>hefab destroys a tranny's social life for no reason
Many such cases

>>42955393
>I'm not a transmed
there’s your problem nona

>>42955393
>he tells me that I can't say faggot until I suck a guys dick

So you can't say fag unless you're straight? How does that work?

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>>42955393
>when I'm in a transmisogyny competition and my opponent is a non transitioning "ftm"

>>42955529
Honestly I really want to go "under 6month hrt dni" but that'd probably just end with me being completly cut off from the friend group
>>42955598
as if any of this had any logic behind it

>>42955393
I don't have much experience with trans guys but sometimes i'll make a self deprecating or edgy joke about girls and i get jumped and it lowkey just kind of confirms that those people are "she"ing me out of pity and they think im a man. Sometimes woke people make me feel worse and im very woke myself..

>>42955393
I'm not a transmed but there's a real epidemic of transtrender hefabs who are actually transphobic

>>42955740
>a self deprecating or edgy joke about girls and i get jumped
Real
I once had a "you can't put lipstick on a pig" meme in the context of "I'm too ugly for makeup" spark a whole conversation about me being a misogynist

>>42955393
it must really suck to be a trans man when every other person who claims to be the same thing as you is just really really happy to be a woman lol

>>42955790
Someone complimented me on my makeup and I said "im cheating i've got makeup on" and got lectured by all the other t-girls. thanks for letting me know you consider me a misogynist instead of self deprecating and being humble

>>42955393
ftm who don't go meds and and make no attempt to present male are cis women attempting to co-opt trans as a way for attention and victim points

avoid them at any cost. Do not interact with them
they are some of the worst people because any action they do is solely for self validation and attention, and they will commit those actions at any cost to others.
They're basically sociopaths that gets their actions excused because "haha classic woman behavior" and "damm i feel so sorry for her victimhood" when if this was on a cis man, we'd be seeing them as bateman type psychos

>>42955790
What was even the reasoning for that? That's obviously just self deprecating

>>42955393
Maybe understand your audience a bit better before you start hurling slurs at them?

Sounds like classic autism here.

>>42955393
U actually can’t say faggot until u suck a guys dick that’s true. as long as ur not a virgin, if ur a virgin u can say faggot if you lived as a gay man

>>42955876
nobody likes having to walk on eggshells

>>42955393
this really sucks nona im sorry for you :c

>>42955881
this is silly. shes literally trans calling yourself a faggot is like pretty common and normal stuff

>>42955393
>he tells me that I can't say faggot until I suck a guys dick
what is it with normies policing stuff like this?

>>42955930
You're not trans until you've sucked a guys dick

>>42955900
Then don't socialize with other people? Least of all "woke" faggots?

>>42955956
I am woke in my values, I just hate the performative shit. I wish there were more chud presenting wokies like me

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>>42955393
>>not on T (red flag) but whatever, I'm not a transmed
>everything goes to shit
Transmeds right again. Foids like this are evil, Nona.

>>42955950
what does sucking a guys dick have to do with being queer. extremely weird line to draw saying lesbians can't say faggot

>>42955844
Women always do that shit with any pitiful condition. In this case it's often mtfs who get blamed anyway. Nobody knows us but we just get blamed for everything bad by default.
Can we please launch the nukes? I don't want to save anyone.

>>42955982
I was trolling before but I actually think cis lesbians shouldn't say faggot

>>42955393
Eternally vindicated in my belief that “coming out” in cases where it isn’t an absolute necessity is a meme.

>>42956003
depends on context. sometimes they can say it in a fucked up way but most of the time they're cool with it

>>42955881
you're literally israeli

>>42955973
If you are woke in your values then you would consider slurs to be harmful when spoken.

All signs are really pointing to autism and misunderstanding the social cues of others.

>>42956037
it really is

>>42956222
lmao if you give a shit about a trans woman saying faggot you're a cop

>>42956222
>um if you're actually a progressive leftist you would NEVER say bad words!
sure retard

>>42956222
I really don't think it's harmful for me to occasionally call myself a faggot in a clearly ironic, tongue in cheek way. Your inability to comprehend nuance is actually much more indicative of autism

>>42955393
the problem is calling yourself an hrt repper. such a thing is not real. you're either nonbinary or boymoder, but both are trans, not reppers.
everything else is not your fault, but lose the self hating identity

>>42956266
TRVKE

>>42956222
STOP BEING WOKE. BECOME ANCAP, AND EMBRACE FREEDOM!

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>>42955393
Live update:
I think this might honestly be the end of the friend group. He said picrel to me and received no pushback from others. I am exhausted.

>>42956266
>both are trans, not reppers
Reppers are trans, just in denial about it. Or not even that and just refusing to manmode out of fear.

>>42956287
terf socialization is real fyi, literally never trust ftms

>>42956287
I'm not a transmed at all, but this kind of stuff makes me actually believe in trenders. I don't think you can be trans in any way that makes sense and say something like this to another trans person. I'm sorry you have to deal with that OP

>>42956287
am i illiterate? am i having another estrogen-induced stroke? the second part of this sentence is unintelligible

>>42956345
I think the "not" should be "nor"

"It's neither your nor their fault you're not one"

>>42956287
>received no pushback from others
how many other trans women in this gc?

>>42956382
0...
Two cis ones though

>>42956382
OP calls herself an hrt repper so the answer is zero

>>42956391
lmao get out shit's obviously a terf meeting

>>42956403
Ironically enough they often call me a terf lmfao

>>42956287
yikes
i would leave the group and do something to take your mind off this
cardio, music, something like that

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>>42956287
Transmedicalism: "let some psych force you to live out his idea of femaleness or you don't get to transition"
Modern trannyism: this shit

It's better than it used to be, but only a little... there's got to be a way to get these freaks out of our community without inviting in another group of evil cis people.

>>42956287
send a message in the gc addressing the others asking
“are you guys just gonna let him say this?”
or something
you might as well, shits over anyways. might as well try and make them feel a little bad about themselves

>>42956423
You're a terf but also an incel and a gooner? That's crazy, I need to meet someone like you

>>42956430
anyone else feel like they snapped because they wanted to have yaoi fantasy with op. as soon as op revealed shes transitioning the ftm crashed out because the yaoi fantasy was ruined lol. calling op an incel gooner sounded like projection too.

reminder that the word "transmedicalism" was invented by a cis woman on tumblr. Transmedicalism is not any strictly defined set of beliefs, it's a word you yell at someone when you don't like what they're saying and want them to shut up.

>>42956287
what is this in response to? seems a weird message to send ina vacuum

>>42956453
trve this is the only way i see transmed used

>>42956451
It's clearly some form of narcissistic entitlement, but what exactly triggered it could be anything. It could even just be OP being tall and having attractive androgynous features, which many trender types aspire to (sorta goes with the yaoi fantasy). It could be sex related narcissistic rage, but probably isn't.

>>42956287
Your other friends fucking suck, seriously fuck them.

>>42956468
>It could even just be OP being tall and having attractive androgynous features, which many trender types aspire to
this is so common for fakepoons and theyfabs
they want to be clocky trans women and hate when trans women don't share their feelings. This is why they always draw trans women as super unpasssing too

>>42956453
>>42956465
It used to mean trutrans people who thought you were only valid if a doctor diagnosed you with harry benjamin syndrome. But recently its come to mean anyone who medically transitions

>>42956430
>It's better than it used to be, but only a little...
nta
it's a lot better thanks to diy.
the trade-off is that the community is a lot shittier. Buuut, do keep in mind that all communities are now shittier because a lot more people are straight-up antisocial due to being easier to be a terminally online shut-in.

>>42956483
>It used to mean trutrans people who thought you were only valid if a doctor diagnosed you
it's always been a motte and bailey
anti-"transmeds" just don't believe trans people are actually biologically real and think it's all just a social identity. But if you call them out on this they retreat to the "actually transmeds are people who want doctor gatekeeping!", because nobody not even self proclaimed transmeds nowadays likes doctor gatekeeping.

honestly this kind of sounds like a horrible mixture of insane pooner/future maia poet and overly brainrotted boymoder who overshares on main intersecting too hard

>>42956451
>>42956468
My guess is that the trender wanted to be the only trans person in the friend group to suck up all the attention and victim points (why she's trending in the first place) and sees OP as a threat to push out.

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>>42955393
your first mistake was not being ""transmed"". your second mistake was tolerating the presence of an ""ftm"" """transsexual""". even the pooners who are on t don't want to actually pass as men. they want to be yaoi femboys or straight up trans girls. allah knows all ftms are faketrans trenders.

>>42955973
>I wish there were more chud presenting wokies like me
hi

>>42956505
>But if you call them out on this they retreat to the
ngl I haven't seen any of them do this in years. most of the people I've been seeing called transmed recently are people encouraging diy hrt. i think its been a genuine shift because non transitioners are now the majority of the people considering themselves trans

>>42956459
long story short:
>cis f posts suggestive art on the gc
>ftm says that he's cooming on the screen
>I ask how come they can do things like that, meanwhile I get called a gooner for much less
>he tells me that I'm a simp (no clue why he went that route) and that I'm jelaus of him having a bf
>he goes offline and cis f friend comes online
>she tells me to get a gf before i start talking about these thing
>I say that I don't rally care about getting a gf rn
>she says that that's good, as she'd feel sorry for those girls because I use mysoginystic clurs
>apparently she was reffering to me saying "foid" jokingly a few times, half of which were in reference to myself
>I bring up her saying "bitch" a lot
>her deffence is "I got a pussy" (direct quote)
>she goes offline, and the ftm comes online
>he says that I constantly "bitch online" (techically this thread existing confirms him being right, but whatever) and that I don't do anything to fix myself
>I ask what does he think that i should do

and that was his response.

>>42956604
tbdesu it sounds like your cisf friend wasnt worth keeping anyway
you deserve better

>>42956604
Your "friends" are shit but please stop saying foid and similar things except in very narrow contexts

>>42956604
>her deffence is "I got a pussy"
Who the actual fuck are you hanging out with?!
I know that it's hard to get good friends, but Jesus Christ nona...

>>42956604
highly recommend trying to not use 4chan jokes with normies it really freaks them out
if you want to try to salvage things:
id give up on pooner but you should have a heart to heart with the other friend. clearly things have broken down there and neither of yall understand what is going on each others heads. make it an in person heart to heart or at minimum a discord call, don't do it over text. talk about your feelings without trying to put blame on anyone for them. make sure you communicate that you care about them and that youre coming from a place of feeling hurt, not that youre trying to win an argument.
gl boymoder

>>42956604
ngl this just sounds like 3 toxic retards who aren't really even friends. i'm not gonna lie i'm glad i'm not living your life

>>42956678
good advice otherwise but i would personally advice against salvaging a burning wreck with nothing worthwile in it. you'll just get burns for nothing

>>42956703
yeah it was meant to be a big "IF you want to salvage things". there might be more there than the toxicity that is worth salvaging. only op knows it if its worth it.

>>42956604
>I got a pussy

That's what it boils down to with these people. These people are not your friends nona:/

>>42956604
Get some self esteem, these are people who should be beneath your notice.

>>42956604
yeah this is bad

>>42956222
kill yourself

>>42956506
"Worst troon type of history vs worst troon type of today"

>>42956604
These people sound awful I am sorry. I would not hang out with them. I know letting go of friends is hard because it gets lonely but these people do not understand or want to empathize with you

>>42955393
This is just what ftms are like, stay away

>>42955881
You can say faggot whenever you want.

>>42955393
>>the "ftm" switches from "he/him" to "any/all" and starts acting more feminine
he found competition (you)

>>42956437 This

>>42956437
This. Fucking assert yourself for once in your life.

>>42956517
Yeah thats a smart gues

>>42956314
i really tought it was a given
why would one trust a literal opposite smgdh

>>42956604
are you 18 jesus
get real frens or no frens, just not that

So sad this thread died i wanna know what happened op what did you do whats going on now this is my soap opera

>>42959051
the good threads always die young

>>42959102
Its like jimi carter …, or Jimmy hendrix

>>42959051
sorry it was already past midnight and i was too exhausted to be able to read/reply
>>42956678
I'll try to find a moment when i can hang out 1 on 1 with the cis girl. Gonna be kinda hard as she and the ftm have the exact same schedule, so all the gaps in the classes when we can meet automatically become group hangouts...
We've been friends for a long time, and I really hope her being mean is just a misguided attempt at making me more well adjusted...
>>42958626
most of us are turning 20 this year

I'd ghost every piece of shit foid involved in this story.

>>42959398
At 20 you really do need to realize that you have 2 choices: waste more time trying to "make it work", or spend that same amount of time making actually supportive friends. Continuing to surround yourself with negative strange people like that will only make your life worse, surrounding yourself with people that actually care to make you not feel awful will allow you to actually succeed at doing things.

tldr; completely cut off these people and look for more trustworthy and positive friends.

>>42956604
NEVER trust a foid.

>>42959565
*unless you're afab

>>42959497
eloquence incarnate applied to the seeming overall consensus, i liked this. now let it reach her pls
>>42959398
>of us
less collectivism in your thinking could be beneficial tbdes

>>42955393
congrats on meeting a bpdemon
i just got out of a really nasty friend group where i was the only trans guy there that wasn't "transmasc" and was on t, ironically. lol.

>>42955393
>HRT repper
>Open about taking hormones and the tranny illness
>Offended when being called a guy

Are you actually repping at that point?

>>42955393
Serves you right, you trusted an foid. All afabs that are into gender shit are poisonous.

>>42956604
OF COURSE """HE""" HAS A BF LMAOOO

>>42956604
lol those aint your friends

>>42960092
""""his"""" bf totally sees the relationship as a gay one! Just 2 gay men fucking in each other :)

>>42955844
exactly like a white girl with box braids, everything about her is a red flag

>>42960171
I might be too European for this, what's up with the "white girl with box braids" thing? I've heard it a few times, but never got what the implications are.

>>42956604
>>42955393
>Has a bf
>Tells you to suck a dick before you can say faggot
Let me guess, somehow (s)he can say it though?

>>42960228
>Op sucks a cock
>he/they/it says she needs to take a cock in her pussy to say faggot

>>42955900
>>42955973
This is so true. There's something about people trying to struggle session me despite us agreeing politically and morally and get me to spend 50% of my speech apologizing or repeating shit they want me to say. I'd rather someone just call me a nigger and threaten to kick my ass than deal with that shit.

>>42956604
I know I may only be an internet stranger, but if you are ever feeling particularly desperate and in need of a friend, I'm more than happy to drop my contact
You sound like a nice gal, and are deserving of much better company

>>42956604
Sounds like they're just looking for a self hating tranny that they can verbally take out their hatred of men on.

>>42960309
best rizz moments?

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>>42955973
Actin like a chud, thinking like a woke its the best of both worlds

>>42960331
That is not my intention
I just feel bad for nona, and I know how isolating this kind of social implosion can be

>>42960184
A useless, empty headed white girl that does everything she can to act like she's a black girl, or a gay black man from the ghetto, used to call them hot cheeto girls when I was a teen, bhad bhabie is one that comes to mind, the "catch me outside" girl. They blindly co-opt the nearest and most accessible marginal identity they can find, and only use it to seem more interesting, you can be they're the most harmless little sweetheart with perfect syntax and grammar whenever they need to be

>>42960297
>rather someone just
trvke
i think the best part about the last 5 years is how reluctant the chuds are to dogwhistle anymore, they just say whatever insane shit they can think of to imply saying nigger instead of talking about "culture" or whatever

>>42956604
tell them you feel uncomfortable hanging out with people who see trans women as men and leave

>>42960382
Ahh that makes sense.
We have those too, but instead of black larp they america larp

>>42956437
call him a her and guage reactions

>>42960382
bhad bhabie is jewish

>>42956287
If my bestfriends ftm/theyfab friend said this to me and didn't push back id burn every bridge fuck this person, the world would be better with her dead

>>42956604
Stop acting autistic and saying foid it makes you sound like a loser, also why were you friends with people like this before I went stealth if anyone said shit like this to me I'd have cut them off instantly

>>42956430
>another one that thinks transmedicalism means doctors dictate if you get to transition or not
The amount of people completely misconstruing what it is based off the "medical" in the name alone shows how surface level their thought processes are.
>>42956547
>doctor decides if your trans
Cringe.
>being trans should be seen as a treatable condition (even with DIY) instead of a social identity
Based.

>>42960418
I'd do that, but like... I don't really feel comfortable forcing anyone to see me as a woman... I know that I am, but like... I just don't want to be a "It's mam!!!" character.
>>42960718
A cis girl in the groupchat does that and seemingly no one cares
>>42961096
>>42961101
The issue is is that this is a new developement. Like before meeting the ftm she was very accepting, even offering to help me with makeup, showing that she dissaproves of transphobia.
>>42961101
"foid" was mostly used jokingly on myself, and once when I was making fun of a chud and was a parody of how they talk

>>42961254
wrt the "its ma'am!" thing, this isnt some rando out and about that you only have to walk away from. this is someone in your friend group that you see regularly. if you want to go nuclear, just call them out as being extremely transphobic. i wouldnt even leave the gc, force them to defend calling you a man. if they keep calling you a man, you could even sprinkle in "if im a man that cant say fag because I havent sucked a dick, then youre a straight woman gatekeeping homophobic slurs from a gay dude, claiming straight sex gives you the right to use it" but that would be REALLY nuclear and probably wouldn't end well for you.

>>42961254
>I'd do that, but like... I don't really feel comfortable forcing anyone to see me as a woman... I know that I am, but like... I just don't want to be a "It's mam!!!" character.
you don't have to do it in a it's ma'am way you can write it in a calm way like "you're free to talk however you want but for my mental health i prefer not to hang out with people who consciously or unconsciously see trans women as men and have a bioessentialist view of gender. goodbye"
it's what you feel, formulated in a "it's not you, it's me way" and woke language that doesn't make you look unreasonable

>>42960382
so another narc wearing identities like a skinsuit

>>42961254
>foid" was mostly used jokingly on mysel
Don't do that the other part is fine if they're in on the joke
>The issue is is that this is a new developement.
Well that sucks but I'd say talk to her 1 on 1 about it and honestly just be ready to cut her off she may have thought of you more as a gay best friend than a woman

>>42961321
>then youre a straight woman gatekeeping homophobic slurs from a gay dude
Nta but I like this just because I want to be a fucking catty bitch to theyfabs

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>>42961254
I'm guessing they all see you as a straight cis man and from their point of view they outwoke you so they can say whatever they want but you can't, simply because you're not as woke as they are. Obviously deep down they all are super transphobic and are insecure about it hence why they accuse you of sayin offensive stuff, to prove that they are the wokest in there.
Anon you deserve respect. You're a woman and those people need to respect you. There is a place for friendly banter but this has CLEARLY crossed the line long before. You need to put limits and say that you won't accept anymore :
> having your gender identity disrespected
> being pressured to have sex
> being pressured to be in a romantic relationship
> being put down and insulted
it's all part of being in a healthy relationship with people. It's really okay. It's okay for people I guess to cross lines sometimes but you need to clearly state what is okay and what isn't but because as is you're in a toxic relationship.
>The issue is is that this is a new developement. Like before meeting the ftm she was very accepting, even offering to help me with makeup, showing that she dissaproves of transphobia.
she isn't an ally if she doesn't make the effort of knowing and identifying transphobia in all contexts. You need to higher your standards. Trust me, it's a self-preservation thing

I trully wish the best for you nona but for the sake of all that's good in life, do something radical.

>>42961321
This. Say this anon

>>42961947
Its crazy how support for trans people from woke people has been so incredibly shallow this whole time

Women with perverse identity disorder need to be thrown in a psychiatric ward, forced on haldol, and stripped of there he/they pronouns and “identity”

>>42964542
yes, it has always been this way. it made me go back into the closet for years

>>42955393
>be me
>my entire personality is being trans
>probably smell
that's you

>>42955697
misogyny is when you hate people for being male

>>42966702
Clearly not, she has valid reason to vent about a psycho attention seeker being hateful towards her. And the psycho can hide behind her privilege of being cis woman

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>>42955740
lurk /pol/ long enough and you will hate trannies, women, and woke retards. or that's what I would say if this was 10 years ago. who knows what the average soft skulled idiot would make of the constant disinfo shilling they have going on 24/7 now.

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>>42956430
>>42956287
>>42956451
anyone who thinks this is better than men rolling their eyes at you in the check out stand is brain dead. send me back.

>>42955393
don't hang out with retards or stop complaining

>>42956604
>>42961254
If this happened me i'd instantly ghost them or just dont even reply, just distance yourself from them one way or another, stop tolerating people's bullshit

>>42964542
woke people are about the performance, status seeking, and ego-aggrandisement, they are vampires nothing more
Actual victims are a threat because it could expose them and end their grift

>>42965072
it's just narcissism, always has been

>>42955393
Non-transitioning FTMs are almost always terf socialised cis women who just think claiming to be men will allow them to appropriate patriarchal male power, and as soon as they have a category of woman (mostly trans women) they can abuse they embrace it gleefully, and/or give up being trans entirely.

I have nothing against FTMs as long as they're on HRT.

>>42969130
Again, /pol/ just shines a light on the narcs among those groups and then blames the group collectively. This is the trap everyone falls for. People underestimate how evil narcs are. Narcs will just adopt a new identity as soon as the old one stops working for them. A woke grifter will be a tradwife one tomorrow, no shame
And the real victims face the consequences of it all

Woke is just a loosh farm for narcs
Every well-intentioned person ends up getting drained dry by the queen bee narcs that run the show. That's why woke died

>>42955393
Duh, No such thing as an FTM. Nobody would willingly give up life's cheat engine to be a moid.

Not even buck angel claims manhood.

FTMs should be purged from the community.

>>42971298
>appropriate patriarchal male power
this is true of p much every woman trying to take a dominant role. By virtue of their own interpretation of power, or of the way the systems they use or run pushing them toward that role, they become the em-boobed patriarch

>>42972101
>life's cheat engine
kys retard

>>42972180
no u

>>42972180
You first AFAB scum

>>42972101
>life's cheat engine
:skull emoji:
I'd sacrifice everything just to be AFAB, but even I'm not this delusional

Oh this thread is still up?
Crazy.
Anyways, I told them how they hurt me, that I just can't handle it anymore, left the GC, blocked the pooner and muted the girl after telling her that if she really wants to she can find a way to contact me. (if she wants to make things right i'd love that. But atp I can't know what she thinks of me, so if it's the end of our friendship I accept that)

I pretty much lost my whole friend group.

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>>42955393
sounds tough, can you gift me gta 4 on steam?

>>42973040
Show us where the lie is if you wake up as a solid middle of the road AFAB.

> Be Thot
> Cam whore for BIG SHECKLE
> Men line up to date
> Men pay for everything
> Courts generally side with you by default
> Sentencing is less lenient
> No such thing as an attractive homeless AFAB
>Hiring prioritizes you for normie jobs
> Act slutty, get social approval
> Marry, Divorce richie rich, take half his shit by default
> Ride cock carousel, have abortions as needed, perpetual victim card.
> Don't have to go die in war
> Tons of social support and friends Femcels are extremely rare

Yeah, Being born AFAB is totally NOT the cheat engine of life.

>>42974897
>> No such thing as an attractive homeless AFAB
Lots of attractive homeless opioid addict foids actually.

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>>42973976
Hope you learned a lesson about cis females.

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>>42973976
For what it's worth they did not seem like much of friends

>>42973976
I’m sorry anon, hope you find better friends that actually appreciate you, if your in Australia can be your friend.

>>42956604
Yeah its probably for the best for you to just bail from that group at this point, this is kinda brutal... if they don't offer pushback especially after all this shit then it means they either agree or put more importance on not even slightly upsetting him over you or your well-being, and neither options are good for you

>>42973976
pls make a follow up post like a week from now on if the cis girl reaches out to you
ill be watching

How does one even get into such a "friend group"??? There had to have been some red flags before such BS happened