Why are oldshit honhags so insistent on the "you just need to put in more effort" narrative, while also saying "transition should be about you being happy"? Why are they okay with talking down on me because i want FFS in the same breath? If i want to be happy and if i want to see myself i will put in the effort to save up and get that, i dont think theres another way to be okay with my body for me and this is bad according to them for some reason.
>>43037912do not listen to hons unless you want to be like them