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Any nb in the board?
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>>43057461
hi
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>>43057482
Hiiii
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>>43057492
wassup
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>>43057461
yeah but im a theyfab so you people want me dead or raped or both
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>>43057502
They only say that stuff cause they're weak and small on the inside. they think of it like a rich person complaining about how their life is "just as hard", because it's not hard in the right ways
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>>43057502
How's it being a theyfab for you? Like the way you perceive yourself and present socially
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>>43057615
It's pretty easy, as I'm really androgynous and when I encounter people they either assume I'm a boy, assume I'm a girl, or ask for my pronouns (if I'm at my woke ass uni). If they do one of the other two I will say "Actually I'm a guy/girl, why would you assume that" and act all offended because it's funny. I don't feel particularly strong dysphoria but I do want a dick and a more masculine face.
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>>43057502
Addmitedly, I do have a distaste for theyfabs, but it's moreso of an internal bias, i'm aware of it and try to counterbalance it with concious thought
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>>43057651
Do you feel the same distaste for theymabs?
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>>43057461
Are non-binaries just autistic?
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>>43057671
I guess it applies to trannies in general
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>>43057664
nta but theymabs are the worst, might be worse than theyfabs even.
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>>43057664
yeah, never even met one though
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i'm sorry nb people i can't help but think all of you as cute boys and cool girls but i hope that's fine because i still like all of you
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>>43057674
When I think of theymabs I imagine a long-haired guy with a dyed beard who thinks of himself as "androgynous" and is in a polyamorous relationship (cucking). When I think of theyfabs I think... someone mildly annoying on Twitter with dyed hair.
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>>43057673
Autistic to the extent to not committing to either being straight or transitioning.
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>>43057693
Tons of people like that in the board who don't seem to identify as nonbinary
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>>43057461
hey
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i'm nonbinary and transitioning
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>>43057706
Same (OP)
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>>43057700
What are they then?
I'm not well-versed on the subject
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>>43057712
"Man on HRT and stuff"
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>>43057634
Do you openly say you're nonbinary outside lgbt spaces? I personally don't lol
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>>43057726
Non-binary is more convenient, isn't it?
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>>43057732
no, i just let them go with whatever gender they perceive me as, although if i had a partner i'd want them to not be so obvious about seeing me as a girl at the very least.
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>>43057733
I don't think so, at least socially
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>>43057744
Oh yeah I agree in both regards.
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>>43057745
Idk, man in hrt seems more weird, cuz it's confusing with trans
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nonbinary people on hrt are trans
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completely irrelevent to the thread but is twitter down
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>>43057779
No idea I don't use it ):
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>>43057779
no
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How do I know if I'm bi and what would be the implications?
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>>43057791
Fuck, I meant to say nb
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>>43057798
There's no implications in practice
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>>43057502
Just dead, not raped, we're already called rapists, we dont want to confirm that lol
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>>43057806
then perhaps maimed and amputated of limbs?
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>>43057802
Maybe that's not appreciated socially, but idk by whom specifically
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>>43057825
Like in my case I'm on HRT because of dysphoria with my body, but I don't feel attached to being a man or a woman, both feel equally wrong
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I thought i was enby for a few days but im just a guy in my heart of hearts but I do wish I could will myself to be nonbinary. . .
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>>43057841
Do you know why you wish it?
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>>43057841
>just a guy in my heart of hearts
How exactly are you feeling that you're "a guy"?
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>>43057842
It seems like it would be a little bit easier and that I wouldnt have as many hangups with gender and what not
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>>43057850
Which hangs up do you have?
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>>43057845
Well it's just i feel like the way I think, the way I act, my interests, how I interact with people, all align with being a guy more than anything else and also feel deeply uncomfortable upon being called anything else idk, Like being called a woman or a theyfab feels extremely wrong and makes me uncomfortable
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>>43057854
That maybe I wouldn't feel pressured to strictly adhere to like gender roles because people get onto me and call me fembrained or tell me I have a female soul and stuff like that..
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>>43057874
You don't have to be non-binary for that
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>>43057634
>I "transitioned" to be a pain in the ass
Womanmaxxer
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>>43057762
Not really
Just call yourself a man and that's it

Transwoman is an amab with she/her pronouns
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>>43057869
What are those interests?
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>>43057915
I've never really cared about pronouns specifically, in my language especially, but being referred to as man(not just technically but narratively) always felt odd desu
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>>43057917
kpop, britpop, internet drama and gossip that pertains to niche microcelebs, drawing pictures, uhhhh steven universe.. fishtank.live...
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>>43057944
So these are supposed to be male interests?..
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>>43057954
Yes
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>>43057955
I'm confused
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>>43057461
who wants to take bets on whether OP is a theyfab/theymab
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>>43057461
yahooooo
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isn't nb just code for ugly question mark beings
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>>43057461
This pic reminds me of that mimic boss from HK that collects Grubs and vessels
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/fakegen/
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>>43057973
You know, he likes real man type shit: painting your nails while gossiping with your besties, recording yourself doing tik tok dances, cutting up old magazines and making mood boards, checking your horoscope constantly. Dude’s a regular chad hanging with the boys
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>>43057983
Please do
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i wamt a theyfab partner so bad
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>>43058879
I was trolling ik the stuff I said is stereotypically feminine
I have autism i dont have any female friends or frens at all rlly
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I think all trans people are really just non binary. In a genderless world, trans people would just be those interested in a larger spectrum of expression.
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What cis women think of theymabs?
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>>43057461
hi
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>>43059827
Are they on HRT?
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>>43057700
The label sucks
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>>43059930
Socially yes? That's why I don't use it myself and let people gender me as they see fit. Being enby always carries some kind of compromise
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>>43057482
>>43057498
>>43057702
>>43057706
>>43058594
>>43059898
Can you tell us your experiences?
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>>43059726

Aw man, now I feel bad. Do you want friends? I know autism can make it more challenging to make friends, but it’s not impossible. It seems like half the people on this board are on the spectrum
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>>43057700
Yeah hi that's me. I'm a cis man but with several pages of qualifying footnotes (many of which nested)
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>>43057502
I just want to date you
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Ib prefer NBs because I'm more andro inclined, but it's so annoying sorting through them to avoid the BPDemons and idpol retards.
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>>43061676
Lol yuup there's too many idpol people
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>>43057983
op theyfab 200%
theymabs wouldn't make a nonbiney thread cuz they're most likely to hangout in other threads
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>>43061519
MEF general is next door
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>>43061730
Even if OP is on hormones?
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I miss theyfab sex, they actually think on how to have sex instead of just expecting the dude to puppet them or just pump and dump.
Majority of straight cisf (and m) are still so terrible at sex. Do they not know it's fun and you can do more than missionary?
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>>43057461
i don't think i'm nonbinary but i think i'm kinda gender apathetic, which is weird when still being dysphoric
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am i fucking retarded if im on hrt but call myself theymab? cant tell if its contradictory or a slap in the face to other enbies? im enjoying being a lot more androgynous and im so early into hormones that theres almost a 0% chance i could pass as anything but androgynous/nb. sorry in advance if this is like taking PEDs at the olympics but it just makes me feel nice in my own skin rn.
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>>43057461
Idk if I’m enby but there’s still a little part of me that doesn’t ever want to let go of the “boy” in me. I’m on hrt I want to get ffs and I’m voice training but there’s something sweet about boys who are sweethearts despite masculinity usually suggesting they shouldn’t be.


Or maybe I read too much yaoi idk..
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>>43062335
Relatable
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>>43062335
You read too much yaoi talk. Watch Lord of the rings. Ignore Hollywood media.
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>>43062526
Idk what this means respectfully.. I just sometimes have days where I think someone I love calling me a boy would make me happy and some days it would make me depressed. Part of that isolation even within queer spaces of not fitting in feels sort of nb or gender fluid to me. Idk I wish I was a theyfab but having a penis is ok I suppose I just hate the rest
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>>43062595
I still don't get what's a theyfab
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>>43062279
wdym? if you arent on hrt youre cis not enby
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>>43062595
You sound like a kid wanting to be accepted and you're thinking it's related to your gender and sex. It's not.
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>>43062634
it’s kind of a rude way to identify nb people who were born an wen through female puberty.. you probably shouldn’t say it they’re nonbinary but I hate my masc features

>>43062664
I could fit in but it never felt authentic. HRT has been nice but I still look in the mirror and examine the masculine features I hate and getting “he’d” if I ever talk over the phone and it makes me sad.
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>>43062634
afab that uses they pronouns
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im a cis male on hrt and i say im nb if someone asks me (and they're not a chud). sorry for stealing ur valour
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>>43062808
there's no valor in being nb, it's deeply shameful and humiliating

t. theyfab
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>>43062808
It's fine you technically fit in the definition because non-binary is cloudy and undefined
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>>43062789
I don't have pronoun preferences but I'm afab
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>>43062822
You just say that because you do it for validation. Stop doing that and everyone will be happier yourself included
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>>43062860
you can sit with us. people would call you theyfab derogatorily
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>>43062873
who tf would validate a theyfab? don't be stupid
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>>43062893
That just proves my point to not seek validation that way.
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>>43062921
Nta but I'm literally dysphoric, but somehow it's seeking validation because I don't want to go all the way?
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i guess this is me. how did you know you were enby and did you try binary transition yet?
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>>43060284
experiences about what exactly... being non binary? its cool i guess! i feel a lot better about myself and pretty liberated though really i was already going for androgyny when i thought i was just cis but. regardless i feel better and more in touch with myself even if i never really cared about how i was perceived back then and i still dont now
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>>43062860
hey twin
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why are there so many more theyfabs than theymabs
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>>43063001
T microdosing, top surgery, and hopefully a hysterectomy in the future
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>>43062846
i want to be cloudy and undefined
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>>43063001
>how did you know you were enby
I knew there was something wrong with me because I was 11 and googling weird stuff like "how to remove my uterus" "can you remove uterus with a vacuum cleaner." transgender people did come up in the search results but I was totally disgusted by pooners.

Learned about nonbinary freaks from tumblr and realized I had some things in common with them.

>>43063125
yeah
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>>43063125
Mood
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>>43057461
wow this is a pretty good turnout for an attempt at an enbygen i would never get this many replies when i tried to make one
anyway the resistance to any kind of medical transition by most nonbinary spaces/people is very cringe to me so ive decided im not nonbinary anymore
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>>43063206
What kind of medical transition do you pursue? Do you see yourself as a man/woman now?
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>>43062941
>Literally dysphoric
>Don't want to go all the way
Hating your femininity isn't the same as dysphoria.
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>>43063375
Why tho
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>>43063432
Because social construct.
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>>43063236
im on estrogen injections. kinda see myself as a woman but people seem to perceive me as a teenage boy so thats my life i guess
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>>43061808
yeah, cuz theyfabs usually just use t for a year or so and then stops or just microdose it to not become a moid
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>>43063454
Oh so you're just speaking nonsense
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>>43063752
No, there's sex and gender. Different. One is a social construct, the other a biological construct. You take your dislike for the social construct out on the physical one.
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>>43063206
im surprised there still isnt an enbygen
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>>43063206
>...the resistance to any kind of medical transition by most nonbinary spaces/people is very cringe to me...
yeah this is the most annoying thing abt them
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>>43064086
you can see a ton of failed attempts at a consistent enbygen if you check the archive. they just never consistently get made because they either devolve into people arguing or get no activity. then whoever was making the threads is over it and no one else cares to make more
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>>43064315
Like the people talking shit to theyfabs?
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>>43064343
I feel this is a mutual talking of shit.
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>>43063555
I'm perceived as one too, but going from the othe way
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>>43064809
You're on estrogen injections and you perceive yourself as a young boy but people call you a woman?
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>>43065061
Lol no
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>>43065101
You're on testosterone, you see yourself as a man, but people think you're a young boy?

That seems like a victory condition.
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>>43064086
>>43064315
the gen threads are cringey circlejerks. not to my taste
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>>43063001
Well in a social sense I've never fit in, I'm not sure how much I can share but I was isolated heavily from everyone for a long time ever since I was a little kid and was forced to do stuff I regret, even my damn speech is awkward due to a lack of socialisation plus I never liked being perceived as masculine either, I'm on female hrt and getting laser hair removal but I'm not really sure what I want to do from here, I'm just enjoying the androgyny and confusion that some people get when they see me, I don't think I get on well with even other queers since a lot of ya'll grow up relatively normal when compared to me too
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>>43063651
me but with microdosing e to not become a man or woman
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>>43061160
Of course I want friends but its hard for me because I dont know how to socialize and dont know what to say or how to lead convos and also there is a big fear that people on the internet will turn out to he weird, and also that I am kinda flakey and end up not replying to people for ddays so its hard to maintain frens. And I am very sensitive and everyone is mean
Um
I might try to make friends again at some point; but for now im pretty content being alone :)
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u guys know that microdosing hormones doesnt really do anything right
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>>43066117
Aren't you the one claiming who has been using a picture of a pornstar from Reddit and claiming it is you?
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>>43066131
speak for yourself im a tiny little enby with low hormones to begin with so a little goes a long way <3
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>>43066177
Im not doing that idk what to tell you its literally picture and video of me bro you can believe what you want idk why you would say a boldfaced lie like this because lying makes you lose any credibility baka and its weird to Say this in a separate thread This is why im not posting in ftmg because of weird accusations like this that have no basis.
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>>43066227
Wasn't a bold faced lie. Someone showed the videos of the porn star and one of the videos literally shows the picture you use
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>>43066243
.... no they didnt
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>>43066243
? Like wtf
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>>43066258
They did, it was some random ftm camwhore. They linked the videos on redgif and did a side by side comparison. You used their picture.
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>>43066282
Ok ive recorded cam whore videos like but never posted them on reddit or redgifs so If this is true what ur sayinf then if someone posted my terrible low quality video kek
Ive been lurking in ftmg how come I didnt see this then?
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>>43057634
Case #3347361 of theyfabs being total opticsnukes and not taking it seriously.
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>>43057634
You don’t have dysphoria probably, you seem like you just want things.
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>>43066300
This gaslight making me lose my mind trying to get me to believe ive been making porn for over a year (like what you said was the case)
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baka desu senpai
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>>43066300
The porn star has like 30 videos. You stole their picture to pass it off as your own. No one has ever seen any of your camwhore stuff because it doesn't exist. You're a larper
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>>43066346
post it i wanna see it
or post name
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>>43066380
It's a blue board, you can't post porn here without getting a ban
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>>43066455
Solo stuff or they get fucked?
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>>43063092
>>43063131
hmm well not me im mtf hieghthon coping
>>43065459
>I'm just enjoying the androgyny and confusion that some people get when they see me
yes i relate to that. even before hrt that was what i said i wanted but after i assumed it was just secret cope. now im not so sure and i think i like androgyny. like i wanted to say i wasn't genderfluid because im old and thats like a teenager tumblr thing and its kinda like admitting im mega autistic. but i really do feel that way and how i feel and presentation changes drastically seasonally and even from day to day. sometimes i have crippling dysphoria about body hair and being moided and sometimes i kinda like it and being a clocky twink moder. and i also feel secure male presenting in like factory hardware store type settings and being perceived as a women in those situations would be weird to me. but in friendly/social settings the opposite. the main thing i dont want is masc male attention or femme attention because of and due to my height/masculine traits and expectations of trad gender roles. but e mono has been fantastic for my confidence self image and mental health like the biggest difference of anything ever so that made me think i was binary. not really stressed about it anymore i stopped the damage so ive got time its just interesting
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>>43067423
Personally I just do my thing and let people read me like they want, I don't even correct them because what's the point? I already desisted on the idea of being understood. That's why on paper I'm doing a binary transition even if not quite
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>>43066667
Solo from what i saw



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