Why do middle aged married dudes just assume I'm going to be okay with being their dirty little secret?
its the leaded gasoline
>>42890648They used to ask me to fuck their wives
>>42890648Why aren't you?
>>42890674unc please
>>42890660I've had guys who try to offer a threesome with their wives as bait, but then their wives "cancel" at the last minute and it's just them trying to get me to blow them in their car behind the golf course. And they're so unironic about it too, like they actually think the answer to that is going to be yes.
>>42890660I'll do it, send them my way
>>42890674Why would I be?
>>42890678Never took them up on the offer in the first place but I imagine that was probably going to happen.>>42890681No, I'm keeping the fat gross boomer wives for myself
>>42890648Why are you talking to all these middle aged married men if you aren't. You want them to openly cheat and divorce or what's the alternative.
>>42890730>Why are you talking to all these middle aged married men if you aren't.I don't find out they're married until it's time to hide from the wife. What I see are these lonely guys who clearly need someone to love and affirm them, which I totally also need, so that seems like the foundation for a good relationship. And then they cancel the date because the wife is home (as if I'm going to jump straight into bed with them) and I get the sob story about how it's a sexless marriage and she's got a FWB somewhere but we still have to keep it a secret from her and what?>You want them to openly cheat and divorce or what's the alternative.I just want a boyfriend so I don't have to feel so alone any more. I'm being really clear about that, but the only guys who are coming after me are these married guys who want me as their secret side piece. And I just don't get how they think that's close enough.
>>42890792how old are you?
>>4289081740 adjacent.
>>42890817But I pass for early 30s.
>>42890648because they're retarded and think ur basically just a gay dude who's okay with being a sex freak.
Dignified trannies are not
>>42890685well judging from the posts I see here, some trannies are such whores they’ll do anything for anyone
>>42890984>My source is 4chan
>>42890855FML
>>42890648Hello fellow Maomao poster!The truth is that these men are preying on trannies because trannies face a considerable amount of rejection, so much so that many become desperate, willing to settle below what they deserve. These men are desperate too as they’re jaded by a sexually inactive marriage, and believe they can take advantage of equally desperate people to get their rocks off. That’s all it’s about, it’s purely utilitarian. They don’t care about your interests or personality, only that you’re hot and willing to sleep with them. I have had many a bad experience with married men, who attempt to capitalise on my low self worth, but I’ve never let them get very far with me. No matter how lonely a person is, they can never be lonelier than a sex addicted man in a 5+ year relationship. Do not bring yourself to their level.
>>42891119>The truth is that these men are preying on trannies because trannies face a considerable amount of rejection, so much so that many become desperate, willing to settle below what they deserve.Please stop saying true things about me. Also you're absolutely right, and I know that, and I know these guys are only going to make me feel even lonlier than I do now, but I am actually fucking desperate.
>>42891145I know you’re desperate. If you really wish, you can continue using Grindr or other dating apps. While I’ve had plenty of miserable encounters through them, I’ve also had a couple of good ones. Take this with a HEAPING tablespoon of salt. Many men on these apps just want to fuck you. Do not go looking for hookups. Look for dates, with single men. Always ask, and PROBE like crazy. Patience yields fruit. I promise it will get better.
>>42891197>If you really wish, you can continue using Grindr or other dating apps.I can't do dating apps any more. I can't. All the guys in my area are just jerking off to my pics while I talk to them and then they unmatch me after they cum. It's just pointless work. And I'm sure there are good guys on dating apps, I'm also 100% positive that I'm not going to be able to find them, because all you're really checking for by chatting to them is how much rizz do they have. High rizz = player = not a good guyLow rizz = no conversation = no way to tellI spent all yesterday making this case, dating apps don't work. I did the intentional mindfullness thing and actually started building a life where I'd be introduced to men. There are men who are too young for me and then there are the older married arseholes I'm talking about ITT. I feel like there should be more than two kinds of guy.
what if instead of turning into a whore from all the latent rejection of being a troon you just go avoidant and celibate and it’s been 3.5 years now since you’ve been touched
because most of you are and you aint getting my legal name and we are meeting in a discounted hotel
>>42891322seven
>>42891251There are more than two. It’s just that meeting ordinary men who are willing to date trannies is very, VERY hard. I have no advice to offer as I have been relatively unsuccessful in that department. Closest I’ve come to a relationship in a long time was a fwb situation I had with a cis woman, but that situation was and is a whole mess. And was also with a woman, so it is wholly inapplicable here.All I can do is wish you luck, and hope that socialising pays off.
>>42891322It's been like 10 months for me. But this lonliness is killing me. I'm now quoting brittany spears lyrics, this is not healthy.
>>42891344Thanks and also grim. I was thinking about going back to normie social media. People get dates off that right?I'm also seriously considering starting an onlyfans and seeing if maybe I can catch a simp worth dating.
>>42891334No, we're not meeting at all. >>42891359>I'm also seriously considering starting an onlyfans and seeing if maybe I can catch a simp worth dating.That's so risky it would only be a last resort anon. If you don't catch such a simp, then you can officially say goodbye to any guy who might have dated you.
>>42891635>That's so risky it would only be a last resort anon. Kinda there. Not tomorrow, but it's becoming a legitimate plan. >If you don't catch such a simp, then you can officially say goodbye to any guy who might have dated you.I'm not so sure. Cis women, sure. But I'm not sure the rules are the same for pre-op trans women, who don't need to have that "virginal purity", since anal is the sex that God can't see.
>>42891334this
Fyi never mention iy around the moids bc no dude will want you if they know you.took stinky old.married man penis up your ass.No judgment tho
>>42890648>I'm a woman and I want to be in a relationship with a man>no! not like that!troons are even more mentality I'll than previously thought>man who literally only want to have sex with trannies>eww fuck off chaser>gay man who's willing to have a relationship with a tranny>eww fuck off faggot>man who is bicurious and wants to try having a relationship with a tranny>eww fuck off faggot>married man who wants to have a fling with a tranny >eww fuck off chaserliterally no way to please these retards>I want a straight man who's into women and who doesn't want me because I'm transliteral mental illness
>>42894028That's not true
>>42894100Thats literally a rule for cis x cis relationships. Dont bring up past sexual encounters.
>>42890648because sometimes if i have a bad day ill do it
>>42890648better to be with a married man rather than some turbo homo with a million stds plus you know you're mogging at least one woman and you feel you're not good enough for a real relationship
>>42894028how does it feel being so disgusting you have to hide your past from others
>>42894092i'd be ok with all of these except the gay guy and the cheating guy.
>>42890660W-would you fuck a zoomer faggots girlfriend?
>>42894092You will never get a girlfriend.
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>>42890843ofc you dogirl, ...ok i mean i'm far, far worse. but even i don't ever lower myself to that weird shit?!>>42896699>pop meme>means i'm soo based and the coolest dooderino here
>>42894146Transgirls don't have hymens
>>42896846kinda false, popping it is kinda painfulyou (kinda) know?!