Why do larpers feel the need to ruin and mock our community when it’s already hated and misunderstood
>>42977095TPD
>>42977095To be honest people like this are so inconsequential it doesn't even matter. The real issue is when the theyfabs start taking over control of trans spaces and preventing binary trans people from speaking up about their issues or achieving genuine community.
>>42977095#1. Wanting to fuck their fathers#2. Being on the spectrum or having bpd#3. Dooming constantly >t. ranny
>>42977095People like her will insert themselves into communities they don’t belong to because they don’t have a personality
>>42977116yeh kinda agree, for a lot of ppl speaking up always carried w/ it an implicit threat of becoming a target of harassment or violence, and that has only gotten worsethat said, I don't think that misrepresentation or speaking for the entire umbrella is completely divorced from that, both are part of erasure
>>42977207>for a lot of ppl speaking up always carried w/ it an implicit threat of becoming a target of harassment or violenceActually the bigger problem is, and I'm experiencing this myself at the moment, is that we get ostracized from our own communities for speaking our truth if that truth doesn't validate the theyfab's power over us. Which it inevitably doesn't because the theyfabs are just a completely different species. If they're trans at all, which I find genuinely dubious, they're not like me.
>>42977095having that many piercings looks so retardedwhite women have the worst aesthetic taste
>>42977151We need to gatekeep the trans community
>>42977095What causes women to do this?
>>42977116So then they're not inconsequential at all.......
>>42977506OP is not a theyfab, it's a larper. I don't how she's convinced herself she's trans, she probably knows she isn't but likes the attnetion, either way she'll grow out of it by 25. Theyfabs don't even start being problems until at least that age. They're inevitably fat and ugly, but they still don't manage to masculinize in any way, they just bully their way into pride and enforce political correctness to make sure nobody ever questions their right to be there. When I start talking about the problems facing baby trans women, things like access to medical care, safe spaces for experimentation, developing local community support networks, the theyfab I'm dealing with (whose age and BMI are both at least 50), immediately starts finding ways to be a problem. I can't get even basic shit, like setting up a community discord server, done. Never mind something actually difficult like trans inclusivity education for local nurses, or encouraging more doctors to get training on transgender health. The most basic shit can't happen unless it first acknowledges her as the grand pubah supreme of all trans people in my area. Not only cannot I not for the life of me see even the tiniest bit of gender non-conformity in her, but she lapses back into feminism and he opression as a woman whenever it's convenient for her. Like it's her right as a woman to say that she's trans and have everyone recognize that and that's the only trans issue that matters.
>>42977244Everyone just lets these holes just the show as if a whiff of their pussy would even be worth a destroyed community. If cis AFAB "allies" stab me in the back okay, but when mtfs do it, then its just disgusting
>>42977151It's just narcissism, nothing moreThey latch onto victimhood based communities like vampires and suck all the oxygen out of the air
>>42977587Shit like this makes me happy I don't have a local trans community. Because foids would find a way to ruin it. And if not foids, rapehons. Or both.
>>42977739You do tho. It's just all your sisters are scared and alone just like you. Remember 17 people out of every 10,000 is a trans woman. So unless you live in antarctica or something chances are there are a few dozen other trans women living in your community. Just like you they are isolated, lonely, afraid, and not being properly cared for. Theyfabbotry is not a victimless crime. This shit is worse than TERFism, TERFism can just be ignored, but theyfabbotry is actively messing shit up. At least that's what's happening in my life.
>>42977880I know there are a few, but I've definitely seen a few really creepy rapehons out and about as well. And exhibitionist fetishists on apps. It's bad, I'd rather die than be associated with them
>>42977893What does a rapehon look like? Coz exhibitionist fetishists on apps usually have a fucking lifetime of trauma behind that. Sound to me like you just have a problem with older trans women who trooned out later in life. And the reason there are so many of those is because transitioning even 15 years ago was pretty much impossible for most people and fucking nightmarefuel for those who tried anyway. I've heard transbians talking about being vaginasexuals and stuff like that, and yeah that behaviour is problematic and kinda gross. But I've also heard transwomen tell the stories of just trying not to be alone after all their friends and family abandoned them. And at the end of the day a strong community is the best way for us as individuals to survive and thrive.
>>42977095If men can be women that means women can be men
>>42977938No, they were like 18 and asked me to go through the drive-thru at mcdonalds while they exposing themselves. Tbh probably not even on HRT and very open about some weird shit.The rapehons im talking about are two really uncanny creeps with greasy hair and awfully styled punk clothes, who grinned and made creepy sounds as I walked past
>>42977244I disagree, there is no bigger problem, it's the same problem cos the ppl that do get to speak up and represent "the community" will inevitably be ppl w/ lower stakes and who face less consequences then that unbalanced representation further creates a false imagethere is no sense in which those two mechanisms are not related and part of the same phenomenon ultimately
>>42977976Okay I don't really understand any of that, but I'm sorry you're having such bad experiences. It's still important to community build if you're up to the task (so few of us are).
>>42977952only the ones who actually want to be men, retard, that’s how this used to work
>>42977993That's actually a fair point. I'm going to take that on board.
>>42977997I didn't find any decent people on grindr and the app makes me uncomfortable desu. I get like 100 moid messages if i have it open for 1 second.I guess i'm the only mtf that sorta passes on there. DIY isn't exactly that common in europe i feel like its more non-HRT rapehons, fat tunapooners, and sissy crossdressers.
>>42978020aww ok, glad I made sense for a change <3
>>42978023Yeah that's everyone's experience with Grindr, which is why you couldn't find other trannies on there. I have used dating apps to find other trans women, but it's not the phone swipe ones, it's the old style we ones that you need an email for. A friend of mine IRL started one of the most successful trans groups in regional australia by literally just advertizing in the paper for a meetup in the park, and for 6 months she was just sitting there reading a book before others actually started showing up. I'm not saying do exactly that, I'm saying that there are options here for setting up trans led transfemme spaces that will cater to our needs because you decided what the rules would be.
>>42978065I'm busy unpacking my trauma, maybe in another 30 years
>>42978227Yeah that's fair. It's not like I'm practicing what I preach.
>>42978065Good to find the strategy other local communities use
>>42977728but enough about afab socialization
>>42978415It's female socialization, not afab socialization. It's perfectly possible to raise trans girls as girls and trans boys as boys and in some places around that world that's exactly what happens.Stop using AGAB as a stand in for gender.
>>42978431>socialization isn't imposed upon you at day zeroUhnoShit's over before it beganThis is why transwomen are always fucking uncanny
>>42978472I don't give a fuck that you're retarded. The point to using AGABs is to diferentiate AGAB from true gender. When you use it as a synonym for gender you're using it in THE EXACT OPPOSITE way to how it's meant to be used. When we talk about AFAB we are talking about people who were assigned female at birth, some of whom will actually be men, because trans men are men. When we talk about female socialization we are talking about the way parents, teachers and society as a whole raises children they percieve to be girls. Many trans men did experience female socialization and this will present an ongoing problem in their lives going forward. More importantly many trans women experience male socialization which is the intentional infliction of trauma, and it take a lot for us to get over that, if we even can. When you talk about afab socialization instead of female socialization, you erase the trauma I experienced as a female who was male socialized, by erasing my identity as an adult human female.
>>42978415true and its why I prefer AMABs even masculine cis men at extremely masculine environments
>>42978512Fuckoff you narc theyfab filth your manipulation isn't welcome here. Kill yourself
>>42978602I'm AMAB you complete fuckwit. TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN.
>>42978615"trans women are women" is some stupid mantra nobody actually believes, least of all me.You're a sucker if you're mtf and do
>>42978622Then why the fuck are you talking about AGAB at all? Just say female since that's what you really mean. The only reason to talk about AGAB is when you're trying to differentiate between transgender people and cisgender people. You absolute muppet.
>>42978626I'm just keeping it real is all. We aren't like cis women, and cis people will never see us as the gender we'd like to be. Unless we stealth that is.
>>42977095just a hefab being a hefab
>>42978642I don't give a fuck what cis people see. I know what's true and I know what words mean. You were using words incorrectly to say something that isn't true. If you don't believe that trans women are women then how can you believe you are one? You're just a man. I'm not. I'm a woman.
>>42978659>I don’t care about the majority of the world’s population This is the mindset that makes you people violent
>>42978674>you peopleAre you trans or not? Coz honestly you just seem like a bog standard chud to me. In fact I think you might be Jewish.
>>42978659No, I am a trans woman. Not a man, not a woman. But if cis people wouldn't get the nuance
>>42978065TSMTthere is nothing better than ORGANIZING yourself stuff IRL
>>42978700>I'm an enbie and I think I speak for trans peopleI guess it's not just an theyfab thing after all.
>>42978431i think she's just paroding the "amab socialization" that theyfabs love to talk abt trans woman
>>42978725Where's the parody? they's literally just copying it.
>>42978723im AMAB and medically transitioned and therefore mtf, i keep it real. I don't delude myselfI'm AMAB socialized afIWNBAWand thats okay i dont give a fuck
>>42978733>I transitioned to AMABThat's retarded.
>>42978763im AMAB who went on estrogen and transitioned into trans woman, I pass to cissoids usually but I know I'm different
>>42978766It's male to FEMALE transition. Not male to third thing transition. I honestly think you're larping.
>>42978733Your masters must be so proud, born into slavery, you're just keeping it real
>>42978766I was born transgender, assigned male at birth, tortured by my male socialization for decades, accepted my true gender as female, and started my medical transition to try to reduce my dysphoria over my appearance.
>>42978807>>42978808>>42978818I don't feel like a gender desu, I got gaslighted and abused and never felt like I was anyone. I only exist inside my own head where there is no genderI don't like term NB but i feel like i exist outside of man/woman
>>42978958Good for you. Please stop projecting that shit onto everyone else. And stop using AGAB as a synonym for gender.
>>42978982I've never met a mtf who felt like a cis woman to me. I still think trans woman is its own thing
>>42978818>assigned male at birth As if you ever stop being male…
>>42977095these people will never leave us alone huh
>>42979094trannies are fucking pushovers and let them do itStop falling for their foid gaslighting and get a backboneForm a unified front and dont backstab your sisters for foid approval
>>42979003I've never met a cis woman who felt like a cis women. Women are women.
>>42979272Because gender dysphoria is a mental disorder and being cis is not
>>42977151>#1. Wanting to fuck their fathers>#2. Being on the spectrum or having bpd>#3. Dooming constantly>>t. rannyThat's just every tranny except reddit spacing.You're saying they're trutrans?
>>42978958Everyone is abused in one sense or another, you must be abused to accept any label. But your dissociation from severe abuse is not a gender.
>>42979370I just let other people fill in my gender. I get read female usually, only at the hospital or something where I have to show my male ID does everyone especially older women insist on gendering me male. I mog them though
>>42979303Gender dysphoria is the mental illness caused by living as the gender you are not.
>>42977095beautiful trans boy
>>42977095this is just a symptom of all things adjacent to leftist politics being feminized by cis womencis women prioritize comfort above all else so they inevitably cultivate these all-inclusive hugboxes in which no one is allowed to be confrontational or ask hard questionsleftist men let this happen because they've been trained to be good little whipped moidsyou have to end the hugboxing and start making people uncomfortable, setting boundaries, and excluding people who dont belongtrans cant be this ambiguous nearly-meaningless label if you want to make real progress
>>42979629And anyone who sets boundaries get the cis women to wage social jihad against them. I fucking hate leftist woke faggots so much, I'd much rather hang out with chud assholes. At least the latter I can eventually break through to, sometimes.
>>42977108Fippy bippy
>>42977095This isn't a "larper", in the sense that she isn't doing anything that all the other """FTMS""" do. They aren't legitimate or valid like MTFs and never will be. They are all just mentally ill cis women
>>42979003>>42978733Stop being a loser and externalizing your worms
>>42979943It's not a worm when you find peace
>>42979003I have. She was a gigayoungshit.
>>42978512>you're making it seem like I was conditioned to be a boyYep, and you were.There's no woman inside of you at age 2.You were AMaB, raised with AMaB socialization, conditioned into a boy, which you didn't like but it happened anyway, and then you elected to transition into a transwoman at some point, either after becoming a "man" (age 18, I guess, legally) or beforehand.It's not like some tremendous female energy inside you resisted the way the world saw you and built you.That is half of what makes you not a woman.
>>42981047>muh amab amab socialization conditioningcan you go back on tumblr with your sociology wokie bullshit?
>42981047can you imagine this sentence would've been seen as genuinely delusional 15 years back? I really miss these times
>>42981047honestly true in my case, but I didn't choose that at all. I grew up segregated from girls in fact, due to my moms gaslighting and abuseGuess im just fucked forever and I shouldn't even try to be anything but a toxic male
>>42981056Can you develop some self-awareness?"Woke"? What?Why do you think you're on 4chan.org?Oh. Right. You were socialized in ways that made you a fuckin nerd
>>42981047kill yourself violently poon/theyfab