One of the harshest pills I've had to swallow as a trans woman when I interact with trans men is that I find they are fundamentally still women when I hang out with them. They engage in all of the same social dynamics when hanging out that women do. Extremely passive aggressive, lies to your face just because you made them feel slightly uncomfy with esotericism or knowledge, and so on. And honestly it makes me feel dysphoric because I know that despite being a woman at heart, my male body and male socialization probably makes women feel danger signs whenever I do something that comes across like a red flag male behavior, like mansplaining things.Honestly I don't even really know what the point of being trans is I feel like I have a surface level understanding of what it means to be a man and a woman and nothing deeper than that and I will never be anything deeper than that. It makes me feel gross and hollow.
>>43032928Yeah it's jarring
>>43032928Only psychopaths can pass.
>>43032928>It makes me feel gross and hollow.just dont worry about it and find another MtF to goon to furry porn with and smoke some weed
>>43032928Umm, I used to think that, but now I'm pretty sure the real divide is autism vs normie. You're saying mansplaining, but are you actually just sperging? Because if I talk to autistic trans men I don't have that problem.
trans women act like male men
>>43033009>autism vs normie.I think this is also true. Auitsts (and ADHD) often have a higher tolerance for other people being a mong imho.. normies are the most insecure fuckes ever and see any incorrect word as a conflict and will smile at you and completely drop you like a psychopath.
>>43032928yeah because being a woman is clearly the superior option so once you have female socialization why would you ever want to choose something different. masculinity is a cage without bars. to be masculine is to give up your ability fully express yourself and to fully connect with others. if males weren't socially punished for being effeminate i have an hard time believing anyone would choose to be masculine. afabs have a hard time fully adopting masculinity because they've been raised with the freedom of expression that being designated female gives you. the issue with the feminism is it partially removed the barriers that stopped women from holding institutional power and doing traditionally masculine things but it stopped short of fully dismantling patriarchy and freeing everyone. "everyone is now free to engage in violent masculine power games! we can now conquer and pillage equally! problem solved!!!!". society still values the masculine over the feminine its just that women now have a little access to masculinity also. in the end the root problem is the same.>Honestly I don't even really know what the point of being trans is I feel like I have a surface level understanding of what it means to be a man and a woman and nothing deeper than that and I will never be anything deeper than that. It makes me feel gross and hollow.very relatable tbhon. i think this is part of this issue of being trans. if we are looking at it as medical issue it is an intersex condition. i don't think im truly a woman but im definitely not a man, these are just the cards i have been delt. i wish i wasn't pushed away from femininity when i was young. if i had maintained the mostly female friend group i had at a young age i think i would a lot more well adjusted. tldr masculinity is a curse
>>43033053I think it's more autistic and male socialized vs neurotypical and female socialized is just a really bad match up. I think the best thing for anyone with autism to do is learn how to treat people with autism. Firstly, and this alone is worth it, it helps you understand yourself, secondly it helps you find and socialize with people who are on your wavelength, and once you've done those two things you stop appologizing for yourself. It's a big learning curve, but I honestly think the fact that so many autists are stuck at the bottom of it is probably the biggest problem of all.
>>43033424ngl female autism is 10 times worse to drill progress into than female neurotypical behaviour, autistic women are insufferably prideful and get away with everything they do.
No, noYou should be like all the other troons and announce how much of a "female" soul you have and how it allowed you to never receive AMaB socialization.kek
>>43033538wait my sister and mom are autistic?
>>43032928you sound malebrained ngl
>>43033666Every troon basically is because their brains are male ;/
>>43033724no that's only ftms and crossdressing men :)
>>43032928100% facts. Thats why I as a cis straight guy only date mtfs. Every single woman without exception cant accept responsibility for their actions. Try it to any girl, point out their mistakes and they freak out. Every time. Mtfs have the beauty of a woman and the empathy and caring honest nature of a man. Best of both worlds. My current gf wants to adopt soon. We're living happily together and our kid will be happy too. Trans girls are made for cis guys
>>43033834you're a gay faggot
>>43033853Im straight
>>43034003holy cope at least accept it and own it
>>43033538Disagree 1000%. Autistic women are balls of stress because they devote all their autism points to masking. And when you meet L2s and L3s and you realize they mask-fail a lot, I don't know about you but my heart breaks. As nasty as the girls in high school were to us, they were so so so so so much worse to the autistic girls. Like they had to hide it from the boys because it was violence against women justified levels of cruelty.
>>43032928Congrats, you've just for the first time realized what everyone else already knows.
>>43032928>mansplainingIf you mansplain things then you're not a woman, sorry.
>>43034112>current year>telling women they can't mansplainISHYGDDT
>>43034052yeah there are really mean gilrs out there but they are usually their own kind of mental illness. there are very kind non autistic women too
>>43034120Yeah I don't know what that means
>>43034137Possibly true, but without neurosafety training Nuerotypical + female socialized vs any kind of autism is kind of a fucking nightmare for both parties.
>>43034159Lurk harder normie.
>>43034186Sorry I don't care
>>43034169what is neurosafety training? i looked it up but didn't see anything conclusive
>>43032928yeahbeing openly trans means they either liked being a woman enough to still live the social role of a woman or they're extremely bitter about never being a manwatching trans women flirt with trans men is like the biggest proof ever of the immutability of assigned sex at birth they view each other as the penis and the pink hole
>>43034400>watching trans women flirt with trans men is like the biggest proof ever of the immutability of assigned sex at birth they view each other as the penis and the pink holeTRUTH TSAR BOMBA
>>43033785waiting to see evidence of malebrain in a poon, lmao
>>43032928The harshest pill I've had to swallow as a trans woman is progesterone because you have to swallow it with your asshole
>>43035285Me
>>43035314TRVTHyou can't tell me you guys are shoving them up your ass every day like do you wear gloves I did it once and never again
>>43035373I do it in the shower. It's easier if both are wet
>>43035337uhhuhHow convincing, my dood
>>43035443that makes sense
>>43034312Just look up autism training.
I hate to give you bigots any credit what so ever but I've been among the ftms and they are genuinely weak AF men. You know waterboy from dispatch? That guy is more manly than the average ftm I've talked to. It's genuinely sad. The BEST part of being a man is being an assertive egomaniacal jerk. You get to have opinions and loudly tell everyone as though it matters or anyone cares. Why? Because you have balls and you can do whatever you want.But no, no fighting. No being a big dumb animal that does what they want. Can't risk offending anyone.And the saddest part is that cis men are such weak beta male bitches themselves that it's really easy for anyone else to beat them at masculinity.
>>43036150>masculinity is when you're noisylolYou a poon or a troon?
It is what it is, it do what it do
>>43033009alarmingly good emily take. i find this disturbing
>>43036150waterboy from dispatch is a fucking chad dude. his cock is probably enormous also. bad comparison
>>43032928>like mansplaining things.If you're a passoid, mansplaining becomes girlbossing.
