Why are trannies so keen on being treated terribly? I've been interested in a trans girl for the past week or so and its clear that she wants me too, but all she wants is for me to fucking abuse her. I was just going to do the basic stuff so she is attached to me and then treat her with love and affection. I just want to be a romantic and loving partner for her and treat her right, she is so lovely and cute I don't have the heart or the energy to do the mean stuff she wants me to all day even when we're not having sex. And I keep having this issue with trannies I date, I just want to be a soft loving top who spoils them but they all want me to be fucking violent. What the fuck do I do at this point???
>>42970503We all have mental health issues, probably prior history with s/a and horrible self worth.That adds up to fucked up relationship preferences.Well unless you want an ex gaytwink hussy idk anything about them.
>>42970528Are you a "bi" transbian or do you really like men?I'm starting to think that most of you go for men because you're desperate and that manifests through feelings of unworthiness and submission.
>>42970503most trannies are steeped in self hate and desire a sort of flaggelation, but unironically this is mostly a learned behaviour that can be corrected with time so don't give up anon you can fix her
>>42970528I can't exactly go for a hussy seeing as I'm a theyfab but I don't know, maybe pooning out is the answer to finding trans girls that actually want to be loved
>>42970546every trans girl I've asked about it here says they are "meta attracted to men" whatever the fuck that means i think its just hsts cope
>>42970551I genuinely really hope so because shes really lovely I don't want to give up on her, but its getting grim
>>42970503I mean I want to be controlled and hair pulled/slapped in and treated kind of diminutively and possessively but I also like soft love and dont wanna be abused a bunch. Does that sound like too much?>>42970570I dunno about st4t but a lot of girls into men seem to want even more extreme domination stuff
>>42970576If you're a Blanchtard, all attraction to men in bi/agp trannies is meta attraction to feeling more feminine in contrast
>>42970607yeah no thats completely fine i feel like, its really not that bad at all
>>42970667Oh okay thats goodSucks that I cant even find anyone willing to do that much to me..
>>42970607>I mean I want to be controlled and hair pulled/slapped in and treated kind of diminutively and possessively but I also like soft love and dont wanna be abused a bunch. Does that sound like too much?Wanna be my GF? Because that's exactly what am I into.
>>42970813asl?
>>42970546I'm a MEF bishit tranny who does actually like men.Even before I trooned out, there were guys irl (not just like hypermasculine ones) I was attracted to. The MEF is like separate childhood trauma shit.I probably have other complexes around someone controlling/dominating me, but as a baseline, that's not the original reason I'm attracted to men.And I'm still relatively switchy anyway, just sometimes I do just kinda wanna be abused.>>42970570It is not. It depends if you want a more equally balanced relationship or not, there are probably plenty of transbians out there who'd work for you.For me it's less that I dont want to be loved and more just horribly low self-worth so I don't really pursue it.
>>42970921Ah thats fair I mean, being in relationships helps my self worth personally but some people would rather not
>>42970607same
>>42970503not all of us are like this....... there's plenty of girls that need a loving man!!!
>>42972023i really should poon out huh
>>42973289maybe u should desust4t is a beautiful thing.........
>>42973373reminding me of this thread I made a few days ago >>42955448
>>42970503I like being dommed but not really violently, but then I'm not really into softdom stuff either
>>42970503Humiliation and BDSM fetishes are extremely prevalent in AGP fetishists.
>>42974096damn, so I guess AGPs really were the fembrained ones after all?
>>42970503Dude, I know i am a cis gay dude, but listen:I have the same kink of being mistreated by man.This comes from a terrible self-esteem, bullying i suffered, associating suffering and feeling humiliated with love and some s/a history.I am not saying you shouldn't play bad boy once in a while, but the core comes from:Feeling powerless. Incapable of defending myself. Not recognize enough my achievements.Of course there are many differences from cis and trans experiences, but it may help:> Remember her of her achievements and successes > Put her to train self defense, boxing or martial arts. Maybe even do classes together> Don't let her bring herself down> Don't compare her to cis women, specially in physical stuff> Ask her to dominate you. The experience may give her a new perspective of herselfNot asking you to become a cuck or get pegged. Just to treat her as a strong person.
>>42974096They're prevalent generally.
>>42970576Terminally online way of saying they have normie female attraction towards men.
>>42974244There's nothing normal about using your partner as a prop to fulfill your self centered fetish
>>42974286Moids do the same dame thing to women. lol Het attraction is grim.
>>42974308They're selfish, but men are actually attracted to womens bodies. All meta attracted mtfs like about men is how they make them feel more femme
>>42970503It’s trauma, I bug my bf for the same because it’s my weird way of some how putting my self in same situation as I was child but on my terms.
>>42974163Actual good advice on my racism board wtfShe would never dom and part of what made us start talking to begin with was her being interested in me being dominant so I feel like if I asked her to dom it would not go over well with her. But I will definitely try the other things thank you
>>42974329Have you ever spoken to women? They absolutely do thirst over moid bodies, even while yapping about how small and feminine they make them feel.
>>42974389Yeah exactly. Women do that, agps don't
>>42974426I’m including both cis and trans women in this. Go the fuck outside.
>>42974377Glad to help. Always at your service. Trans rights, hasta la vitória.
i dont deserve to be spoiled and no one wants to 'spoil' an ugly giant male moid with nothing to offer so why would i ask for something i cant have
>>42974643> moidDon't know what the fuck that is>Giant maleI would DEFINITELY have a giant male sub boyfriend. I would die with him sitring on my face. I am broke as hell and yet i would spoil him every way i could. I guarantee you i am mot the only one.>UglyWell, that seems to be the main issue. So far, it seems to be the only issue.> Now the real question:Why are you venting this in a thread that got nothing to do with this?
>>42974917Extra pic of avatar me with giant sub boyfriend:
>>42974917what do you mean nothing to do with this im a tranny im answering ops question and yes i am ugly and yes it is a really really really big issue
>>42974643Nona the bigger the brainworms the better it feels to spoil and love, the more brainwormed the girl is the more gratification i get from telling her shes gorgeous and pretty and treating her like the princess she is
>>42975497i wish it was just brainworms :(
