Should I go to gay bars, as a bisexual male?
>>42776088depends, are you bisexual or reddit bisexual?
>>42776096I like>regular women>trans women if they are feminine and only bottom for me>sucking big cocks from masc men (but just that)
Speaking as a bisexual male who didn't prance around in my mother's heels at age 6 or any of that "always knew" meme shit, it's a mixed bag. The most comfortable experience is places that cater to older men looking for younger men because they don't care that you like women, some of them even like it, they will construct a whole narrative that you're "still figuring it out". Of course, you have to like older men. But the advantage is that everything boils down to the age gap and any cultural differences are irrelevant. And you'll be the most attractive guy in the room which is a big ego boost.Places where it's guys your age will be awkward because they'll be DEEPLY immersed in gay-specific cultural things so you'll have no idea what anyone is talking about, the music will be foreign to you (everyone will sing along to shit you have never heard in your life and look at you like you're crazy if you don't know the words), and by clothes and body language alone, people will look at you like you walked into the wrong place by accident. Not only that but it's very clique oriented. Subdivision by class and race. For me, it just feels like a flashback to when I changed high schools and it was a super insular community and I just got stared at a lot.If you live in the middle of nowhere this may be different, since there's probably like 1 gay bar in a 300 mile radius, but I'm assuming you live in the city since you said "bars" plural.
>>42776118stay off gay bars anon, thx
No. You should retain your virginity.
>>42776146Why though?
>>42776211because they’re for men into men, not men into minimal contact with men
>>42776244TRVKE
>>42776244what about frotting? that's not minimal
>>42776244I'm open to some kisses too but rarely turn me on. Also, I'm not too much into get sucked by men. I have lost my erection so many times when they tried... Anal sex with men doesn't interest me. I essentially like women and sucking a nice cock occasionally.
>>42776285>>42776309stay on grindr and leave gay bars for gay men thxI’m a tranny switch top and if my boyfriend that I met at a fag bar gave me some bullshit about not touching my dick he’d be kicked to the street like a dog
>>42776244not true. trannies go to gay bars and turn down tons of guys
>>42776346I go to gay bars to leave with sexy masc bottoms, sounds like you gotta meet cooler trannies bro. xP
>>42776088>go to gay bar>see pooner>day ruinedI NEED DICK, MAN
>>42776309>>42776341>man has specific preferences when he's with women, sometimes doesn't stay rock hard like in porn>oh don't worry bro it happens to all of us! here's a 300 page essay on methods, techniques, and resources to make your sex life better>man has specific preferences when he's with men, sometimes doesn't stay rock hard like in porn>bro, you're invading our places, stay out you broken self hating homophobe bipedo tourist! I hope you die!This is why bisexuals don't owe monogays anything, allyship or any of that crap. When the chuds come for you, I won't lift a finger to help.>but the LGBT community!There is no community, as you have just proven
>>42776341ick youre trans
>>42776554if the only interaction you want to have with men is sucking their cock you aren't attracted to men you're attracted to cock
>>42776571I'm attracted to some men: attractive ones. You're probably not, but if you've got a cock, at least you're good for something!
>>42776604we all know what "attractive" means lil bro
>>42776554>self hating homophobe bipedo touristno one said anything like this lol, it’s more like gay bars are for gay sex>>42776558womp womp
>>42776614Interesting way to announce your insecurities>>42776616So the trans women are there for gay sex? Also I thought grindr was for mindless hookups, what do you even need gays-only bars for? It's not 1955 anymore there is no need for this DL thing where you go to the special underground gay place with a colored hanky in your pocket so no one sees you being sinful
>>42776637>So the trans women are there for gay sexI’m not delusional bro, my sex with men is gay sex, my kinks especially are stereotypical jock kinks lmao. Yes I am there to have gay sex with men, I don’t get what else I’d be there for. 15 euro margaritas? It’s not about being DL or straight, it’s about it being a safe place to meet cool guys who won’t treat me like I’m a borderline anime trap for having a cock. My best friends are all fags, most are stereotypical jocks, we all bond over football and beer and sometimes have sex, it’s cool, but like most fags none want a relationship and I wanna marry a guy to only top >him< and no one else. I don’t like grindr because there’s more trans women and sissies than actual men to have sex with, that’s why I suggested it.
>>42776616i am not attracted to transition genders at alli like hairy old bald men and literally any womennow here's the kicker:i do actually like crossdressers the kind that are older and have obvious wigs and stubble and the likebut a transition gender who is just tryhard and has the weird frozen face because "they" are trying to look feminine just nukes my dick
>>42776637>Interesting way to announce your insecuritiespot meet kettle
>>42776681>we all bond over football and beer Oh yuck, the sportsball frat bro gay bar, yeah I hate that kind, you can have it. We've got a few of those here, picrel, the photographer had to stake out the place for 2 weeks and eventually hired a black guy to stand in the frame so the place wouldn't look like a University of Southern Mississippi fraternity hazing ritual.
>>42776698this is such a weird larp, you even gave yourself a name lolYou don’t really have to announce you’re not into trannies brother, that won’t make me stop having fagsex with guys who are
>>42776722lmao that black guy thing is pretty funny. But yeah that’s my fav type of fag, hairy hunks I get to drink with, tongue kiss and rub dicks with, most are surprisingly open to masc4fem so I’m pretty happy with it.
>>42776722there's only like 2 white people in the entire photo what are you wafflin about
>>42776244>deepthoats a cock>"you have a minimal contact with men, you don't like men"LOL even.
>>42776142second paragraph is hilarious
>>42776088asking this makes you more tolerable than the legion of straight women who invade gay bars tbdesu, it's not as if they've stayed in business this long because you've stayed away>>42776142good advice anon
>>42776554>>but the LGBT community! >>42776554>no communityNo, there is, only it's taken on all the same bs that wider cultural practices have imbued most social spaces with. You're doing the same thing right now wishing violence on other "mono's". It's not just the cringy retarded dengist communists who purity test themeselves into a dead end discord fiefdom
>>42776341>if my boyfriend that I met at a fag bar gave me some bullshit about not touching my dick he’d be kicked to the street like a dogIs there anything REALLY bad with not wanting to touch tranny dick? I only like trans women who are bottoms.
>>42778572I've had to block men before for blowing up my phone because we hooked up once because I guess hooking up once means we're dating now, gays are unhingedt. bisexual
>>42776088>>42776722why are they all brownI thought gay bars were the last bastion of white culture
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>>42776244Thank you
>>42778798There's no community between monos and us.
