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i understand how imagining themselves as more feminine can be hot to trans women, but like, whats the appeal in MEF???? how are some cis men into that, whats even the appeal??? statistically they cant ALL be reppers but how can someone who isnt a repper be into that???
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>>43075840
The fuck is MEF? Isthis a new AGP/HSTS?
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>>43075840
it's pretty similar to a BBC fetish. they view being female as inherently humiliating and so get off on the humiliation. just like a BBCfag views black people as inherently brutish and animalistic and so get off on white women being humiliated by fucking them. same thing with shit like FUB, NTR to an extent, etc.
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>>43075840
There is a MEF general >>43067774
Just ask there. You'd get a lot of answers. No need for another thread.
>>43075880
>they view being female as inherently humiliating
Uh... no.
t. MEF
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>>43075909
Uh... yes. That's literally the root of the fetish. If that isn't what it is for you, you have AGP not MEF.
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>>43075957
for me it was my sister putting me in a princess dress at age 6 or something and then my parents finding me wearing it
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>>43075957
>That's literally the root of the fetish
No, it's not.
The root is emasculation. I wanted to no longer be a man. The logistics and how to become a woman became apparent much later.
The AGP/MEF overlap and distinctions are currently being discussed in the MEF general thread.
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>>43075957
They get off to having their masculinity be taken away from them
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>>43076068
>I wanted to no longer be a man.
That's not MEF you fucking retard. You are AGP. MEF is not at all what you are describing.
>>43076121
It's not that simple. A lot of people erroneously think MEF stands for "male emasculation fetish" but that makes no sense. It's a redundant statement. It actually stands for "masochistic emasculation fetish". There has to be an element of masochism in MEF otherwise you're just AGP.
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>>43075957
Mef doesn't fucking mean anything anymore because idiots don't know what the acronym even stands for
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>>43076224
I would argue having something taken from you, with you having little say on the matter, is pretty masochistic
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>>43076242
It's not just the act of it being taken away. It's anxiety/humiliation from it being taken away. Things like SPH, femdom, etc. If you just get off on being a girl or forcefemmed it means you're AGP.
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>>43076224
Yeah, of course I'll listen to my sexuality and life being explained to me by an anon.
I have exactly zero elements in common with agp (no gender euphoria from crossdressing, no childhood stories, no explicit dysphoria) but, sure, you know better.
Sage.
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>>43076268
There's no need for anxiety or humiliation
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>>43075840
they have internalized shame for being sexually submissive, MEF often involves non consensual fantasies that removes the responsibility from them allowing them to experience their submissive nature.
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>>43075840
yeah i dont get it at all either. or humiliation of any kind or getting off on shame and stuff like that. its really really weird to me

>>43076224
>There has to be an element of masochism
i didnt know humiliation was a part of masochism until just now. i always thought it was about pain. those two are totally separate things for me

>>43076268
>femdom
also quite strange to me that femdom is about like ballcrushing and humiliation. i always thought of it as gentle fd and about like scenes, control, pain, edging, denial, with what is considered fd being like in add on and separate but i guess most people think gfd as less common

>>43078098
i also consider submission a separate thing. but the shame fits what ive heard.

idk why that one anon is denying it whenever MEFs post here its always about getting people to indulge in calling them a shameful loser sissy faggot in an annoyingly public way and you can tell they get off on making people uncomfortable too
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>>43076272
I used to think I got euphoria from crossdressing, but over time, I feel like it comes more from feeling removed from the male role completely, as well as the possibility of fitting in with women. I realized this after being ma'amed day to day and feeling nothing. Day to day womanhood is just not enticing.
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>>43075840
MEF is generally a psychosexual manifestation of repressed dysphoria. Once I trooned out, I stopped being interested in that stuff. Some folks won't troon out and they will keep loving that stuff.



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