What does sexual attraction or lust feel like?I've been dating a guy for 5 months and am worried I might be asexual. I'm curious how things are supposed to feel if anyone is comfortable sharing or attempting to describe it. I only really see descriptions of it through fiction or stories, such as "eyes clouded in lust" and I don't know how it actually feels like or manifests in reality to people.
>>42683417It's hard to describe emotionally - it can be a power thing, a comfort thing, an attachment thing ("mommy/daddy" kinks)...there's a lot of reasons someone can be physically atrractive.Physically: It feels like warm tingly hungry feelings around your crotch & tummy. If you're a bottom, you get ticklish feelings between your legs that get softer when you grind against him.The "eyes clouded in lust" thing; when you're really horny, it's kind of like being drunk. You can't think about anything except giving your body (or taking theirs), you feel hot and dizzy, everything contracts around you and him.Your breathing gets shallower, your skin feels much more sensitive, time slows down. For me, when the sex actually happens, it's like water after days in the desert. It's so so satisfying, and I want to wrap my body around him until he finishes.
>>42683858ugh after writing this I wish I was being railed @.@ I'll be so happy when I can get a long term boyfriend
>>42683858Thank you very much for the detailed description! yeah, I might just be broken I don't get anything like that