Honestly? Enjoying a failed life is easier once you get over the fact that you failed. You're going to die eventually anyways so get over yourself and relax a little before the void consumes you.

If ya figure it out lmk

>>42966249
this. freedom can be yours if you learn how to just let go

>>42966202
31 years old, complete failure, realized it was entirely due to my own narcissism which I masked as introversion.
My recommendation? Don't think of yourself as being above crashing out. That's self-pity and shame. Think about a woman who is in your exact situation. Same level of complete disaster. Would you tell her to khs? Berate her? Abuse her? Tell her to give up?
Just remember you aren't alone. Like 75% of people fail spectacularly at some point in their life. Learn how to be defeated, how to be kind to yourself as you would a miserable failure of a woman who came to your door. Imagine you have a daughter who needs an inspirational figure in her life. Imagine you have just a younger woman who needs some inspiration. Take responsibility for your inner child.

>>42966310
>>42966249
Yeah, and this. Just relax. Take it slow. Accept that you have to take it slow.

life is full of damned if you do, damned if you dont situations so all that can be done is to find comfort in the damned.

>>42966202
subside and experience whatever until suicidal impulse comes at the right time

>>42966202
I just console myself that everything in my life happens late
college? late
friends? late
transition? late
career? late
but all of these things eventually happened or are finally happening except...

relationship? ...I hate being over 30, I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend

>>42966202
suicide probably

>>42966202
great question. try killing yourself

>>42966202
I got fucked over by Cluster-B demons my entire life and didn't even get any BPDPrincess pussy out of it. Next month I'll be a 36 year old virgin lmao

>>42966202
Find purpose and/or delusionmaxx. Read Fire Punch

>>42966310
This. Part of life consists in learning how to lose