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Hello, I am 22 yrs old and ftm. In about a month, I will be leaving home to go live multiple states away with a friend who has offered me a place to stay. I don’t want to tell my dad or anyone in my family that I’m doing this because I know they’d all oppose it and try to make me stay. My dad is the main reason I want to leave though. His anger is unpredictable and I’m always having to walk on eggshells around him. I’m worried about the resulting fallout from all of this, because I don’t want him to hurl his anger about it at any of my other family members. Being free from him and being able to medically transition without worrying about my family’s judgement is how I want to live my life, though. I’m seeking advice on what is the best possible way to go about this. I’ve never made a decision this big before. I feel like telling any of them that I’m leaving is just not an option, though.
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I might buy a ton of hrt raws and do the same desu.
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You need money, lad. Everything else is secondary to that
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Just this
You work? Got a car? How much in savings? Will your friend help you financially , at least for a moment, if you have <1k? How will you get around at your new place? Is it a major city, do they have public transportation? Do you really trust this person? How long have you known them, have you met face to face before?
Do not worry about your family. Get a new phone, hold onto your old one, only use it if you need your phone number to recover information for a website, two factor auth or whatever. Otherwise lock it away, it doesn't matter.
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>I don’t want to tell my dad or anyone in my family that I’m doing this because I know they’d all oppose it and try to make me stay
>I feel like telling any of them that I’m leaving is just not an option, though
>I am 22
Women are a lost cause.



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