>>42778125
I genuinely like men and very rarely have unambiguously good experiences with them. Most of them are slightly gross to rapey. If I had more positive experiences, I would be posting about them but men don't make it easy

>>42778154
That makes sense personally. But you also have to consider many straight trans women have the same experience but with lesbians. I don't think this alone is enough to make sweeping judgements because it goes both ways.

I've been thinking about this a lot. I'm a bi mtf manmoder but I really wish I was a straight trans woman. I want to only be attracted to men.

agp meta attraction thread

>>42778176
I'm not making any sweeping judgements. I'm just saying why I personally don't consider my experiences with men particularly freeing or self actualising, and I imagine it's the same for many others and the reason you don't see men talked about much in that way

This is possibly slightly unrelated, but how do I handle the situation as a mtf troon where my bf has been revealed to me by friends to have acted very poorly in the past, like not on speaking terms with them, and he doesn't really take responsibility at all? Do I try to fix him or do I need to figure out how to leave? He failed the shopping cart test by just pushing one out of the way in the parking lot with his car when it was in the parking space he wanted and some guy grabbed it before it hit a car on the other side and gave him a death stare. He's never treated me poorly and even got me a valentine's gift though

Now obviously sexual and romantic relationships are required to fully realize one’s personhood, they’re on the hierarchy of needs, but this is a weird way to put it.

>>42778212
I know you aren't which is why I said personally. But others don't adopt the same approach and do make such judgements.

>>42778332
How so?