have bottom surgery (PPT) in a couple months and im debating if i should cancelt. bi 28yo tranner, HRT 7 yearsReasons I want to have surgery:- Am dysphoric about looking down and seeing penis,- I don't even really have sex bc I can't use current genitals (my partner is a cis les and we take turns with a vibrator for "sex" but its not the same)- Seriously I've tried to use my dick but I always get ashamed and turned off and dysphoric if she touches or even looks at it- I feel like clothes will fit better / I'll be more comfortable day to day if I dont have to tuck- I pass socially but I don't always feel like a woman mentally, having female/vulva body feelings will help- It takes years to schedule and if I cancel now it will be a long time before I get the chance again. - Like seriously girls w/ dicks are cute in their 20s but I'm almost in my 30s. Being a 30yo+ dickgirl is kinda cringe no? Imagine going to the doctor or some shit at age 50 w/ a wrinkly old man penisReasons to cancel (or delay):- I'm having surgery with RBL at NYU Langone and I'm not 100% sure that I like her aesthetics. Usually people look fine but sometimes it still looks like they have a dick? Like, the top of the neo-clit in RBL vulvas is a little big and in some cases looks really bad. In the absolute worst case its a cut-off dick stump look. - No guarantee this wouldn't happen with a different surgeon, and it could maybe be fixed in revision, but if it does happen to me I'll spend the rest of my life regretting not going for the Dr Banks / Suporn clinic lottery- Tbqh: sometimes touching my penis feels good? And sometimes I think I look cute/hot when I'm naked? Only when I'm alone and in the right mood but maybe it's a sign my sexuality issues are to some extent due to relationship incompatibility. I love my gf, we've been together for 8 years and I can't even consider breaking up with her (we want to get married) but I can't deny that I'm not 100% sexually fulfilled rn
>>42766624>it could maybe be fixed in revisionDoes the doctor you're going to offer revisions, and do you know how long it would take to get one after your primary? >I'll spend the rest of my life regretting not going for the Dr Banks / Suporn clinic lotteryI've met 50+ Suporn girls and a lot of them had minor complications and a few had major ones. Even if you switch there's no guarantee you'll have a great result. You'll likely have to pay fully out of pocket and there's no telling how many years or even decades you'd have to wait for a spot. I got mine before they re-implemented the lottery system and even then I had Chetrawut and an American surgeon as backups in case I never got that spot.>- Tbqh: sometimes touching my penis feels good?Touching your vulva feels good too, and so does sticking something in your neovag desu.>but I can't deny that I'm not 100% sexually fulfilled rnRegardless of the SRS thing you should really get this worked out together with your gf Nona.
>>42766709Chettawut*
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>>42766624cancel your surgery and dump your foid gf. get a bepenised partner to frot with. you can't handle seeing her as a normal woman and you as a tranny. get with a tranny or a man and the issues disappear without having to get mutilated. axe wounds aren't adequately described as vaginas in 2026
>>42766624>Like seriously girls w/ dicks are cute in their 20s but I'm almost in my 30s. Being a 30yo+ dickgirl is kinda cringe no? Imagine going to the doctor or some shit at age 50 w/ a wrinkly old man penis honestly this is so real i think i'll just kms in my 30s because i will never fucking afford srs
Yo what surgeon should I use
>>42768696Look up surgeon results and find the ones you'd be willing to live with.
>>42766624i would get srs (actually i already did)do you penetrate your girlfriend right now?
>>42768674nah its fake as fuck. 30+ dickgirls can be 552872 which is cool
>>42766624You're better off without the surgery desu
