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anytranny else who got kicked out from their parents' got any advice?

mothers been screaming at me for being too exhausting and useless and is now initiating kicking me out with authorities, which she has to do because she among others gets my disability money for taking care of me. dunno what to do. honestly felt this coming, but ive never lived alone and i dont know how any of that shit works. ill probably be put into disabled communal living or some other sort of living housing facility or institution thing since local "youth office" is for up to 25 year olds and im legally disabled.

how do you live on your own? how does one survive? why does one want to, even.
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maybe im also just having retarded emotions but i dont have anyone to talk to idk im kinda scared im just gonna dissociate my brain away
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>>43074649
haven't gotten kicked out yet and I don't have a plan in case I do but I'll give you a bump
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What kinds of disability do you have?
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Sometimes I feel I′m gonna break down and cry
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>>43075089
i have level 2 autism and adhd, severe depression and a whole range of mental illness. and some yet to be diagnosed physical condition that makes my joints constantly subluxate, gives me weird long episodes of hardly being able to move and makes most foods inedible to me as well as a bunch of chronic pain.
>>43075166
same
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>>43074649
>>43075254
born to be groomed into a unhealthy transbian relationship
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>>43074649
Jesus I’m sorry OP, I don’t have any advice but that’s awful this is happening to you. I hope when this is all resolved you end up in a workable situation. Good luck with whatever’s next <3
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>>43074649
Government work at a desperate municipality. Try dispatcher or record room clerk.
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>>43077889
That sounds like a good plan.
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>>43074649
Try to get everything in order anon.

Is there a support worker you can get help from, their job is to know what to do in situations like this?
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>>43077889
i dont know what any of these words mean :D
>>43079998
i will likely have someone of the youth office thing to talk to but theyre nor known for being particularly considerate.
i called them once when my mother was threatening violence again and they came over, listened to her lie about everything, told me to just go to school more and left.

im completely lost on what ill be eating, what ill be doing there education or employment wise, what will happen to the rabbits i rescued 6 years ago.. theyre probably the main reason i didnt move out when i was still somewhat functional 4 years ago. i dont wanna leave them.
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>>43080028
Once you have your own place you can sneak the rabbits in.

Are there any outreach organisations you can speak to, the ones at the youth office sound awful
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>>43080059
it would not unlikely end up being a place where there is a caretaker at least once a week so i dont think being sneaky about it is an option :/
but perhaps some sort of outside organisation might help. ill be looking for local ones. can one just call them and ask for help or what does that work like? im not in the US if youre talking about a typical US thing though
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>>43080068
Fingers crossed whoever does inspections is kind and understands animals.

Definitely worth googling local advice centers, when i was homeless i managed to get my own place by making calls and explaining my situation. Does your country have a strong support network?
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>>43074649
You need to start doing google searches for your country + homeless resources. There should be better options for you if you’re not U.S. or east europoor.

You need to also get in touch with advocates for either homelessness or lgbt or both to assist not only your situation but all to be funneling that disability money back to you if your own parents are going to kick you out yet steal money owed to you.

You most likely will has to find employment suitable for your conditions, so be doing constant researches to find out what exactly those are and be communicating with your advocates.
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get on section 8
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kys quick because it never gets better
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>>43074649
Gift in disguise. Go see the world. Get good at making money. Fuck parents buy don't be afraid to beg from them. They're obligated. Good luck. It's your world, don't let them tell you otherwise.
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>>43080959
It only gets better. I met my tranz bestie a week after she tried to sui. We've been living together for years now and she's the happiest she's ever been now. We go do stuff together all the time. We're always smoking weed and drinking. Guys spoil us. It's pretty based. And we make decent money. We're living the life.
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>>43080982
well not me. congrats on your lottery. i hope one of those guys eventually paints your brains over the wall because he realizes ur faggotry
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>>43080988
You seem nice
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>>43081003
you seem like a pasty cockgoblin
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>>43081007
I am pale and like gobblin’ cocks ;)
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>>43081017
congrats on grooming your suicidal 'friend' into sex work, small wonder people want trannies put in camps
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>>43081025
Oh I’m not the anon you were initially responding to, I have no opinion on their situation. I was just surprised how quick you were to wish violence on them
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>>43080982
So mad to see young people enjoying themsleves and having fun

:)
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>>43074649
I was homeless once, but this was in a different time (2009, when America still believed in government helping people) so there were more resources. I recommend finding the best homeless shelter you can, preferably one that will help you get back on your feet
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damn this escalated

it sucks but i am also looking forward to not having to live with these people anymore. idk if ill make it for long because of my bad conditions but theres no need to rush for me to kill myself right now, that option isnt going anywhere.
idk if my parents just want to kick me out or want to fully disown me, but theyre likely gonna be legally forced to support me materially for at least a few more months.

i guess im just emotionally lost. i dont know any people irl in a situation like this and i dont have any friends to talk to, and im not particularly good at dealing with my own feelings
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>>43074649
Give me some way to send you some money. I don’t have advice but I want to help.
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>>43082388
Try to find irl communities to embrace. Just being around people that welcome you will do a lot for your mental health. Avoid being isolated or alone if you can manage. Slowly work towards making friends but remaining humble.
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what is your disability
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>>43082388
It does sound like you’ll ultimately be better off away from your family. Not a huge piece of advice, but remember your local library if you need some place you can kill time at day to day. You don’t have to spend money to be there, you’d have internet access and printers for looking for work and housing/filling out documents, and they’re community hubs where you might be able to find resources that could help you.
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>>43082519
>>43082563
both good call. thanks.
now i somehow cant wait to get out. i have accepted my fate quickly.
i cant stand this place. i hate it. so much.



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