
>you'll make stupid clitbrained decisions on Grindr

Never again

Had surgery a few months ago, my entire life is dilation. My entire life.

Wake up, shower, dilate with my glsss dilator for 2 hours, nap, wake up dilate with glass dilator for 2 hours, dilate with rubber dilator for 8 - 10 hours.

Fuck

>>42681609
Fetishist on /tttt/ don't do ops

>>42681609
can dilation be injoyable or fun?

is it similar to masterbaitng?

>>42683972
It depends. It was erotic from me in my first couple weeks and became just more or less uncomfortable over time.

After the first month, it was just basically self-care. I don't dilate anymore (just have sex instead), and it's gone from a relaxing evening routine to a really draining exhausting chore when I do get around to it once a month or so.

When you're postop, you'll find bullet vibes and clitoral vibes are better for masturbation. Penetration isn't really great unless it's a big dick hitting your g-spot hard and fast. Your wrist isn't really built to do that with toys.

>>42681628
i literally puked thanks

>>42681905
>I have regular sex.
which hand do you use
also do you wear a glove so your ropy veiny hand with stubble dont give you "dys" "phoria"?

>>42684116
>I don't dilate anymore (just have sex instead)
and yet you still cant use a women's bathroom

>>42682397
First three months were absolute hell. You'll get through it Nona

>>42681905
>>42682142
I still dilate once every other week because the depth I was blessed with is deeper than he is long (7.5"). I'll probably stop for good if he ever marries me though.
>If you have an average/high sex drive, coming off SRS without an invested partner will be incredibly unsatisfying, and you'll make stupid clitbrained decisions on Grindr.
This is very true and more SRS women need to be warned about this prior to their surgeries. If I didn't have a bf when I got my vagina I'd probably have a double digit body count by now...

>>42683972
>can dilation be injoyable or fun?
It's enjoyable because it's some alone time that I just spend reading. It's not enjoyable sexually.
>is it similar to masterbaitng?
No but putting something phallic shaped in my pussy generally puts me in a mood by the end desu.

>>42684299
lots of words
im guessing this just cope and you still dont pass
do you have bad hair?

>>42684309
>do you have bad hair?
What? Sir, this is a thread about dilation

>>42684116
>g-spot
What a joke.

>>42684299
>double digit body count
From ~1 to 35 for me ^_^' yeahhh
I started in July 2025 and got over it by January this year.

On the plus side, I'm almost certain I'm straight and not bi now, and I've got plenty of sexual confidence. I'm gonna go for a boyfriend later this year, at a bar or something, not on the apps.

I've got a couple of guys in my orbit but they're kind of useless distant flakes. One of them's a fun party guy with mysterious income, but he's also even more of an adhd disaster than me. Idk. I'm also old so maybe I should lower my standards lool.

I fell really hard for someone in October, and he was crushing too. But then I got really sick and couldn't see him, it was all physical, he lost interest, I yearned for at least a month ooops.

>>42684402
You don't pass.
Any guess why people here can tell?

>>42684373
Being touched inside the canal, underneath the clit feels really good. Idc if you think that makes me agp or whatevet

im so jealous of srsoids. need so bad wtf

>>42684423
It makes you not pass uncle

>>42684402
>I'm almost certain I'm straight and not bi now
Same here. Getting fucked in the pussy by a guy cleared up any confusion about my sexuality real fast...

Why not look for a man now instead of later this year, Nona?

>>42684470
I'm just shy and scared of talking, I pass ok but I'm kinda plain. Between height, rbf and being a hard 30 I don't really get attention in public, and I'm too autistic to make the first move.

It's all silly stuff like that. You're right, I might go to a local place tomorrow.

>>42684574
>I pass ok
no you don't
otherwise you'd prove it with a pic

>>42684605
So you can tear me apart? Lmao I've been here since 2019 and I was on the crossdressing forum before that, I'm not stupid.

I know what I look like. I'm pretty enough friends call me beautiful but not enough to offset my autism. When I was 22-23 I was handsome and had the full experience, stares, spontaneous compliments, free things at stores, whatever. Now I'm probably a 6-6.5. I don't need some random to come around reminding me of my grey hairs, hollow face, eye bags, enlarged pores from messing up my HRT, or whatever.

>>42684678
right so you don't pass even with SRS or whatever
so just to let youyou know people think
>"Oh. That's a Transition Gender."
when they see you

>>42684743
esl or minor spotted

>>42684605
>with a pic
You first chuddie

>>42684773
"youyou" refers to your pre and post "transition" identity
people are now calling "transgenders" Transition" "genders" and they say "youyou" when referring to "you"
it's a new thing youyou wouldn't understand unc

>>42684862
esl or minor spotted

>>42684605
your mode of reasoning is so fascinating. why would the passoids post here? this is a hellsite where they train tranny-murder AIs

Thank you OP I've never seen anyone make a thread like this before. I'm wondering if anyone has experience dilating to increase size after a long time not doing so:

Currently 5yr postop suporn method PIV, I haven't dilated regularly after 1yr and now can only take the blue comfortably (down from the orange). Hasn't changed at all otherwise in the last 4 and during that time I've had regular sex with my BF, he says it's tight in a good way. However I do think this limits us somewhat in more creative sex positions because of tightness.

So has anyone worked their way back up the dilators, did it take much longer than initial dilation schedule and were you able to eventually get to a new steady state without needing to dilate in the future?

Also anyone who can take up to the orange, does it increase your range of sex positions any or does it just help with taking larger dick?

>>42684299
>This is very true and more SRS women need to be warned about this prior to their surgeries. If I didn't have a bf when I got my vagina I'd probably have a double digit body count by now.
I just recently broke up with my bf and I'm very worried about making dumb decisions and sleeping around.

>>42684968
My surgeon didn't offer the orange in the first place, but I haven't had any trouble with positions. My depth is about 7 inches (Tilapia method).

Usually guys who fall out are physically shorter than me, small dicks, or some combination of those. But I've had basically everything with no issues.

Honestly I'd say flexibility in your hips & spine matters more than your depth. For things like doggy style, you either have to really stick your butt out, or arch your back up. The neopuss angle is weird and keeping your back straight will push him out.

>>42684968
I'm 2 and a half years post op, also with the Suporn method (Dr. Bank). I worked my way up to the orange dilator somewhere between 6 and 9 months post-op. I did stop using it for awhile last year but I can use it again after working up to it again.
I think it's very possible to gain girth but probably a lot harder to gain depth. I knew one Suporn girl who claimed to gain an inch of depth post-op but she was also a self proclaimed sex fiend who probably loved sticking increasingly large things up there...

>>42684989
Getting yourself a good collection of gooner material and a few good toys (at least one big dildo and a couple different types of vibrators) will help a lot with staving off the horny until you find another bf.

>>42685084
Hopefully I can find a bf before I go through with the surgery I'm gonna be doing piv

>>42685084
At one point I was seeing multiple people a day and sex did become noticeably easier. It was an insane pace though and it didn't last when I pulled back.

>>42685050
>>42685084
You're right about flexibility wouldn't say I'm the best but I can do doggy well, what I'm concerned about is trying to get a grinding motion going which feels much more limited. Girth is definitely the issue I'm at a bit over 6in depth which is perfect now. I could definitely use some yoga in my future for sure.

Did going up to larger sizes help with range of motion while grinding (hoping for clit to body contact during penetration, not too specific terminology but I hope you can understand what I'm going for) or is that only significantly helped by hip flexibility?

>>42685285
It helped some but I am still pretty limited in grinding motion range. I imagine yoga would help a lot more for that.

>>42685285
FWIW you can get that contact during missionary, especially if you thrust into him while he's inside. Very hot and no particular flexibility needed, so long as you're wet and relaxed enough.

For other positions - yeah work on your lower spine and hips. If you're thinking of cowgirl specifically, don't worry too much. It's a tricky one where how you sit and how tall he is matter just as much as your actual depth/technique.