it’s a given that all a top ftm can do is oral and toys. i have a bottom interested in sucking me off, so finding someone is no issue.problem is i’m addicted to porn. it’s impossible to maintain an erection without watching taboo porn/hentai during any form of masturbation and likely during sex too ( yet to try it with a real person ). been able to fuck toys but only while viewing porn. how do i get and stay hard in an intimate context without watching porn the entire time? i don’t want to do any of the taboo i consume in real life.
>>43072245Stop watching porn for a while
>>43072245I think the issue is you don't have a dick
>>43072322 tried many for non-sex reasons, but can’t. severely addicted. 2/3 of my day is spent on porn and masturbation and i haven’t gone a single day without porn for 9 years
>>43072334This post isn’t dick related and doesn’t require oneThe clitoris can become and stay erect if functional. That’s the goal here
>>43072340Block it on your computer and phone
>>43072360How do I completely block anything erotic? I have a handful of apps, forums, and sites that I frequent but I’m not sure I’d stop myself from finding more when I get horny and disinhibited like usual.
>>43072245malebrained struggle
>>43072245you finally became just like a real male! congratulations!
>>43072340>2/3 of my day is spent on porn and masturbationFucking go outside or something holy fuck.
>>43072245block porn sites, there's apps and addons that do it. try just sitting with an urge and not acting on it, notice what usually triggers you and just sit with it for a while, it teaches your brain discipline rather than just giving in. if you usually watch porn more at night for example just put your electronics somewhere that's inconvenient to get to, or one of those timed lockbox things if you have to. get hobbies or go to the gym more to do something productive with your horniness. nofap will also probably make you relapse so let yourself jerk off once in a while but try to avoid porn while doing it and use your imagination instead. unironically just getting a bf/gf will help, if you can get off to them your brain will eventually readjustnot saying this shit is easy, it literally took me getting on e (i'm mtf) to stop my porn addiction, before that i was severely addicted like you, but then again i didn't try my very best
>>43075346I’ve been addicted before I ever went on testosterone. It’s not to blame >>43075259Doesn’t make it any easier. Still sucks>>43075416Not as easy as it sounds, but I understand.
>>43075523Appreciate you. Some of these tips are pretty helpful, I’ll see if they can make any difference for me. Unfortunately it’s not just at night, I’m masturbating 24/7 and (when in a state of disinhibition) willing to ignore hunger signals, hygiene, etc. Usually stop for extremely urgent tasks (and sometimes not even then), using the bathroom, and once I finally get tired of it and stop, which can take up to 14 hours.
>>43072340Then accept your place as a porn-addicted bottom and let me dick you down.
>>43075927Retarded. Wouldn’t be able to get aroused for bottoming either, nor do I feel any need to try it
>>43075884oh yeah i was like that too, i would not go out with friends and literally just close my door and edge myself for hours. it was fucking terrible and i felt like shit afterwards, came close to pissing myself just so i could keep going i never fully quit but i did go around a week without fapping with the methods i mentioned, but i never did anything to block websites and apps, so try that
>>43076305a clean week would be life changing. it’s pleasant to hear it’s possible. i’m grateful you replied
>>43075967>Idiot self excluding from something that's even better than porn.>Too lazy to put in the effortPathetic.
>>43076453I’m glad you enjoy bottoming more than porn, but i’m not into it. Getting my shit together regardless
>>43076328i'm glad i could help, good luck anon you've got this, it'll be hard
>>43076470You don't have a dick. >Whining about being a gooner on 4chan is getting your shit togetherSterling job.You're so high up on the pyramid of needs that you're creating your own problems. Fucking retard.
>>43076501No way, really? That’s crazy but also completely irrelevant to anything I’ve said thus far. You’re welcome to keep enjoying your life as a bottom without trying to justify taking dick by projecting onto other people. >whining about being a gooner>thread is asking how to remedy issueopen the schools
>>43076516You're assuming I'm a bottom, instead of the more obvious I think you're a giant idiot.>Remedy issue>On 4chanWas it a head injury or some congenital thing? People like to hug you because they can hear the sound of the ocean from your ear.
>>43076565You mentioned you enjoyed bottoming more than porn. I have no issues with you bottoming >4chan is le hecin evil and unhelpful it’s an image board with real people. all of whom have different life experiences and advice to give
>>43076589I really didn't, you inferred because of a conversation you were having with some other reject. Plus it's hilarious that you try to use bottom and top universally as if penetrating organ vs receiving organ needs to be complicated.>4chan is a place where people go to say the dumbest shit because it's one of the few places you can say the dumbest shitSo what exactly did you expect to hear except the dumbest shit. It's like going to mental institute looking for someone to change your cars brakes. >Alex pull up the mustard gas crystals meme.I appreciate your faith in humanity, really. But how helpful has the advice been so far?
>>43076684not on me to tell two anonymous retards apart, sorry it made you feel bad. >as if penetrating organ and receiving organ needs to be complicated regressed baboon mindset. not everyone lacks the thought capacity to ascend past caveman brain >how helpful has the advice been so farone person was pretty decent. not everything you try has to succeed unconditionally. this thread was made to fish for potential advice, and will continue to do so if anyone has some to offer until it dies. not sure why this bothers you so much. maybe its better for your health to close the thread and remind yourself it can’t hurt you if you don’t look at it
>>43076864Your apology is accepted. >Hurr durr you're retarded for having sex normallyHow hollow is your life that you literally have to ratchet up your difficult level just to get moist. You know we evolved to enjoy it because it's an effective way to get enjoyment. You're like the next level of "it's not a phase mooom" till you psychologized it. >The advice has been okayI suppose 1 percent isn't a zero. Especially effective if you don't plan on following any of the advice anyway. You'd have a better chance finding someone to plow your furrow so you actually get oxytocin and not just dopamine.
>>43072245Gooner pooner, kek. Bet your room is a biohazard. But hey, credit where it's due, if you stop typing in lowercase nobody will clock you on here. Heaven knows that's a rarity.
>>43078819Do pooners usually type in lowercase? I always assumed phone = auto caps, laptop = lowercase
>>43079101Women (and those who wish to be perceived as women) often type in lowercase, presumably because it's softer and more feminine. If OP stopped doing it "he" would come off as your average coomer male.
>>43079114Huh, pooner with a male typing style maybe porn makes your brain male
>>43079114damn. I have autocorrect off and only capitalize “I” when I remember to
