/lg/ is an experimental new general for cis & trans women who love women to talk anonymously about relationships, sex, and dating. The L aspect of the community deserves a place where genuine, good faith discussion flourishes. Be respectful, share L news/media, and talk about your experiences to connect as a community. Quality over quantity - let the gen take hold slow and steady!Please redirect drama, trip/avatarfagging, and hostility away from this general as its purpose is to focus on loving women. We would like this gen to be a genuine place of discussion among the L members of the community.
what are ur thoughts on a lesbian remake of the girl with the dragon tattoo and shes forced to eat pussy at gunpoint instead. would it be feminism?
>>42985121I’m thinking of adding a list of resources and will probs ask people to contribute if anyone would like! Please report and ignore trolls and bigots who refuse to integrate into a lesbian community.
>>42985136Is this your fantasy, nona…
what do you think of gender norms desire theory? https://studyfinds.com/gender-unrealism-theory-why-desire-may-define-you/it's written by male philosophers so does it not account for lesbians properly ? can it be salvaged?
>>42985174no.. its a great movie idea
Hello dykes
>>42985191>male philosophers
>>42985191I’d rather read an actual trans perspective on this tbqh.
>>42985121is this not just lesgen
>>42985445No. Read the OP. This general is for genuine discussion among dykes, without any cult of personality or drama that permeates the other general.
>>42985471good luck with that lol
>>42985121should've named /DG/so dumb.
>>42985731Looks dumb and the focus is lesbian topics. Only avoiding the term atm to avoid confusion with the other unaffiliated generals.
>>42985301Those thighs are perfection. I love how confidently sexy she looks. Effortless.
>>42985301i would let her destroy my life
>>42985121Wtf, is that child?!?
>>42986449>anon discovers petite women
>>42986472Is that what the pedos are calling em these days?
>>42985301I wish she would crush my head like a watermelon with her thighs
>>42985121I REALLY NEED ADVICEI'm an enby lesbian and I'm dating this one trans girl whos the love of my life, we've dated before and we eventually broke up for unrelated reasons but now we're back together. She really is gorgeous and I adore her with all my heart and soul. But theres a small issue, she is friends with her ex, which I don't really have much of an issue with, if it wasn't for her ex constantly discrediting me and everything I do, but even that is mostly fine i mean, my gf chose to break up with that ex, her ex is asexual and thats a huge part of her leaving and thats not going to be changing, and plus I just trust my girlfriend. However, she also goes on this god forsaken board, that keeps telling her that "theyfabs just go for trans women as a fetish, she sees you as a man you should break up" or something of the sort. I've reassured her about this many times and i will continue to do so forever, we have NEVER had any issues with me saying something insensitive or not properly acknowledging her gender or things like that, I call her feminine things all day long more than i call her by her actual name, reinforcing what I've been telling her for years, I see her as a regular full on woman with no caveats or in betweens, and nothing will change that. But she keeps having this idea forced onto her by other people that I fundimentally only am with her because of a fetish, that I don't actually love her and that i just view her as a "safer man". A few weeks ago she was having a bit of a moment and she was very hopelessly saying that "you don't actually love me right, its just a fetish and you'll break up with me once you're bored"
>>42986640And that perplexed me so much I haven't stopped thinking about it, she snapped out of it really quickly but still the fact that it got to that point is heartbreaking. I don't know what to do or how to even bring it up, I love her so much and i show her that in so many ways every single day to make sure she knows she is the love of my life. I just really need advice and this is too long and unrelated for just a regular thread so I saw this thread and i thought this might be the place to go
>>42986640Tell her to get the fuck off 4chan it's rotting her brain. The internet isn't real life and 4chan is like the outer realms.
>>42986640Yeahhh, dealt with the same thing with a partner and it didn’t end well. She was increasingly consuming 4chan brainrot on here and /pol/. Started sending me transphobic memes ironically, but genuinely hated herself and other trans people. Eventually she left me because she thinks I only wanted a “sad tranny” to save and fetishize. It started with jokes stemming from insecurity, calling me bisexual or calling herself my boyfriend. It got so bad it was making me feel like shit for having my love for her (and my lesbian attraction) invalidated, but ofc I felt worse for her because she had a lot of emotional turmoil. I hope you can find the right words to express this to her, that you both need to spend less time in toxic, negative spaces. Reinforce the things you love about her and spend time on dates together so she knows she is loved.Please do what you can to get her off these sites. Ironic coming from us, but some people are too emotionally vulnerable for whatever reason and it is clearly causing you both harm.
>>42986802god im so glad shes not on pol lmfaoive thought about just telling her to hop off this board but i dont know i dont want to seem controlling
>hons are getting desperate for attention they're trying to rope us back into a general with themlol
>>42987049I’d phrase it more generally, like saying you both should spend less time online without being specific at first. Does she have any offline hobbies? If she spends too much time online, even on more positive sites, she’ll likely return to old habits.I told my ex to stop consuming that content because it rots the brain, and it did not work at all. She told me I was being controlling, so totally valid fear, even though it’s for the best (and I never even demanded it).I’m sorry I don’t have better advice. I can commiserate, but this happened recently and I still wouldn’t know how to deal with it best. I hope others can shed some light. Maybe trans women who’ve been in your partner’s position.
>>42987055We don't want you Go back to /clg/
what?
Excited to go to Japan with my gf
>>42989663what do you two have planned?
>>42989663i think i might end up taking a Japan trip as well, i was thrifting yesterday and found an old barely filled Genki I workbook for a dollar. felt almost like a sign from God. i think Yamaguchi or Osaka would be quite nice!
Would you a werewolf gf?
>>42986640I still think these things (she just sees me as a harmless 0 T boyfriend) about my wife 10 years later. I don't say them out loud anymore. It passes, idk. She doesn't need to get off this board she needs to fix her mental health. Part of which is understanding that mental health is up and down and getting your shit together means being able to get through down times without ruining your own life.
>>42990266NTA but do you think those thoughts in passing or do you believe them?
>>42990164only if she chews my head off after sex
>>42986640>>42986648She sounds bpd. Have you tried fucking her harder?
>>42985121this board took the insecurities i had abt loving women and twisted them into this obscene self-hatred that leaks into my irl interactions. its become some sorta weird idolatry towards cis women, fueled by an extreme fear of creeping women out and invading lesbian spaces. i am my own personal TERF. not sure how to be a normal human again thats not riddled with internalized homophobia and near-hermit levels of social anxietyluv women'ate men'ate being transsimple as
>>42991293They are temporary, and I fully believe them when I think them. From another perspective, my thoughts of being in a loving relationship with someone who sees me as a woman is also temporary and I also fully believe it. I believe that (she sees me as a woman) probably 85-90% of the time. It goes up if I take care of myself and eat right and exercise regularly, etc...I try not to let my current beliefs and the emotional sway of them define me or make any rash decisions based on how I feel in the moment. Positive or negative. If do that, I tend to push people away, waste money, randomly quit jobs, do other stupid shit.I have been diagnosed with BPD, bipolar, and others by various therapists so I dunno how normal or helpful this is for other people desu.
>>42992010living with BPD is just such a nightmare. i never feel fully in touch with reality. its hard to express to someone how real these thoughts feel in the moment and how genuinely devastating they are, and how embarrassing it is when they inevitably--and usually quickly--disappear and leave destruction in their wake. its like emotional psychosis
>>42991392>trans
>>42992238yea
>>42992055I found religion helpful. Not in actually solving the destruction, DBT is way better for that. But for finding yourself beyond your thoughts, actions, relationships.. it took away a lot of the 'never in touch with reality' feeling for me. I have thoughts, my thoughts do not have me.>>42991352ngl this does actually kinda work temporarily, but long term she has to also work her mental health
