What is the opposite of repfuel? Stuff like John50 that terrify you into transitioning. Could be sad or mortifying. I need it.
It never goes away
>>43066575That's the same thing as repfuel, the only difference is if you're low IQ and therefore have high time preference it will make you repress and if you're low time preference it will make you transition
>>43066647Is that a good or a bad thing do you think? Are stupider tranners more likely to be pretty and its wrong to scare them away?
>>43066575John50 is a major trans psyop considering most boomer hons seem far happier than the young shits. You could say its survivor bias, but the only tranners that seem like they genuinely enjoy life are the ones that transition after their mid 30s. The ones that are younger seem either suicidal, horribly repressed, or dead inside.
>>43066896There is a peace to be found in knowing its over I think. Like they surely know they won't/will struggle to pass and probably look chopped either way. They never had a chance to be the pretty girl, so they don't angst about it.
>>43066818*shrug*I don't know. And transition has saved my life even if I'm not a 10/10 stunner or even a passer. You just have to decide which you prefer>stay tormented by your existence for the rest of your life while it slowly gets worse and worse and eventually you either jump off a bridge or transition anyways>tank temporary extra misery and suffering from the embarrassment of transition/that fresh raw feeling of wounds opening up, in exchange for the chance of feeling okay for once in your life some dayI think anyone who isn't a retard will understand the second option is better, even if it still blows. Choosing to do nothing is a choice. Never forget that.
if you actually want to persuade yourself to transition you need to get the fuck out of here and get out of the "fuel" mentalityas much as everyone here shits on reddit, it was so important to my transition that I got exposed to the trans community there first and only came here like 2 years inpeople here will feed you all sorts of bullshit and negativity and a lot of it is coming from explicitly transphobia pieces of shit who want nothing more than to see you in emotional agonythe truth is transition is imperfect, messy, doesn't fix everything, and can be painful in and of itself, and it's still much better than what I had beforehad I not transitioned I would have died in 2023 by suicide, not because of dysphoria because I was only beginning to realize I was, but because I was so miserable for a variety of reasonsI still have bad thoughts like that sometimes but they're much rarer and I have a real future to work towardthere is a reason only a tiny percentage of people detransition because they don't want to be the gender they thought. it's like 3-5% at most (most detransition because people are assholes)if the thought of transition is even *remotely* appealing, you are in the very small group of people for whom there's a 95-98% chance you'll be better off if you transitionI'd kill to have odds like that for anything else in my lifedon't give your future away to a version of you that's obsessed with what you can't be
