How do you pass if you have autism
>>43038508They don't pass, they just think they do because they have autismlmao
>>43038508By training your autism to look cute and relatable to normies. That is what I did and I somehow managed to become a stealthoid.
>>43038508Use autistic women as inspiration, not normie women
>>43038525Hmmmm... uh...yeah...
>>43038546No I am not fucking with OP, I will not reply to your bait any further.>>43038536Also this is important.
>>43038536i'd wager a significant portion of 4trannoid despair arises from a failure to do precisely thisif you're here, you'll probably never be a normal woman; not necessarily because you can't be a woman, but because you'll likely never be normal.
selfish bump cuz i would like more people to read and internalize >>43038536 and >>43038557
>>43039784Yeah imo most of the people in the boarf benefits from that advice
if you're mostly there visually, then as a passing autist i just rec you emulate the cis women in your life and just straight up lie to yourself and other people about being trans. lie so hard!you are a cis woman. tell it to yourself in your brain. make yourself believe it. tell it to other people if it's ever relevant. start watching online content made for women. build out your "feminine" social vocabulary. part of it is voice and body language, sure, but another part is being able to relate to the common female cultural norms of other women in your life. instead of watching minecraft videos, watch makeup tutorials. instead of listening to dudes on political podcasts, listen to true crime podcasts voiced by women. instead of niche political commentary, watch cute animal videos. browse r/justgalsbeingchicks instead of whatever other brainrot you follow. do normie shit. learn to LOVE women. learn to LOVE womanhood. you HAVE to internalize "i fucking LOVE being a woman" and you have to let that mindset influence your behaviors.unironically learn as much as you can about the menstrual cycle. cis women will talk about that shit because it happens to them every month, so you need to know how to talk about it. buy some tampons and pads and keep them with you or at home so that you can hand them out if a cis woman ever needs one.you don't have to give up everything "masculine" in your life or your special interests, but you do have to at least make up for decades of male socialization by learning as best you can the common shared cultural language between women.
>>43039956cont. if someone ever interrogates you about your masculine features, have a plausible medical condition in your back pocket. my go-to is PCOS, because there are a lot of clocky cis women who i was somewhat sure were trans that were actually just cis women with pcos - ones who were physically larger and had deeper voices. if you're a post-op, unironically you can talk about dilating with cis women, but just say you have vaginismus. i know cis women who have that problem and have talked about dilating in groups of women.the biggest thing is to just stop letting being such a tranny about everything. i can read a tranny from a mile away a lot of the time because they just lack sooooo much confidence in their gender presentation, even if they're full fem. you are a woman, you are wearing womens clothes because you are a woman, and you will not be ashamed of that fact.autistically prepare for every conversation by having plausible excuses for the things you can't change, and by lying about everything else. it's a lot of effort, but it's doable.oh also leave this board, at least for a while to let your brain recover from the rot of it. i left for years and am mostly a tourist now, but letting my brain recover from the worms and learning to love myself took a long fucking time and has been immensely helpful.
>>43039956>>43040044no ones reading all that my nigga
>>43038508Focus on passing as human first
>>43038508>Being clocked as a normgroid-moder autist
>>43038508
>>43040064thats fine op asked how to pass if you have autism and i told themreading all of that would be the easiest step in the entire process so if they cant do that then they cant do the rest>>43040072i dont catch your meaning
>>43040064I did
>>43040072Autists are more human than the neurotypical cattle hivemind
>>43040156im gonna strangle you
>>43040169Explain.
>>43040072Normies don't view us as human it's true.
>>43040156hope it helps
>>43040348It's so unfair. I'm currently job hunting, and I struggle with eye contact the most and I'm pretty certain it's why I'm not getting hired.
>>43038508i love autistic trannies <3
>>43040885Look at their nose, it doesn't feel like looking them in the eye but looks the same from the outside.
>>43038557>>43039956>>43040044thank you for writing this, this is all super helpful!!
>>43041244np nona, ygmi
>>43038508As with all things:Rule 1: Be attractiveRule 2: Don't be unattractive
>>43041244i'm the first poster you replied to and fwiw i think that other anon and i are kind of making different points.she's giving you (good! practical!) advice on how to be more normal, or at fake it better til you can make it.i was more trying to emphasize that there are, in fact, non-normal women out there, and say that you should take note of this and adjust your expectations accordingly, finding female role models that are more realistic and appropriate for you lest you extrapolate normie womens' behavior to all women and go insane thinking you'll never be a real woman cuz you aren't normal or whateverthat's not to take away from what other nona said, her points are good and our posts aren't contradictory at all
>>43041489i am the other nona and i completely agree. find role models among women that are neurotically similar to yourself. there are a lot of female autistic content creators on youtube that aren't just faking that you can find, and finding one that matches your weird (autistic or otherwise) will be really helpfil for you. my suggestions are mostly on how to assimilate into womanhood in a way that will minimize the chance of other women going "oh that's a really weird thing for a cis woman to say, think, or not know. could they possibly be trans? their hands...." yadda yadda yadda and allow you to socially exist among women without feeling like a black sheep.
>>43041553100%! would high five you if i could
>>43038525>By training your autism to look cute and relatable to normies.but how? what do they find cute? sometimes they find me funny but half the time thats on accident.
>>43041710What do you find cute?
my autism makes me not care about passing desu
>>43045208based woman's restroom rapist viber
>>43041710Hmmm I am not sure now that you say it... I think I mostly surpressed my most masculine stims and habits (I scratch my balls a lot) while also modifying other stims to be more femenine. For example I've managed to replace the raptor hands with other posing gestures that accentuate feminity like putting my hands behind my back or having a hand on my neck and tilting my head a bit while talking. I've also replaced my normal vocal stims (screeches) with words and phrases I can say without sounding too out of place.
>>43041489>>43041553i understand they were different points but i appreciated both a lot, i will definitely save these and come back to them ty nonas :) the watching content made by/for women is a really good idea and trying to find women that are more like mei am pretty good at masking my autism and i try to socialize with women as much as possible and i think it helps, will definitely keep these in mind TYSM again
>>43045223nta, but I still use the mens roomt. 10 years hrt
>>43045292you're supposed to use the tranny hole
>>43045292If I was your friend I would FORCE you to use the womens room through encouragement and positive reinforcements.
>>43045298>>43045318I got kicked out of a women's restroom by a sassy black lady in Vegas last year and now I have a big phobia. she was all like>why is there a MAN checking doors in the ladies roomand then took her phone out to film me so I leftthen I had to sit down in the Coca Cola store with my bf and pretend nothing happened while she gave me the evil eye from across the store.also I don't pass at all so I don't blame her
>>43045347That is why I, as your friend, would follow you to the bathroom everytime to make sure weird women do not harass you.
>>43045364>having another tranny follow you around and go, "IT'S MA'AM"holy fucking embarassment
>>43045364ew I don't want you listening to me use the bathroom.>>43045377maybe she is like a gigahon and it would be a smokey and the bandit situation
>>43045223the women's bathroom doesn't have urinals so I avoid it
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>>43038508you cant really unless you turn it into girl autism.but not like retard girl like girl whos a little autistic but noone can tell because shes so well socialised.t. non autist
>>43038508A lot of the time I feel like im on the outside looking in to the world, I don’t know why social things are so hard for me people’s actions just don’t logically make sense to me. I’ve known from a young that my brain worked differently to most people but I never had any idea why and my parents were anti mental health and would consider autism super embarrassing. So I just got yelled at for not being “normal” and in social interactions people never want to hang out with me when i ask, I have no idea why im just too “weird” maybe even though I don’t even know what im doing wrong. I really try my best and some people are just so mean, I’ve always found it really hard to make friends and I hate it because I really try my best and I get really lonely. I don’t know I wish people were just nicer to each other because I’m not trying to hurt anyone but sometimes I do without knowing it. Add to that being trans and its just a lot. but i’ll keep trying my best i hope i can figure out how to act like a normal woman someday
>>43046911And growing up I just thought i was different because it was all my fault and all in my control, it made me cry and hate myself so much. it is my fault i guess but no matter how hard i try i can’t change how my brain works and most people don’t have sympathy for that. ive figured out how to make small talk pretty well these days but i just wish some kind of deep connection was possible for me because its hard not having people to talk about anything above a surface level with or talk about my emotions and thingsAt least I know how to do small talk as a woman lol but the rest will take more time. I hope i can figure it out someday :)
>>43038508cis girls with autism are currently trying to figure this out for themselves on social media
>>43046957>>43046911yep thats pretty much growing up with autism. I only have 1 friend (my bf) and thats because I am his source of sex.
>>43048258Is it that transactional?
>>43048312if it is, im getting screwed becasuse I don't really get anything out of the relationship
