Anyone else feel as though they're always wasting their time?>I have casual sex with someone, I feel empty and unfulfilled afterwards.>I post cute pics online, and I feel like I only get attention from creeps and gooners.>I make online friends but we always end up drifting apart and usually not meeting up irl.>I look for dates to form an actual long-term relationship, but everyone just seems to be looking for casual sex, or not my type, or I'm not theirs.>I do none of this and just focus on more productive life stuff, but feel lonely and like I should be doing one or more of the above.Do I just have to do this shit until I'm old and unlovable or is any of it actually worthwhile? I often feel quite unfulfilled.
>>43063225Sounds like you're low T. Go outside more, lift weights, and eat more meat.
>>43063225Denji moment
>>43063387>eat more meatthe Massachusetts Institute of Technology found that a high protein, low carbohydrate diet can cause increased irritability in men. They found that men often mistake their cravings for healthy carbohydrates found in vegetables like potatoes, rice, corn, and squash, with cravings for the protein found in meat.
>>43063401Just don't replace carbohydrates with meat and eat more meat
>>43063225unrelated but picrel is so funny to me because the only game in there even remotely popular with real women is skyrim
>>43063225Dating is kind of a numbers game. I’m guessing if you keep going like this, and are clear you’re looking for something long term, you’ll find someone. If you have a circle of friends who get together regularly they can indirectly be a good way to meet a potential partner. I have a couple overlapping groups of friends who go out regularly. They often bring along coworkers or other people I don’t know, and a lot of them have seemed like they’d be great options for dating. Finding people this way has the added benefit of them being vetted by people you already know and respect, and they’re more likely to have things in common with you than a total stranger.
>>43063225>>I have casual sex with someone, I feel empty and unfulfilled afterwards.that's cuz he don't do no aftercare...the only reason any fem being had sex is because of aftercare...i wouldn't have sex if he didn't lay in bed with me, giving me hugs and comfort either
>>43063627Honestly, the last guy I hooked up with, I was the one who topped, which I don't prefer. We talked in bed for a while, but it would have felt better if I was the one who got topped, with aftercare.
>>43063387Nuh uh, I'm a bottom... No meat for me... other than... uh... nvm.I probably should go outside more I guess but that wouldn't magically fix these issues.
>>43063480I'm just kinda tired of dating, because I have a low social battery. I can also be pretty anxious, but even when that's not an issue, one date which leads to nothing more just makes me feel exhausted from dating for like a month.
>>43063225I remember getting into a heated argument about this picture by saying I prefer #3 the most with a trans friend of mine. She insisted #5 was the best because it was the most 'realized as a woman' but to me those kind of clothes aren't really what women usually wear and are more aggressively sexual the way fetishists tend to be. I totally forgot that it's literally how my friend dresses irl and that I was insulting her by extension. Oops
>>43063963That’s fair, I’ve been in a relationship for a few years now and don’t miss dating at all.Friends of friends might be the best option then, since they’re more likely to be cool. You can also tell your friends you’re looking to date and there’s a good chance they’ll try to set you up with someone.
>>43064278I appreciate the advice, but you don't know my irl friends haha. They'd be more of a burden than a help.
i went through a really bad period where i stopped being able to talk in public and i thought it was so interesting watching all of the friends i had magically gotten slowly abandon me as i became a silent manmoding tranny freak. i feel like a husk - NOT REAL
>>43064347Lol yeah I guess that advice isn’t universally applicable xDGl anyway, hope you meet someone you like who’s up for something longer term.
>>43064404Jeez that sounds rough. Are you doing better now?
