what would you do with a post-op girl or boymoder who is really sad and thinks she deserves to get raped again after getting raped once (this isn't a horny post)
>>43069269Have a couple beers and shit talk her rapist with her.
>>43069269>post-opyikes
>>43069269>post-op
>>43069275i would be scared you are going to use the beer to rape me again>>43069278i thought it was a good idea at the time and i deserved to be a woman but now i know it's just another hole to rape me in
>>43069285of course I wouldn't do that. if you're not comfortable drinking we could just do the shit talking part
>>43069296he put a drug into my drink i think..idk i don't remember it's hard to know for sure
>>43069329He's a piece of shit for doing that to you. Hope he gets what he deserves
>>43069343honestly i shouldn't have been therei consider it mostly my fault
>>43069269I would avoid her because she seems to mentally ill to have around
>>43069269> get raped again Look I make my rape jokes 100% Ironically, you need help nigga.
>>43069444i mean i mostly just stay inside since and detransitioned into a boymoder too so that makes sense
>>43069269its not even fun to rape a post op girl, its like "oh im gonna have my way with you no matter what >:) but first a 30-50 minute dilation session" like what
>>43069629i don't think he dilated me first...i don't do that before sex anyway
>>43069269go out for lunch with them (will avoid bitching about vegetarian food on the high likelihood that they are for some fucking reason with trans people ik locally), play vidya and just decompress shit. everyone's got fucking demons to fight but id be damned if i cant at least backup someone going through shit.IK theres the whole cnc shit that victims may do to cope and ngl the inner homophobia / transphobia in my fetishises the suffering of trannies. I know i should be fucking killed off in some war or some other fucked up way for people who have something wrong in their head. But like id fucking lynch someone who rapes someone who doesnt wanna be raped like im the fucking KKK finding out some murderer tried to pin his shit on some random ass black guy.>>43069442Dawg, i get the whole reducing risks and shit, but at the same time it was him who was the one who thought it would be funny to rape a tranny. You didnt do jack shit besides being complacent, he was the one that did harm. Its ok to take lessons from this but like this isnt something to blame yourself for. If my unarmed ass was gonna get raped by a twat sure id rather take precautions to make sure my hairy asshole doesnt get violated again but id like to believe id place the final blame on him, granted im lucky enough to have the worst thing happen to me being a guy throwing a metal canister of either CO2 or Nitrous oxide while in a moving car, and having it hit me in the jaw with no fractures or anything.wish you the best of luck,Sincerely, an autistic chaser that thinks straight coded likes qualifies to wave the kitchen fucker flag.
>>43069786i don't think he knew i was a tranner. i think i tricked him. it's one of the reasons i'm a boymoder now.
>>43069786By straight coded i mean jerking off to like both types of tranny porn and femboy porn, that said its really fucking hard to find "femboy" porn that isnt just a trans woman. Idk if i should hang myself for liking gaydens / FTMs that identify as femboys cus the whole hating their body having tits and a disgusting cunt that bleeds but also not minding the whole being cute
>>43069819how badly has the trauma fucked you over? Given youre posting here it looks pretty bad but like do you have friends even discord peeps to share your burden with? Not even for just that specific incident but other life problems as well
>>43069269take care of her and tell her she doesnt deserve to be raped and never did. i would baby her so hard
>>43069838i used to but i kind of stopped talking to themi felt like it was cheating on my bf so i let that end and my friends since i don't want to go out i just ignored them long enough they don't ask me any more
>>43069459>detransition
>>43069269why do people think being a boymoder post op is so odd? I got my dick cut off so I could shower with the lights on. It doesnt mean I pass.
>>43070406i think they think the doctors make us be girls but that's like literally one appointment if at all
>>43069275hi im a boymoder whos been raped this is so sweet thank you anon this made me smile
>>43070867few pains that can't at least be alleviated by sharing them with a friend over beer. hope you have a friend like that and that you get better nona
getting raped was the best thing to happen to them.
>>43071181please don't say this it is not true
>>43069269Talk about anything but sex and just ignore all of your advances and sex jokes.
I would need to get your consent to cum inside or id have to rape both your holes desu
>>43071266i don't like sex>>43071268i have to consent or else you rape me? that seems a little unfair
>>43069269Bring her to therapy
>>43071356You like it anyways what am I supposed to do? Nothing?
>>43071376i said i deserve it for being such a failure but i didn't say i liked it
>>43071493You can like it
>>43073138that's not why i posted this threadi am sad about being raped i don't want it to happen again
>>43073176Well just consent this time and it won’t be rape babe
>>43073207not OP, kill yourself freak
>>43073221Make me
>>43073207that's like "give me your money and i won't shoot you" yeah technically it's legal and voluntary but it doesn't feel like it
>>43073249Just make yourself want it
>>43069269erm i would ask for consensual missionary
>>43073284i already said i don't like sex any more
>>43073265
>>43073295how about anal
>>43073295well then i guess nothing and ignore you?
>>43069269Can i eat it out
why is everybody being sexual in my post?
>>43073556your post is about having a pussy dude
>>43073556many people here horny for rape and too autistic to tell where it's appropriate to bring up
>>43073570every time a girl has a pussy you think about raping her?>>43073580i've noticed this
>>43073635no just sex sometimes rape if she’s a bitchwhyd you post about your pussy
>>43073655because it's important to understand what happened to me?
>>43073676and why did you have to post about your pussy to understand it
>>43073697i just didn't want people talking about my butt it's bad enough that i got raped
>>43073727what do you expect when you make a thread called what would you do with a raped pussymoder
>>43073736i said it's not for horny purposes i wanted to know if somebody would try to comfort me or something but most people here just want to rape me again which kind of proves my point about deserving it
>>43073757ok well you didn’t deserve it sorry im just horny
>>43073757because you are making it seem like you want to be raped again. If you wanted actual discourse you would've greentexted your rape and later mental feelings (deserve to be raped again) so people have more to talk about.
>>43073786i'm not good at making greentexts i have tried it never works! i said way up above before people got horny about raping me that i just kind of gave up and detransitioned sort-of and try not to go out and abandoned my friends. i punish myself a lot for it too by punching and slapping myself and obviously deserve it which is probably why it got phrased that way
>>43073805you need a hug and a kiss
>>43073821i don't think i could let myself be touchedi basically broke up with my bf or fwb or whatever that situation was because i thought i had cheated. i doubt he would even talk to me now
>>43073757I'd still have a couple beers with you and shoot the shit. I'm three beers in right now. People here can't be normal about rape unfortunately. You didn't deserve getting raped and you don't deserve the autistic freaks getting horny about it itt
>>43073851i shouldn't have let him put drugs in my drink though is the thing and then i don't remember but i doubt i put up any kind of fight and then there's the trans issue where he thought i am a woman
>>43073968You couldn't have known he put anything in there and how would you have put up a fight? That's what the drugs were for. I haven't been raped so far, but I've also been assaulted, and even without being drugged, those situations just paralyse you. It took a lot of effort to remove myself from it and I was mostly sober. It wasn't your fault at all, it could have happened to anyone
>>43074027i know someone else who was raped and she was all bruised but i wasn't actually hurt so maybe it shouldn't even countplus apparently it was a horrible thing to do to just try and move on and not seek revenge by going to the police (who i'm scared of anyway since best case they "collect evidence" ie rape me again and worst case they arrest me ie let someone in jail rape me again)
>>43074053I know many women who were raped and none of them were injured. It happens of course, but its not the most common way it happens. Only one of them went to the cops and guess what, they couldn't be arsed. You did the right thing not bothering with that, it only draws out the ordeal. What happened to you was wrong and you should blame the one who did it. It's not your fault and you deserve better
>>43074113that's what people say when i complain but you don't have to look far to see most people think i do deserve it and am horrible..and it just.. i don't think i'll ever believe otherwise. i already hated myself before this but it really didn't help.
>>43074053oh and if you look up about trans people specifically well we mostly get called rapists for existing but even the "good" stuff completely misrepresents what and how it happened which is why i said post-op in the title even if it made people horny
>>43074145Yeah, most people do buy into rape culture. That's why the cops aren't much help. Doesn't mean what happened to you wasn't wrong, just that we live in a rotten world. It's clearly taken a toll on you and guess what, if the piece of shot who did it didn't know it was evil, he wouldn't have bothered drugging you. How long has it been if you don't mind the question?
>>43074205i don't know what rape culture is. i guess he was just horny and figured i wasn't going to go home with him the normal way (i wasn't i thought he was gross). it's been about a year
>>43074205he might have thought i wouldn't remember so it wouldn't matter..i actually don't remember anything from the bar to waking up in my bed naked so it's hard to say
>>43074273like it might not have even been a rape and then i'd feel really bad for thinking it might be. and idk i had worse than any hangover i've ever had but there's no way to prove there were drugs or anything (one thing i was scared of is if the police found drugs in my blood they might arrest me for it).
>>43074205>cops aren't much helpthe cops love rape cases. They actually get prosecuted
>>43074248>i don't know what rape cultureThe idea that there are situations where you owe sex, or that if you didn't physically fight back it means you wanted it etc. Sure he was horny. He also knew you didn't want to sleep with him, to the point he chemically incapacitated you so you couldn't do anything about it. He knew he was doing something you wouldn't want. Nobody deserves that>it's been about a yearSo it's pretty fresh still. You'll need time to move on. The first step will have to be accepting that what happened to you was wrong. Don't let the freaks going giwtwm or saying they'd do it too convince you otherwise
>>43074287You're a piece of shit liar and you know it. A friend of mine needed an abortion after rape. Evidence doesn't get much more clear than that. Cops still did nothing at all, actually they told her to ask the rapist of he wanted her to keep it
>>43074287people describe what the cops would do basically arresting me and taking all my clothes and digging around in my vagina (or anus since I'm technically considered a man) and then interrogating me as if i know what happened and taking my dna and blood and everything it sounded absolutely horrible especially at a time i already felt like shit from the drugs and knew there was no evidence anyway (i think he used a condom that's another thing that gets to me)and like then what.. even if they can point it at him he says it's consensual and there's no way to prove otherwise so i went through all that just to get charged with lying to the police and the drugs in my blood. and that's if the trans thing doesn't come up. possibly he claims i raped him by not letting him know i'm not technically a woman.it just seemed like a horrible idea all around>>43074324idk a year seems like a long time. i wouldn't say it was wrong just unfortunate. like if somebody is stronger than me they get to walk on me it's just the way the world is.if he didn't think i would know he might not have thought it would matter. i guess it's a philosophy question like the tree in the woods.>>43074348yeah i don't have a very high opinion of the police
>>43074348I grew up in a cop family. Everyone knows rape cases are either a shift ender (they will take the rest of your shift) or a callout (call a detective.) Rape and homicide are the two big types of cases and everyone feels good for making a rape arrest. maybe you are in like nowhere, OKLAHOMo, but in california rape is big deal. the exception proves the rule
>>43074390oh and i didn't want to go to the hospital at the time because i knew they'd just give me to the police if they found out but i did try to get an std test from my pcp and just got told it didn't matter since i'm a tranny. so that was fun and really illustrates how much i matter to the world (not at all). i imagine the police would've been 1000 times meaner
>>43074390>idk a year seems like a long timeThe thoughts probably come and go right? One month you barely think about it, then its omnipresent for a few weeks. That's normal processing of something like that.>like if somebody is stronger than me they get to walk on me it's just the way the world is. I guess that's true in a purely mechanistic sense. Still, we're human beings capable of morals and conscience. He used drugs, anyone could do that. You could. Would you do it to someone else? If no, why not?
>>43074415I'm in Germany. Cops here don't give a fuck about rape. It's similar in most of Europe and the rest of the world
>>43074390you don't have to consent to doing a rape kit (SART exam), but it will provide proof that he had sex with you. yes they will take the cloths you were wearing because they are evidence that is extremely useful.they have to take your dna so they know what DNA isnt yoursthey have to take your blood to prove you were druggedhaving drugs in your blood isnt a crimeyou would get a DA and victim advocate and they would fight in court weather or not it was consensual. The cops will arrest based on probable cause (basicly, is there a 50% chance this could have happened). you won't get charged with lying to the police unless you lie to themyour case is strong because you were drugged which is easy to prove, but once all the evidence goes away it gets harder. Still, people report rapes that happened years in the past and they still end up with convictions. Even if you don't win in court, it will probably scare him out of doing it again and cost a lot of money. He will probably spend at least a few nights in jail. I get that trans people hate the cops, but not reporting shit is basically a free pass for the criminals to keep doing it.
>>43074490>>43074486oh I thought you were in usa. Yea you are fucked. you can rape a baby in Europe and get probation.
>>43074415i get you like it from a bored at work perspective but i wouldn't want a cop forcing my vagina open to try and dig sperm out sorryi think prisons are really inhumane too (people make bad taste jokes about rape) i wouldn't want to see anyone arrested either. how can you feel good about a thing like that?>>43074476yeah it comes and goesi don't have any drugs and i wouldn't want to hurt anyone>>43074490i don't think the police are going to ask for consent lol...i would like to keep my clothes. i paid for them how can the police just take them. i don't want my dna in a crime database. this is the usa so it's absolutely a crime to have drugs lol.now i have to hire a lawyer? the police would intentionally twist my words literally everyone says don't talk to them without a lawyer. i was just reading a news article about a girl who got a felony for being raped because the police thought it was a lie. she had to get raped again and collect a video to prove she was innocent...i don't want anyone watching a video of me having sexplus i read this shit all the time in the news (it usually makes me hurt myself thinking about it) and the idea of having my reputation damaged as being involved in a rape is horrible too.idk why you think this stuff is good it all sounds absolutely horrible>>43074504i am in the usa idk who that is
>>43074490>not reporting shit is basically a free pass for the criminals to keep doing italso why the hell is that my responsibility? the legal system doesn't even consider me the harmed party it's "the people." in england it's the fucking king as if he has anything to do with a rape. given your attitude that I have to submit to all this shit as a punishment for having been raped it's clear
>>43074582>i wouldn't want to hurt anyone Yeah because you know it's wrong and have a conscience. He doesn't, because he's a bad person. There's no point splitting hairs about it, what he did to you was wrong. You're going to need to accept that to be able to eventually move on
god i'm going to end up beating myself over this post this always happens i hate talking about this stuffi can handle someone raping me because at least he's honest about his intentions but when the system wants to cause more trauma while telling me somehow i'm being helped i just can't handle it and i know i deserve it all and more
>>43074667Don't do that. Have a couple beers to take the edge off
>>43074709i have to go deal with dinner anyway maybe i'll calm down if this is still up later i will see how i feel
>>43074773Just don't hurt yourself please. You deserve to be happy
>>43074582>cop forcing my vaginaalthough that sounds funny, a nurse does it at the hospital. Its just a swab>>43074582>i paid for them how can the police just take themfine just lie and say you threw them away. the police take them because they are EVIDENCE. >i don't want my dna in a crime database.actually a good point.>crime to have drugs lol.yea, but not to have it in your system. >now i have to hire a lawyer? the police would intentionally twist my words literally everyone says don't talk to them without a lawyer.that is when you are a suspect. >girl who got a felony for being raped because the police thought it was a liethat is one case out of hundreds of thousands.>reputation damaged as being involved in a rape is horrible too.in california it is required that the police offer you victim confidentiality. This means that in the court case and police report your name is not mentioned. yea being the victim in a rape investigation sucks. Being raped sucks. its not your fault you have to go through this. Sadly, the cops are the gatekeepers of justice in your case. >>43074623its not your responsibility. the people is the plaintiff in all criminal cases, thats just how common law is. You could sue in civil court for emotional damage (and get money), but you would need your own lawyer and the rapist would have to be rich enough to pay you. >>43074667there is no helping you. The crime has been committed. Nobody can un-rape you. You can go through more trauma to get revenge (AKA justice) or you can do nothing and try to forget about it.
>>43069269have loving sex with her, stuff her full of cum, feed her fat burgers and then cuddle while watching a movie.she deserves the world
>>43074905is this really what they teach you or are you just lying because you can?okay a cop making a nurse force my vagina openstill doesn't sound fun the day after being rapedi guess it's evidence too>fine just lieyou just told me you'd arrest me if i did that...>the police take them because they are EVIDENCEwho cares about the poor victim when there's evidence to be hadyou said the vagina thing is consensual too but that's evidence too...see why i use the word force?>actually a good pointyeah really amazing you understand thisgiven the potential for misuse maybe that's why i have severe misgivings about the rest of it>not to have it in your systemfunny because the molecules would literally be in my body>this is when you are a suspectif they can arrest two people all the better for their career>in california it is required that the police offer you victim confidentiality>it's not your responsibilityfunny because you're sure makign it out like i'm a monster for wanting nothing to do with it>to get revenge (AKA justice)that's literally unconstitutional he has to be able to cross examine me in court also he already fucking knows who i ami don't want fucking revenge i am not a bad person I DO NOT WANT TO HURT ANYONE WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU. all that does is create more harm in the world. that's not fucking justice.why is the whole fucking system geared for revenge which helps no one other than the system itself>>43074958this is not possible for me i cannot enjoy something like that ever again>>43074811i haven't but god i want to
i guess the cop has to believe in the system or else he would have a serious problem with himself but god from my perspective it hurts everyone for nothingi don't believe in force and i don't believe in revenge i don't think there's any value in trying to hurt him as if that has anything to do with my feelings so can we just shut up about thathe had the right to hurt me because he is stronger and that's just the end of it. the police are too and that's why it makes me so worked up to see rhetoric like that. i obviously deserve to be beat down but i would never do it to someone else.
>>43075562>this is not possible for me i cannot enjoy something like that ever againi sorry that happen to you sis, hope you one day you can heal from that
>>43075828it was nice while it lasted but i don't think sex is for me any more
>>43069269YOU GET WHAT YOU FUCKING DESERVE
>>43075562look cops arent 1 person. some of them are stupid but most are just trying to do things the right way. Nobody is going to force a SART exam on the victim (they can on the suspect, sometimes)you obviously don't want to go to the cops and thats ok, but the guy is gonna do it again. It's a shitty system, but we have no other way of doing it. >>43075623the system is fine, but the people in it often have bad motives. nobody deserves to be raped. The whole point of society is to protect the physically weak. I was (statutorily) raped and it ruined sex for me too. I never went to the cops either. im just trying to clear up misconceptions about how the police handle SA because everyone here is just going to tell you the police are evil etc. I think you should understand what would and wouldnt happen.
