Why is so much time and energy spent *by trans women* to other themselves as a demographic? Is it because of radfems and gender abolitionist trans women?Are our transition goals different? I don't really want to be part of a Fandom, I just want to pass as a woman, to like what I like and marry a boy and live as normally as possible.
It's too late to complain about it. Their mindgames have already won.
If one is a hon(or think they are) they can't exactly have the normal heteronormative life like that, so they have to build their own cultural framework to find a place of belonging.
>>42963574That was the whole point until the community became overpopulated by the gender identity crowd, and people who wanted to abolish gender norms, and similar subnormal folks.
>>42963620ThisIt's not that complicated if you just use some empathy rather than immediately attempting to use it as evidence that you're one of the good ones
>>42963574Because I hate cisoids and cisgender societyThough I also want to do the tradlarp thing with a nice man, but I'll always hate ciseity for how it treats us
>>42963620I'm not even strictly talking about heteronormativity. Even hons can have a personality besides Trans. I don't think them having their own cultural framework is inherently bad, but they treat people like me very coldly. Then, ironically, because I don't fit in with the majority, I begin to question myself.
>>42963574>I just want to passdo you think you would act normal if you'd spent ~19 years gathering proof that you will never ever pass for even a second, before you even knew hrt was an option?
>>42963725I didn't transitioning until 23 and thought passing was impossible for another couple years. My experience isn't universal and I don't mean to imply it is. That being said, I think a lot of the doomerism here comes from baby trans women, who will be fine as time goes on. Even here it's rare I see an outright hon, twinkhon at worst.
>>42963574I think part of it is just due to dysphoria + rough socialization. Seriously. How can I think of myself as a woman when I spent years growing up, wishing to "man up," only to end up hating my body. Like I remember seeing my older brother and realizing that's what a real guy was like, kinda wishing to be like him, but then turning into that myself was awful. I think an experience like that is fucked up, right? How could I ever see myself as anything resembling a woman when I fought hard to be a man only to end up with the mind virus anyways?
a lot of these people are so sorry for themselves that they don’t even want to be friends with or relate to women at all
