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as a guy attracted to femininity i will never date a trans woman again

i cannot stomach spending yet another multiple hour sessions per week either holding a trans woman while she screams and crychokes over her dysphoria or having to listen to the same thing over facetime

it is not realistic to expect a man to spend a fifth of his waking hours coddling a trans woman about her dysphoria

fix your fucking self worth before dating someone
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>>43057304
So you dated a mentally ill person, probably because you are also mentally ill, and this is our problem because…?
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I think thr percentage of TW this messed up is pretty small, do you just attract messes lol?
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Realistically the only trans women worth dating are the pseudo gay flamer types, they are the only types that are able to approach a level of normallacy. The actual 'im just a normal woman types' are all cripplingly mentally ill and you are essentially signing up for a carer role. Its sad but it is not worth it.
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>>43057326
I am of the “I’m just a woman” type or whatever, and happily engaged, employed, and perfectly functional. You all are just not very good at weeding out people with problems, because you are very stupid, which is why you keep ending up miserable.
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>>43057326
>Realistically I don’t think trans women are women and I date effeminate gay men instead
this thread isn’t for you, fag
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>>43057330
i was making a statement about a demographic and your response is "yeah but i'm not"; are you a retarded person? do you think trans women typically have stable mental health, gainful employment and a healthy social circle? or do you think these might be issued among vast swathes of trans women?
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>>43057345
everyone that dates transwomen is bisexual or homosexual
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>>43057375
I think if you are categorizing who is mentally ill based on whether they view themselves as a woman, or whether they view themselves as a fag LARPing as a woman, then you are a veritable idiot. Everything you’ve just said is literally mindless babble from an idiot.
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>>43057382
nobody cares what you think gincel. kys
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>>43057388
do transgender women, AS A DEMOGRAPHIC, typically have good mental health or poor mental health? a demographic refers to the population so i am referring to the pop-u-lation of transgender women. you might notice that the entire population of transgender women is not equal to just you. you clearly have a profound intellectual disability, that is YOU, not the entire demographic of transwomen, you were dropped on your head as an infant or deprived of oxygen - do you see how these two things are different. Is your care person around to explain these simple concepts to you around?
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>>43057438
>do transgender women, AS A DEMOGRAPHIC, typically have good mental health or poor mental health?
The fact you continue to press this question, then aggressively assert I am retarded, when this has absolutely nothing to do with what I said or what I am responding to, is absolute proof you are extremely fucking stupid. I am not interested in your retarded babble.
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>>43057304
1. Have you ever become sexually aroused while picturing yourself have a nude female body or with certain features of the nude female form? Yes or No.

Items 2-6: If you answered "yes" above, which of the following statements were also true? [Otherwise proceed to items 7 and 8]

2. You became sexually aroused while picturing your nude female breasts. Yes, No, or Never pictured yourself with nude female breasts.

3. You became sexually aroused while picturing your nude female buttocks. Yes, No, or Never pictured yourself with nude female buttocks.

4. You became sexually aroused while picturing your nude female legs. Yes, No, or Never pictured yourself with nude female legs.

5. You became sexually aroused while picturing your nude female genitals (private parts). Yes, No, or Never pictured yourself with nude female genitals.

6. You became sexually aroused while picturing your female face. Yes, No, or Never pictured yourself with female face.

7. Which of the following pictures of yourself has been most strongly associated with sexual arousal?
a. As a nude women
b. As a woman dressed only in underwear, sleepwear, or foundation garments (for example, a corset)
c. As a fully clothed woman
d. Have never become sexually aroused while picturing yourself as a woman
e. Have never icturing yourself as a woman

8. Have you ever been sexually aroused by the thought of being a woman? Yes or No
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if you can't hold her while she cries for at least one hour a day then don't date a trans woman
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>>43057450
okay, so you know how there is people. Try to imagine one person, lets say the nurse the wipes the dribble off of your chin and gives you your sippy cups, but there are also a lot of nurses. you know how there is only one nurse that wipes up your messies? that is what we call an individual. If i was talking about all nurses, that is what we call a population or demographic. Now if i say nurses have red hair and you say "but the nurse that wipes my ass for me after i have gone bambam in my nappy has black hair" - do you see how that doesn't make sense. Its because your personal retard nurse is not the same as nurses, nurses refers to every nurse.
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>>43057304
is picrel urs
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>>43057326
>The actual 'im just a normal woman types' are all cripplingly mentally ill
yeah, they're normal women.
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>>43057478
this would fix me
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>>43057326
i am the pseudo gay flamer type but i have other mental problems u have to coddle me for
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>>43057500
>all X are Y
>”I’m X and not Y!”
>you: OMG YOU ARE A RETARD
This still has nothing to do with what I said or what I was responding to. If your next post is not explaining how the stupid autistic shit you’re bleating is related to what was said, then I’m done with the conversation. I have already told you it’s not even orthogonally related to what’s being said and you are just repeating yourself. I can see why you only attract mentally ill people: you’re fucking dumb as shit
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i have to coddle my bf because he's a the worlds most obvious deeply repressed repper who's brain is slowly melting under the pressure.
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>>43057304
Skill issue tbhtho I love my trans gf shes so much better than any cis girl Ive ever had
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>>43057530
i have drawn you a picture that might help you understand a little bit better. i think you may also be confused by me using hyperbole when saying ALL transwomen, hyperbole is a big person word that means you exaggerate a bit, you know when you say something like 'i could eat all the banana babyfood in the world' but you just mean you could eat lots and lots? What i was saying is that lots and lots of transwomen have mental health problems. Remember that is transwomen as a group, i am not referring to just you see in this picture how there is you, and there is lots of different transwomen. see how they are different?
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>>43057573
I wasted all that time reading this and nowhere did you explain what this has to do with my original post or the one I was responding to, which I have requested repeatedly. Amazing. I sincerely hope you have a caretaker.
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>>43057637

this is a bit complicated but in populations there are also sub populations. You know how your nurse wipes the shit out of your ass when you go bambam? there are lots of nurses that do that but there are nurses who dont do that - they do something different. those nurses are a sub population of all nurses.

i was referring to two different sub populations of all transwomen, like how there is the nice nurse that cleans up your dribbles and the mean nurses that give you needles :(

the two types of transwomen i was referring too were

>the 'im just a normal woman types'.

and

>the pseudo gay flamer types

so we are comparing these two groups of people - remember - they are all transwomen and you are not the same as ALL transwomen.

now I know i said
>The actual 'im just a normal woman types' are all cripplingly mentally ill
but remember that big boy word i just told you about? hy - per - bo - le. What i was actually saying is that lots and lots and lots of those transwomen have crippling mental health issues. But the other type of transwomen, the pseudo gay flamer types do not have as many people with mental health issues.

So when you identify yourself as one of the 'im just a normal woman types' but you DONT have mental illness, it is what grownups would call 'an inane point from a mentally retarded mongrel'. Thats because you are not the same thing as entire demographic and you lacking mental health problems doesn't mean that the population doesn't have lots and lots of it. I was using that big boy word HY - PER - BO - LEE. Do you need me to do some pictures
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>>43057326
fuck guys it’s 2026 can we stop using the fucking Pepe meme soon? You literally choose to represent yourself with a chopped looking frog; how are you fit to give anyone advice? Fucking nepalese basket weaving site… fuck out of my face.
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>>43057749
>i am overgeneralizing but thats actually le hyperbole, TROON
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>>43057749
Earlier you were seething about how trans women have higher rates of mental illness. Now you’ve gone back to distinguishing between two different types of trans women, which was your initial point. And your whole seething, scathing essay could’ve been avoided if you had just said, “Ok well maybe not all,” or “Yeah I overgeneralized a lot.” But you’re still just doubling down on your shitty ass point. Let’s make it simple enough for a double digit IQ mouth breather like you: whether a trans woman sees herself as “just a normal woman” or as a gay man LARPing as a woman, these supposed categories are not useful for determining who is likely to be mentally ill, because there is no correlation. A single anecdote *does* disprove your claim when you are saying “I avoid this group because they are all mentally ill.” Pretending otherwise by now claiming “well I didn’t really mean all and you should have known that!” is a cope. So to summarize: you are shit at communication, extremely stupid, and almost certainly unemployed.
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>>43057345
>He's gay for dating the only type of tranny that is actually feminine and attracted to men
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>>43057304
I don't wanna date someone too broken but helping out someone who's a bit insecure and needs support seems nice
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>>43057462
not how it works, nobody pictures THEMSELVES having breasts/ass etc, unless they're a borderline passoid in the first place
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>>43057330
>and perfectly functional

Your needlessly violent demeanor and low IQ response indicates otherwise. Thanks for playing.
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>>43061018
>violent demeanor
This is just a lie, and you know it’s a lie. I have a job, my own home, a fiance, good friends, a supportive family. You have only lies and copes.
>low IQ response
If you could tell me where I am wrong, you would, but you can’t. But thanks for playing!
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>>43061018
PLEASE FIND NEW HOBBIES



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