He already wore dresses when he was a child, and well, I've seen him curse god for being born with a penis and “not being able to do” things like wear dresses and other feminine shit. I think he's just a boymoder with brutal repression because he has privileges as a man that he doesn't want to lose, and he also cares a lot about social approval. I detransitioned. I was ftm in the past... I genuinely only liked two “men” who want to be women or something like that. What do you think? I don't want to confuse him in any way because I was trans myself and I know how complicated it is to know who you are.
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They ignore me so much on this damn board, in the end I don't belong anywhere...
I love the men's clothes he wears. I want to wear them. I'm a tomboy, so... But I couldn't feminize him because I'm not even feminine myself and I've hated makeup since I was a child...
>>42787269consider that you may be injecting your own experience into himplenty of men have issues with gender but aren't trans, though he may be a reppertalk to him about it
>>42787539I told him the best thing anyone could hear: “I accept your fragmented identity. I accept everything you want or don't want to be.” And I have ten psychology books waiting to be read so I can understand it better. I don't want him to suffer, and I don't want to confuse him in any way.
>>42787576best advice i can give you is to not armchair psychology him, like you are doing in this threadyou said yourself that you were ftm in the past, imagine he was making threads like this about you and investigating youi think it's normal to be insecure about these things, but the only answer you will ever get is from him
>>42787601Personally, it is a thousand times more meaningful for someone to start inquiring, researching concepts, connecting dots, and trying to truly understand... rather than an empty “okay, I support you” that costs nothing in terms of mental effort or time to understand the other person. In any case, only he has his truth, not me, but even if he says “I am this,” there is no guarantee that he really is. It's complicated.
>>42787269
Bump
>>42787269Bump
>>42787576I hate you I wish I had said this to him instead of taking his bpd shit personally and blowing up the relationship I want my little psychopath back, all he ever wanted was to feel safe :(
>>42791461I have bpd, but I don't recommend getting involved with someone who has it. Once, I was almost murdered, so... be careful.
I'm crying because I love him so much. I have so much love to give.
>>42791680Iktf>>42791624Too late, the smell of her hair is etched on my soul forever
>>42791697Every time I confess my love to him, no matter how small it may be, I cry so much, damn it...
Why’d you detrans
>>42791862I have four formally diagnosed disorders... For as long as I can remember, I have suffered a lot of rejection. I was never like the other girls, and that's precisely why they marginalized me. The worst harassment came from men. At some point, the hatred built up so much that I wanted to stop being myself and “start from scratch.” Anyway, it's a very long story and I don't feel like telling it. I hate the idea of being a “lesbian.” I hate any damn label, but for him I'll accept anything.
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Shame, shame, shame...
My nose is running, I think I'm getting sickkk
I don’t think you are mentally well enough to be in a romantic relationship OP, you can in the future but things don’t sound stable right now
>>42792423Actually, I'm more stable than ever... you have no idea how unstable I've been, and I assure you I'm much more stable now.
>>42792471But “more stable than ever” doesn’t mean stable enough, you know? I’m healthy, and from my perspective you are not. I think that says a lot about what you should prioritize
>>42792423You may think I'm very intense, but I have bpd and I will never stop having this disorder, and I'm sorry. All people with bpd love in the most overwhelming and voracious way possible. There is no cure...
>>42792550You don't really know anything about me. You're judging me...
>>42787269>not being able to do” things like wear dresses and other feminine shit Doing these doesn't make you trans. I like wearing women's clothing and makeup, that doesn't mean im trans
