are people with tourettes allowed to misgender us???
>>42792039Anyone is allowed to “misgender” us. Gendering is based on passing and how well you manage your life. Not something we are owed
>>42792039i mean shit man they cant control it, tho i do wonder how often they do it on purpose
How do people with such a debilitating disorder even have relationships? It’s sickening to think about.
>>42792060it's sickening that people with such a severe disability can find love and acceptance when they look hard enough...?
>>42792065Yes. The mentally disabled do not deserve to be loved romantically or sexually.
>>42792039They're not misgendering us. They're just wired differently. So are we. If anyone is oppressed, we're all oppressed.
>>42792078Are you single, by any chance?Maybe the universe agrees with you! :3
>>42792039I'm watching that movie right now, its really good.
>>42792092I know what I am, and I know what I deserve, or, in this case, don’t.
>>42792039>WOW HE'S A TRANNY!
>>42792108nta but that's not true sweetheart. Everyone deserves love and intimacy.
>>42792120No, they don’t. Plenty of people deserve to die unloved.
>>42792127Not for being mentally ill they don't. That's not something you can control.
>>42792138you can't control anything
>>42792169I can control how I treat people with mental illness. I can blame them for their condition even though it's not their fault, causing them to become even more marginalized and a danger to themselves and others, but that would be wrong, so I try not to do that. OR I can accept that some people are sick, and some others are just born different, I can try to understand them so that they can become part of my community, and either get well, or find ways to manage their condition. This is the right thing to do, so that's what I try to do. By doing this I include myself, as a trans woman with autism and ADHD, by building a community of marginalized people around me, I myself become less marginalized. Love is actually the answer.
>>42792202This line of thought created the incel movement.
>>42792376This line of thought would have defeated the incel movement. How many mass shootings did America have last month?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oeQ4HWhPEdA
>>42792419The idea that "everyone deserves love" absolutely created the incel movement, like, how is that even questionable?
>>42792039I would kill myself on the spot if my spouse did that to me.>>42792065Tourettes reveals what you're actually thinking about someone so if your outbursts are cruel you're probably awful inside.
>>42792457The idea that everyone is deserving of love comes from Jesus Christ.
>>42792039i mean, what are you gonna do about it anyway?
>>42792467>Tourettes reveals what you're actually thinking about someone so if your outbursts are cruel you're probably awful inside.Actually it's the exact opposite. In the case of the OP the partner with tourettes knows not to point out a person's trans status loudly, or to misgender a trans woman, or to a trans woman's deadname. The tourettes made her say the absolute worst thing she could imagine, to disobey all the things she truly believes at once. So actually she's a very trans inclusive person.
>>42792376Not true, second wave feminism created incels. Hippy idealism's downstream from the death of a rigid social contract in western society.
>>42792600And what did the hippies believe? That everyone deserves to be loved.
>>42792467in tard-out veritas
>>42792039Yes. You can do that it's normal. I do eat my own smegma. You can see me on Skype. I'm not lying.
>>42792612Nah, the CIA just said that to avoid dissonance with free love thinking. Sexual liberation naturally excludes many people.
>>42792612>That everyone deserves to be loved.That everyone deserves weed.
>>42792724Believing that you are completely and utterly unlovable removes any desire for violence or retribution. Believing that you are owed love makes you violent when you never receive it.
>>42792773>Believing that you are completely and utterly unlovable removes any desire for violence or retribution.Lol no it doesn't. It makes you feel like the world doesn't care about you and won't unless you make it care about you. I was watching a show the other day which had a mass shooter as a plot event, and one of the characters asked "why don't they ever start with themselves?"And the answer is because people like the character say and think things like that. Because most do, they just take their own lives and nobody gives a shit. But some of them realize that they take a few others with them, now everyone gives a shit. Their life was made meaningful, as meaninful as it could be for someone who is completely and utterly unlovable. It's absolutely fucking insane that all it really takes to stop a mass shooter is kindness, and America just can't do it.
>>42792823Teaching the disabled that they’re completely insignificant and nothing they do matters deradicalizes them though.
>>42792845[citation needed]I've yet to meet a radicalized disabled person.
>>42792888Luigi mangione
>>42792957I don't know who that is, can you post a picture?
>>42792888The entire incel movement.
>>42792039im sorry im so not woke enough for this. if i were with someone who shouted "HE'S A TRANNY" about me in public i think i would start crying and go kill myself. i know they apparently can't control it but oh my god, i could never.
>>42792050FPBP
>>42793102You should watch this movie, as fun as it wouldn't be for us, it's way way WAY less fun for them.