how do you actually put effort into passing? I know what it could means when it comes to voice training and maybe exercising for bigger ass but aside from it? how do you actually learn fashion or is there any hope to make your face pass without ffs? what else could I do? is taking care of hair as simple as using shampoo+conditioner and brushing it or is it more complicated? its all just seems to either be a knowledge that is so obvious that everyone omits it and leaves you confused without grasp on basics or something so simple that you can't believe that there is nothing more to it
>>42956918I fucking hate this picture
>>42956928it's so messed up, i hate it too.
>>42956918by having money>>42956928i think it's hilarious
It was the first one that I had downloaded and seemed like wouldnt be a laughing topic here
>>42956972thanks but thats not really helpful
>>42957008genetics and money
>>42956928>>42956943I love it.
>>42956918i dont pass. some of the effort im trying to do is makeup, outfits, and voice training though. I'm really hopeful in the future I can have FFS its hard not to doom spiral and theres a lot of crying but its important to try.
>>42957118how do you stay positive like that? is it people around you or are you just a positive person?
>>42957181Getting off this hellsite for one, but also like you’ve gotta do this for you if at all possible. External validation is cheap and won’t fix you, but genuine self love will. It’s hard to rewire your brain to be good to itself but it’s all you can do besides effortmaxxing.
>>42957181I don't know really. I'm dysphoric about a lot of stuff but I try to at least keep some hope. I live in the middle of nowhere at best im seen as a gay boy who wears makeup and dresses but i think about the few times ive visited trans friends from the city and how sweet they've been to me and i really really want to pass and improve and stay positive for them.
>>42957194problem is I don't know how to do either so in the end I'm left rotting and trying not to kill myself>>42957230yeah sadly its not something I have access to
>>42957399I'll be sweet to you about it. You can make it. It's hard and its a curse but its how we were made and we'll find peace
>>42957426yeah idk about that with myself and how things are lately
>>42956918it's like how talking about doing something is never going to be the same as doing it, and talking about doing it a lot will never mean u have a lot of practice actually doing itlike having a perfect description of how to play piano, the exact hand movements and timing of changing and playing and so on will not help uin the end piano lessons require u to actually play the piano and fumble, then u can get better instruction depending on ur mistakes
>>42957709this is helpful to remember. but if you live in a small community it might be a better idea to practice in larger areas. people knew me pre-transition so now they just think im a gay boy who wears makeup and fem fits.
>>42956928i hate it too. i see myself in it, i have a neurodegenerative disorder and already need a wheelchair alot
