>"this cis girl said she sees me as a real woman, i'm so happy!">gets raped>"that was awful, but this new girl said she's asexual, so atleast i know it wont happen again.">gets raped>"im done dating people, i'll just spend time with my few irl friends.">gets rapedi cant do this anymore tranners. ever since i trooned out i have consistently gotten raped or assaulted by every cis woman who has shown interest in me. T4T isn't an option considering where i live, and i am too mentally unwell for an online relationship. do i just rope at this point
>>43042900have you tried consenting to sex with beautiful young females
>>43042945had a friends with benefits. i got raped again
>>43042900>>43042969there is a common denominator here
>>43042900you shouldn't complain, you're not human. just accept the rape, foid!!!
>>43043040am i just rape slop?
boy this board loves to larp that domme cisf chasers exist shocking that a board full of transbians into rape fantasies also seem to post multiple threads a day about how they were Totally Raped By Stacy
>>43043227might sound retarded but i think they genuinely didnt even realize they raped me. they kept trying to talk to me like normal after, but considering they got me drunk, high, or had me unable to resist i still did get raped
>>43042900everything cis females say to put other people down is 100% projection, they are the true rapists who can't control their desires.
>>43043227Rape isn't only committed by dom/mes. Also, if the trannies are larping, that doesn't mean that there aren't cisf chasers actually out there. Using 4chan, but this board in particular, as a gauge for what occurs in the real world is retarded. You can't deduce meaningful facts about reality from this place - assuming what you read here is either entirely true or untrue is dumb.Also, if you aren't actually a trans woman with these kinds of experiences, chances are you'll never encounter this phenomenon first hand. Even among other trannies I know IRL, most of them don't "get it" unless they've also had similar experiences.>>43043260I also got assaulted by a cisf chaser. She didn't realize what she did until I spoke to her about it afterwards. She was really shocked, but also very understanding and took responsibility for it - the specifics of what she did were undeniable (multiple other people could corroborate that she was initiating and pushing everything, up to the point where we went for some privacy, where she pushed it over the line HARD), and I think she was otherwise... more or less good natured, and I approached her about it meekly but also very plainly, just describing what she did without an accusatory tone or anything, just a "hey, you did the other night, I think we need to have a talk about it." and she was pretty receptive. They really are just not cognizant of what they're doing, often.Of course, maybe she was really malicious and cognizant, and was preying on my own goodwill and trust, but I don't know. She and I don't talk anymore. Guess it's something I won't find out until the post game stats of life.
>>43045025*hey, you did this the other nightjust a typo correction
>>43043208i've decided to be nice and say no
>>43045025thank you so much for the kind words. i really wish it was that simple for me but both situations are so complicated. the first girl this happened with was in college while i was 17 (i had just came out, wasnt on hormones yet). she knew my identity and got me drunk to do that shit to me, but she also multiple times attempted to baby trap me, and those texts dont look pretty on my side as she was making me promise to come hit her uterus so she didnt get pregnant? no clue what her issue was but we are no contact anymore.currently im dealing with a girl who tought it would be romantic to pin me down and kiss me while i was struggling to get away (yes she knew, the few times i got my mouth free i was very clearly trying to get her to stop.) however after i started telling some of our mutual friends, she framed photos of bite marks from her ex that shes saying are me, and showing it to all my friends. shit sucks so bad. sorry for long vent im a sad tranny fag LOL.
>>43045726I had a similar experience to your first one, but it was when I was 19, before I came out (I wasn't a femboy or anything prior to coming out, I was just a regular, slightly faggy guy), so I don't really count it as like, "cisf chaser assaulting a trans woman". Same thing as well with the texts from my end looking not good. I'm lucky in that she was renowned among our local scene for being a really sinister and malicious person with a history of lying about this kind of thing, so she kinda just got dismissed immediately - which, I want to make clear, is generally bad and misogynistic, but in this one instance, she really was one of those "crazy bitches" that misogynistic men always go off about. At one point when she was drunk, she was openly laughing and boasting to me about how much she loved the power trip of falsely accusing people and trying to baby trap them. It was insane, genuinely surreal time in my life. Last I checked up on her social media like 8 years ago, she has a kid and is poor. Crazy shit.Your second story is a lot like my most recent experience, at least in terms of the actual assault itself. I was vocal about not wanting what she was doing to me, and she kind of just plowed ahead whilst saying I'm special to her - granted, she was a one off hookup that has a completely different social group (met her at a thing my parents were hosting, she's 40, I'm in my late 20s), so there's not really any chance of it coming around in my social circle in the end, and I have the text messages of her outright admitting to it and such, and I made it clear to everyone that knows that I don't want to take it any further. IMO, she acknowledged it and apologised, which is more than most people ever get, so I'm willing to "let it go", so to speak.Don't feel bad about venting, sometimes you just gotta scream it out to the void and get it out. It's rough out there, I know. Hope it all shakes out even and sums back to 0 for you in the end, nona.
>>43045818currently trying to work the second situation out, its so weird because me and her HAD kissed and such before, but we never went to sex. when the assault happened, literally 5 minutes previously she had said she wanted to stop doing physical stuff and just be friends (which i was fine with!). she came back into my place 5 minutes later and did what i described, then later that night sent me the attached image of what she wrote about me to prove she "doesnt hate me"also what does nona mean, im a little new here?
>>43045862This is insane, you really rolled snake eyes with this one, I'm sorry. Writing quasi romantic and obsessive poetry/prose for and about the woman you just assaulted is genuinely mindblowing. You gotta shed this woman entirely from your life, I'm so sorry.Also the kissing and such before hand - yeah that was my experience too. She and I were kissing and getting cuddly, then I stopped and said I don't want sex, just some slow making out until we got to know each other better, then she just... kept going even after I kept telling her to stop.Honestly, idk for certain about what nona means - just saw everyone else using it and kind of guessed at what it means. It's just anon but reversed, and I guess it sounds more feminine than 'anon', so is used here a lot because, well. This board is mostly trannies, lol.
>>43045906i wish it was easier to talk with people here, youre super chill nona!i did cut contact with that girl, however she is still actively trying to get involved with my life, hell before i even told my friends what she had done she went to them so none of them want to hear my side. its incredibly unfortunate because i didnt have many queer friends in the first place irl, but now im low on basically ANY irl friends.i know itll get better soon, im going to college in a little bit hopefully, its just so so difficult right now.
You girlies need to accept responsibility for drinking "she got me drunk" is dumb bullshit and doesn't absolve you from making the choice to drink
>>43045952holy pickme
>>43045943Yeah, most posters on this board are not worth listening to. I've just been on 4chan on and off since like 2013, so kind of just learned to disregard most people. Occasionally you see someone posting sincerely (or at least, what seems to be sincerely - you never know on the internet. always keep your wits about you), and we have a nice little interaction. I even met the girl I'm currently seeing on here, but that's a rare occurrence and I wouldn't count on it. Honestly, I've found a lot of local "queer communities" to be... rife with pretty horrid social politicking and bollocks, and few people have any idea how to actually productively engage with things like sexual assault accusations in a social scene. I have my group of queer friends that I trust, but the "community" at large here, I don't trust for a second.I'm guessing for college, you're moving away and getting out of town? That's probably a good chance for a restart. I don't really talk to or have anything to do with most people who knew me pre-transition, and sometimes I get sad about it because I was really good and close friends with some of them, but sometimes a clean break and a restart is really what you need - sometimes it's the only way.
>>43045952rape brain spotted
>>43045992Yeah, i do plan to move super far. i live in the south (not super deep, but still its the south) and am currently shooting for certain canadian schools. im lucky that my parents are well off enough for it to not be an issue as long as it isnt like, unreasonably expensive. is there a way we can keep talking? i think youre cool but from what ive seen its hard to keep up with specific people here. id ask for your disc but im assuming you dont wanna post that on a public board.
>>43046043How's a burner email instead?Also, obligatory "I'm not interested in talking to you" if you're not at least 18. Sorry nona, you know how it is.
>>43046087im 18, dontcha worry about it!temp email is here, just send me a messagetebahi8016@exespay.com
Im so depressed and sad I wish someone was raping me sigh
>>43046087swapped to a diff email by the way, just lettin ya know
>>43043208Transwomen are sextoysto each otherto womento mento even transmen