PSA to ALL babytrans:>Enbies are ALL trans. The word transgender is inclusive language. It means different+gender. Its a myth that the term "transgender" has anything to do with transition. Transgender usually just means not congruent with your AGAB>Early transition is a vulnerable mental state. Tranners you'll encounter out in community at a given time are mostly as new and clueless as you. Beware: people *do* take advantage.>Learn about dissociative identity disorder, self-hypnotic delusionsand mass delusion hopefully BEFORE you encounter the offline queer community. Thank me later>The trans community has a problem with turning to political extremism on "both sides". The reasons why are fairly intuitive. That said, it is true you might learn something new being trans. Keep an open mind, but not a suggestive one. You may still dramatically shift views and this much is OK. Extremism differs from radicalism...>There are no "faketrans". Don't do dysphoria olympics. Like any other, the community has problems. You can find some friends in queer spaces, but I suggest you also find a hobby and don't shy away from the world outside trans bubbles. Nor should you replace bubbles; community is good in self-moderated doses.>No really; don't hate. You can hate ideas and dislike people, but do not hate people. For example, sure basically all cops are bad, but its systemic... it's valid to fear them or be mad, but to hate a cop (person) will lead you down a dark path. Trans history is riff with fire or flight tales. We need a new way.>Don't fall into the trap of seeking ever smaller communities and ever more specific identities to feel good. No; xenogenders aren't real actually. There's infinite genders, but they still must be logical. And yes; gender IS real and NOT destructible. On another note don't assume you're enby cuz your struggling with your identity. Genders have equal merit. Lastly, you look just fine. You'll figure it out.
>>42766702Enbies are only trans if they actually transition. People who change their pronouns and other inconsequential shit are cis. You actually need to change your sex if you want to be trans.I've been transitioning for like 15 years and with every year I only hate cis people larping as trans more. Especially trans women should avoid these people at all costs because they tend to be far more transmisogynistic than any other people you will encounter. In some ways they are even worse than TERFs because at least TERFs will stay away from trans spaces. Most of them will turn into TERFs anyways once their trans phase is over and they "detransition".Cis people who call themselves trans should be put in camps.
>>42766702Oh and also endless exploration is exhausting and bad. Please don't be that person... Its not everyone, but you do come across THAT person in trans and activist spaces....The one thats every gender... don't... pleas for the love of god, don't be this person that's all I ask. It will be so, so hard for you and everyone around you and for no reason because you've done this weird indoctrination program on yourself and it always makes me feel so, so bad because these people just can't even anything.Maybe I said that somewhere, but if you had my experiences, you would understand why it feels like it bears repeating to me at least.
>>42766727And no I'm not talking about genderfluidity which I consider valid, I'm taking about something else. You'll know it if you see it. Not always "every gende" just a lot of weird things... you'll know it if you see it.
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>>42766702I'm sorry, but there are enbies and there are "enbies" and I'm really not down with the latter being involved in the trans community. There are just too many theysheis who are using their "trans" status to empower themselves at the expense of the genuine needs of the trans community. And the fact that they seem to have no sympathy for the hardships faced by trans women, who valour they have stolen, really really really really upsets me. Like okay, you're going to steal my pain and wear it as a badge of honour because it gets you what you want, that's not cool, but the fact you can't also at least recognize my pain is really fucking upsetting. I have met enbies who are genuinely non-binary, whatever it is in their brains that does gender is more fucked up than mine, but I've also met enbie who are actually just psychopaths who've found a new way to mask their psychopathy.
>>42766702Enbies are a joke. They are people that did not have the courage to go all the way. They are people proud of failure.
>>42766784Every other minority gets to cry foul (just see the whole awards thing happening now) but the moment trans women mention that it's disrespectful to constantly have people insert themselves into our struggles when being raped and murdered in prison is the default state of the prison system right now for us but no I have to listen about how marginalized you are. Why am i not allowed to say a trans woman is speaking listen and have a bunch of libfucks clap for me?>>42767278Based transmaxxer
>>42766702>There's infinite genders, but they still must be logical??
>>42766702>The trans community has a problem with turning to political extremism on "both sides".>>42766726>I've been transitioning for like 15 years>Cis people who call themselves trans should be put in camps.topkek + OP knows about things
enbies are cis.
Enbies are enbiesNeither cis nor trans
all i know about enbies from irl experience is they are all annoying bpd retards
>>42766702only 40% of nbs identify as trans
>>42766702Transgender is a medical condition you stolen valor social justice retard touch grass
>>42766726I kind of ascribe to the m.o. of "you cant tell i wont". I'll lie to everyone else about this shit, just not myselfI dont believe in the idea of "fake trans" only in varying levels of self awareness. Out trans folks will forever get respect from me I'll never have for myself , enbies included
>>42767578NTA but I have no FUCKING idea what this means. And I really mean to fucking swear there. As a trans woman do you have any FUCKING idea the sewage I have to swim through on a day to day basis? And you're telling me you're one of us? Trans women eventually face the choice of transition or die. What choice did you face when you decided to put (they/them) pronouns on your email sig?
>>42767339>>42766702>infinite genderesActually I take that part backI'm just used to saying/thinking there's infinite genders between man and woman. But that doesn't make sense... I believe in genderfluid, gender neutral, and maybe some other similar genders, but not a lot of other ones...I don't know if there are infinite genders and take that part back. I'm just so used to conforming to that narrative now.
