Hello! I have a wonderful FTM fiance who I love very much, but he chose a really stupid last name for himself. I want to marry him but I don't want to take on his last name because it would make my name sound super clocky. I would also feel kind of bad if he took my last name instead because women typically take their husband's last name, not the other way around. Hyphenating our last names together would look ridiculous. What should I do?
>>42968758can't you just get married but neither of you change your names?
>>42968807You can just do that?
>>42968758keep maiden name, honestly if you just explain that you dont want to be clocky and you dont want to emasculate him i think he will understand perfectly i mean, youre thinking aboit him too youre not being selfish
>>42968758is his last name something real but stupid or fake but stupid?
>>42968758Ask him to reconsider the last name if it’s that bad other wise take it you’re his wife
>>42968946Fake.
>>42968758bruh just make him change his last name
>>42968758how would a surname make your name clocky lmfao
>>42969296It's like the Lilith of surnames. It's something no cis person would ever be named.
>>42968758Threaten him with your male frame until he abandons his custom surname of "Queerman" or whatever
>>42969487I can't do that, he can throw me.
>>42969296I mean, I can think of a few.>Queerman>Gendyr>any last name from any fictional character
>>42968758>6 KB>ST4T Marriage Help Anonymous 03/17/26(Tue)05:52:21 No.429687>pooner>changed last name????? wdym changed last name? am i the only one who's confused? or did she grow up in rural skandinavia and needs to change her name to gaydenson or smth now?please explain to me why you would change your last name unless you are a convicted felon, married, divorced or rly rly rly can't be associated w/ your family (eg. if your last name is hitler)
>>42970248im a straight cis man and ive been mildly emotionally abused by my parents and i think of changing my last names, theirs disgusts me but to a very manageable whatever degree i can see how most trannies (Since they are mentally ill, retarded, immature, childish, autistic etc) they would want to change theirs
>>42970255i've been abused as a child too and kicked out to become homeless the moment i turned 18, but i still wouldn't change it, because it's rly just unnecessary, liek it doesn't change anything rlyalso:>im a straight cis manno, kek
>>42970255>im a straight cis manwhy are you here
>>42968758what is this fictional name you made up in your scenario fan fic?
>>42970268i want to understand trannies more in the very few spaces where they are sort of sincere, but it has made me transphobic. jamie reed's article and her experiencing treating young trannies and then this board shows me that you guys are low iq and mentally ill. now im just trying to find sympathy and empathy but i can't, you guys are like a weird breed of autistic chud
>>42971141>wants to understand the minds of normal trannies>goes to 4chan to find out
>>42968847Yeah. Its easy. You just dont change your name. Of course, you will not be properly submtting to the masculine will of your over-husbando. Such rebelliousness may cause him to feel insecure, and lash out to establish your place as his territory. Attone for this transgression, or prepare for his forthcoming conquest.
>>42969687It's worse than those.
>>42971141>jamie reed's article and her experiencing treating young trannieslulnigger read an article of a larper foid and got radicalizedgoyim award
>>42970248My wife (t4t yay) did that because she was able to, no further reasons. But at least it was something normal that actually exists
>>42971852Nta but I was going to convince you to just take his surname until you said that, it's poonover
>>42969170you have to tell us what it is. is it universe. please say it's universe
>>42971852stormblessed?
>>42968758dude just both of you just keep your last name bro thats what my parents did they gave me a long ass last name combining both but i took just my dads later on
can you please share the last name like i NEED to know also who tf picks their own last name ive never heard of that
>>42968758>all these trans women ITT saying they'd take their husband's last namey'all need feminism real. fucking. bad.
>>42973906i hate my last name though and the less association i have with my family the better
just move in to a country were this "taking husbands last name" stupidity isnt a thing :p
>>42973906is it wrong to show my future husband the respect he deserves?
>>42973073Yeah. Doxing myself but it's fucking Stormblessed. And I'm named Freyja. Do you all see why it would be super clocky if I took his last name?
>>42975485hahahahahahahahahahahahaha good luck nona
>>42973906>feminism is when women are prevented from doing things voluntarily
>>42971182this place is full of average trannies, you guys are crazy and extremely male-coded aggro
>>42975485most masculine ftm
>>42976976I guarantee you that the average tranny doesn’t want to spend time on the same site that hosts >>>/pol/
>>42976976This place is full of hot trannies who are also giga male brained and I love it. Its the best type of mtf
>>42975485did he name himself kaladin by any chance
>>42975485>stormblessedJesus wept.
>>42975485>Brandon SandersonMalebrained in the reddit basedbeta sort of wayAnd just keep your last name, I'm from south america where that's bascially the norm. I was shocked when I heard that women would change their surnames to the ones of their husbands in other parts of the world, I still think it's weird
>>42975485HAHAHAHA Freya StormblessedI’d lose my shit if I came across a tranny named that
>>429788471. trannies love self harm2. the 'average' tranny is mentally ill so the implied appeal to normality is irrelevant. The "average woman" is different from a "average tranny", the definition is not because the tranny is normal, being a tranny is deeply abnormal in the first place. the category selects for mental illness/retardation/not being lucid or at the very least a social strategy
>>42975485Jesus Christ, just change it to KUNTMAN please, anythingpleaseWill it beMrs. Frejya StormblessedorMrs. Frejya KUNTMAN
>>42981198lmao ok buddymeanwhile I’m actually in tranny spaces and I’m well aware that most of them would stay the fuck away from you if they actually knew you used this boardbut think whatever you want ig
>>42981265actual trans spaces are full of toxic woke positivity. Of course i'd hide the fact i use this board, but I don't believe those spaces are better than this one
>>42981265i dont think you even understand the point you're trying to convey you're just catty
>>42975506>>42980677>>42980922Kill me now.
>>42975485kek
>>42975485Yeah forget about taking his surname, just say you prefer keeping your maiden name or somethingm
>>42973906I will never take my boyfriends surname. Not because of feminism mind you. I just think mine is cooler. It's that simple nana...
>>42968758Just make up a new name
>>42986500What a fucking disloyal homo male
>>42987927>t.doesn't have a cool name to keep
>>42968847did you really not know this?you understood it was possible for him to take your last name, but you didn't understand that you can just... not do anything?i mean ill be honest i didn't know you can combine your last names like that but doing nothing seems more obvious to me
