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>call up bank
>hello can you please confirm your full name
>yes it's <deadname>
>umm you're <deadname>?
>that is correct
>are you ill? do you have some disease that affects your voice? (literal quote)
>no, but are you trying to say that my voice doesn't match my name
>Yes mr <deadname> I am... your voice is umm... very girly...
>Well I am transgender but I haven't updated my name on the account yet
>Oh thank you Mr. <Deadname> *starts snickering* that explains it, shall I put a note on your account to describe this?
>Umm okay as long as I can remove it later
>Yes ofcourse, shall I read out the note for you?
>Okay
>"Mr. <Deadname> has an unusually high pitched voice"
>Does that sound alright Mr. <Deadname>?
>Yeah sure, can we talk about my banking issues now?

She was laughing throughout all of this, like every time I said something I could hear her snicker and whenever she spoke it could hear her barely contained amusement

being trans is a daily humiliation ritual
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Just use a high pitched voice to charm
And a low pitched one to project authority

Even women do this
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>>42976871
>trooncel malding over getting sexmogged by a real xx wombyn
i cum
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>>42976885
I don't think my pitch was particularly high, she just viewed me as a man and that's why she said "high pitch" which to cissoids actually means "effeminate voice"

my pitch is actually too low most of the time, only my resonance is fine

>>42976912
happens every day in my stupid tranny life
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>>42976979
dunno I speak with a higher voice irl and on the phone than I do to myself, but i'd never mention im transgender. Just gaslight the bitch, say you have a cold, whatever
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Also, lying and gaslighting is fembrained, she probably disrespected you because you admitted to doing something socially undesirable without having a good cause
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>>42977028
>good cause
what do you mean
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>>42978030
Like a situation where you HAVE to disclose. Otherwise you gotta gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss
Nobody wants the truth
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>>42976871
another day another L for meek troons who dont know how to be bitchy gay boys when needed
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>>42976871
what situation do you ever have to call a bank nowadays
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>>42978127
Last time I had to call I was blocked from ordering a new card for unknown reason.
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Are you British because this sounds like a very British interaction
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>>42978984
what makes you think so.
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>>42979280
Idk most American women aren’t transphobic in my experience
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>>42978127
first and only time i had to call a bank was about 7 years ago while setting up my first debit card as a teenager. was about a year before i trooned yet i still got ma'am'd on the phone bc of my voice + gender neutral deadname lmfao.
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>>42978984
yes I am British but the woman on the phone did not have a British accent
>>42978076
:/ what should I have done
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>>42979324
Where did she sound like she was from?
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>>42979333
she sounded first generation desi
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>>42979324
>what should I have done.
Apologise and say you didn't mean any confusion. Act coy and stupid. Then when she's off-guard ask her for tips on making your voice sound more masculine like hers.
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>>42976871
i think shes not mocking you but found it funny she saw a male name and heard a girl
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>>42979404
Why would she keep calling her Mr then?
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>>42979456
i dunno
because she said she didn't fully transition and thats currently her used pronoun?
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>>42979468
Maybe I don’t know though the whole thing sounds really cruel if it actually went down how she described it
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>>42979456
I mean if this is the UK and a foreigner you probably had some African refugee on the phone who genuinely thought it was funny because six months ago they were riding a donkey so trannies are a new concept to them.
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>>42979477
that's what I figured too, because she actually asked me to give her feedback after the call was resolved, so I don't think she had any idea how rude she was being

>>42979474
yeah it was exactly how I described :/ but it's w/e better than something laughing at me because my voice is too manly I guess

>>42979468
tby every other bank teller I've spoken to has had the sense to ask for my preferred name and pronouns
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>>42976871
"being trans is a daily humiliation ritual"
Yes. But not on here!!!! https://discord.gg/gejUmDBzMG
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>>42976871
just tell em that's what you sound like
you are humiliating yourself
and switch to revolut, takes 5 minutes and offers much more than traditional banking
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>>42979324
talk down to her like the dumb cis foid she is in your faggiest mannerisms, generaly be a catty bitch
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>>42976871
Why didn't you just change your voice pitch?
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>>42979660
Shut the fuck glowie retard
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>>42979749
>just be meek and let cissoids walk over you with zero resistance or you work for the CIA!!
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>>42979773
Cis women are literally the best allies to trans women you fucking retard. Better than gay men and better than ftms. Dropping mysogynistic shit like foid is gross and totally uncalled for
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>>42979794
Women just virtue signal for the most part, they'll do the opposite of what they say.
At least men are honest
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>>42979812
Tell me you have no female friends without telling me you have no female friends.
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>>42979816
Your female friends will betray you
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>>42979477
yeah except nonette said the woman on the other end was a "desi", a very bonglander word tbhondesu. india was ground zero for the transgender infestation for the past millenium, right up until the united states took the throne. the caller definitely knew what a transgender woman is. that woman is probs waiting for nonette to hex her or kidnap her children or something equally rarted. and as for the feedback request, they're most likely just required to go through a script asking for feedback at the end of a call.
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>>42979377
>Act coy and stupid. Then when she's off-guard ask her for tips on making your voice sound more masculine like hers.
^this is very good advice, OP.
You need to work on your mental transition.
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>>42979749
>being a bitchy twink is glowie now
meek little straight boys have ruined us
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>>42979794
>presumption of allyship
you dont fucking know shit about women you fucking retard. take them as they come, and expect bullshit at some point. if you cant handle that or cant handle holding people loosely then do everyone a favour and detrans, youre better suited to living as a moid.
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>>42979828
Nope.

>>42979906
I do know shit about women I have only had female friends my entire life.
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>>42979940
then how do you not know how to fight them you dumb bitch? or did you hang around them because you like the whiff of pussy?
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>>42976871
Here I go to the bank and they just pretend like I have the correct name on the bank account. What different worlds we live in.
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>>42979960
I just go ok here’s my name here’s my deadname and they go ok name so what do u need
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>>42979940
Okay so you just never ever challenge them?
Sounds like a pointless life. Maybe you just don't have opinions on anything except the most safe ones?
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>>42979794
I agree with you only on the basis that bitches forget that you have to tailor your words to your audience. I certainly speak differently amongst friends than in public when I'm putting on a show of being an ojou-sama. So yeah don't call someone a dumb foid irl because people around you will instantly decide you are a retard and disregard anything else you say.

Come on guys this isnt even forbidden secret knowledge. Its a trope in all your favourite animus for a reason.
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>>42979966
Yeah and this is 4chan, I say foid, I say kike, I'll say nigger too. Welcome and enjoy your stay
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>>42979987
Wow ur so edgy. You said nigger on the Nazi recruiting website. In the meantime we are discussing nona and her phone call with Pajeeta, in that scenario unfortunately nona can't just start shouting at Pajeeta that she smells like poo.
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>>42980011
Obviously but nobody suggested that
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>>42979963
I have opinions and they respect them :)
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>>42976871
Cis gay dude here. Sorry that happened to you.

Next time, ask to talk to someone else. Maybe even the manager or something.

I know it sounds Karen coded, but you don't have to put up with their shit neither.

Not telling you to make a scene per say, just talk to someone else that may respect your situation.

> "Can you add a note on your account too? Disrespectful service with the client. You wanna be able to remove it later?"

Just don't start yelling. That's just weak move that leads to nothing.
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>>42976871
the trans genocide is in full swing out there, stay safe sister



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