i spent a year (365 days) transitioning and it failed ... now what,,?
>>42970997Idk anna
>>429709971 year is nothing lol
>>42970997watch animation memes
>>42970997kys or keep going wtf do you expect to hear?
you can either>errmm, she/her, pleaseor>my pronouns are they/them
>>42971210says who why do u get to decide that>>42971270y would i keep wasting money and time and emotions on something that failed
>>42970997Kill yourself
>>42971216i love you animation memes anon
>>42970997If by "failed", you mean you don't pass as cis, that's not a failure, that's pretty normal after 1 year desuRealistically, if you're already past puberty when you start (older than like 18-20), more often than not surgery is required to pass as cisI boymoded and didn't pass for like 6 years of HRT because I was too useless to actually make concrete plans to improve my life. I put like, over $10,000 that could have gone towards surgery into my retirement account because I was too stuck in the retarded mindset of surgery being something outside my reach.Then after 6 years I realized I had the money to just buy these surgeries out of pocket, even if my state didn't cover them.It's only after I got surgeries (FFS, VFS) that I had the courage to wear makeup and girl clothes and cis pass as a result. That gave me the courage to schedule BA and SRS through insurance, which I now have scheduled for April and December respectivelyDon't make excuses like "I don't have the money", "My state doesn't require insurance to cover it", etc. Instead, make concrete plans. Get a job, take out a loan, move to a place where insurance covers it. Make a fucking plan and act on it rather than expecting everything to just fall into your lap
>>42971424>SRS scheduledBased. And congratulations.Do keep in mind that it's 6 to 12 months to recover. Make sure you have a way of supporting yourself financially during that time. At least 4-5 months you won't be able to do any meaningful work unless you're gigalucky.Also, if you can, choose PPT over any other method.Good luck <3>Don't make excuses like "I don't have the money", "My state doesn't require insurance to cover it", etc. Instead, make concrete plans. Get a job, take out a loan, move to a place where insurance covers it. Make a fucking planLove this mentality <3A lot more trannies would succeed if they simply adopted this mentality instead of finding excuses.
>>42971508>At least 4-5 months you won't be able to do any meaningful work unless you're gigalucky.I work from home as a programmer. I can be back to work within a month. I plan on just taking a month of unpaid leave (something I've discussed with my boss and then be back after a month to work again.
>>42971508I forgot to say>SRS scheduled>Based. And congratulations.Thank you <3
>>42971346thanks nonny i love you too
>>42971320Changes take more than a year it's too soon to know how far you will go with HRT alone
>>42971536>programmerDo you have programmer socks too?Sorry, but it's a joke I do IRL with a tranny friend.I hope you make it. But I couldn't think properly for about 2 months post op. Side effect from the painkillers more than the surgery itself, but still.Make sure you're in the best health condition you can possibly be going in. Make sure you have IRL emotional support available (a boyfriend, preferably). Even basic things like walking and going to the bathroom to pee are a chore in the first 3 months.Long term srs is really a good idea. But the first few months are very far from fun. They're worth it, all things considered, but since you already have the correct mentality, I'm merely cautioning you that you plan for this too. Ygmi, I'm sure. Determined girls always make it.Hugs.
>>42970997Im only now able to look in the mirror and its been 2 years
>>42971424did u even read my op ..? my transition failed no amount of planning or surgery is gna fix that no one asked for ur disney life story
>>42970997mr breast youtube title be like:
>>42971614>Do you have programmer socks too?Lol, to be honest, I always saw the programmer socks thing as a babytrans thing... I have some stockings and leggings that I wear with dresses / skirts but that's itThanks for the warning about the pain / recovery process from SRS. Seems like it's a lot more involved than I thought... I was planning on looking for a BF after I was already post-op, but it seems like my preparations and the people I was planning on relying on wouldn't be able to look after me for as long as I would need. So maybe I need to start looking for a BF sooner.>>42971627I'll only say this. You can either maintain the same loser mentality, post stupid threads like this on 4chan forever, and then die without having ever even tried to live, or you can change your attitude. Your choice.
>>42971727mask off
>>42971752what do you mean?
>>42971758u didnt click the thread to actually post anything useful just to preach trash n call anyone who isnt like you "loser"
>>42971793>What should I do if I'm not happy with my life?>I dunno, work to improve it?>Fuck you, you're just here to preach trash and call anyone who isn't like you a loser!
>>42971812>my transition failed now what?>just improooove u know what failure means right? theres no improvement
>>42970997Become an estrogenised homosexual who dates other estrogenised homosexuals.Like T4T but if you're chopped.
