i think happiness is impossible if you know you will never be with the person you love
>>42983327But he's all want and no work
>>42983327then stop loving that person and you'll be happylearn to let go, nonas
>>42983327You can/should love other people. Your one sided limerance is keeping you stuck on this person. Likely to protect yourself from getting hurt again.The truth is we are all special and unique but we aren't really that special and unique. At a certain point you have to accept that what made this person special is the narrative you created in your head and nothing specifically about this person. You can find love again, they will be different and you have to accept that.
>>42983374how to learn that. how can you let it go if you're completely emotionally connected to them and your brain is literally rewired towards them, and your identity doesn't exist without them
>>42983422this is the same way i feel
There are more people to love than just one.
>>42985526maybe but finding a mutual love is really rare so i don't really know can i ever find such person